outcall issues - condo guard
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my condo guard saw an SP go to my place...the next time i saw him he asked who she was and whether she was a hooker...seein i was cool with him, i gave him her number .. now at the time , i thought"whatever"...but on second thought, what if she was my GF? not a good situation
Yes. Absolutely. You don't know who that $11 security guard is friends with. You really don't. You're naive if you think it's not a small world. I didn't say he would be in the same social strata, but social strata aren't nearly as stratified as you're pretending they are. Lots of people have a brother or a cousin or old highschool friend who went through a different path in life.
Are you retarded? You sound like you've been watching too much Sopranos. If the moron was the type to spill his "whoring ways" years after he gets canned as-gasp-revenge, guess what?- he was probably the type of loser that told all his friends while is was employed because that to him was "big news"in his sad world. He didn't need "an axe to grind" or further provocation to be so pitiful.
Whether or not someone will 'retaliate' shouldn't be the gage of whether you should speak up when someone oversteps their bounds, otherwise you're only letting otherwise powerless people control your life.
The moron was the type to confront the guy about it. We already know he's the type in this case. It's not in question...
Who knows, the next $11 guard might be one of those idiot born again Christians who believe that it's their duty to interfere in your life and save you from hell. There are a lot of crazy people out there, and a lot of those crazies are in $11/hr jobs. If they were people who had their shit together and always behaved in rational and intelligent ways they'd be earning more than $11.
Who knows, the next $11 guard might be one of those idiot born again Christians who believe that it's their duty to interfere in your life and save you from hell. There are a lot of crazy people out there, and a lot of those crazies are in $11/hr jobs. If they were people who had their shit together and always behaved in rational and intelligent ways they'd be earning more than $11.
This situation again is black and white. If the condo guard, security officer, "concierge" or whatever tf they want to be called is hassling guests about their reasons for visiting, he should be out of a job.
Also agree with fuji, there are also good reasons not to bring outcalls home, I stopped doing so ages ago after one bad experience. However do also appreciate the fear of a "found in" situation, especially for those in certain professions or social circles, and while the risk is low, the consequences can be devastating.
We all have different risk tolerances. But if I'm paying condo fees to employ someone to "mind the entrance" of the building, he should bloody well mind his own business or be out of a job. I sounds like management acted appropriately, and that the op was not the only resident affected.
Also agree with fuji, there are also good reasons not to bring outcalls home, I stopped doing so ages ago after one bad experience. However do also appreciate the fear of a "found in" situation, especially for those in certain professions or social circles, and while the risk is low, the consequences can be devastating.
We all have different risk tolerances. But if I'm paying condo fees to employ someone to "mind the entrance" of the building, he should bloody well mind his own business or be out of a job. I sounds like management acted appropriately, and that the op was not the only resident affected.
I really hope that no lady would actually consider this and no agency would ask this of a lady working with them unless they have gone through a thorough verification process much like the one that would be required for a travel date. One of the reasons outside workers are considered a little more vulnerable to violent assaults is because of the fact that they readily hop into the car of their dates then are driven off to secondary locations where no one knows where they are, no one is expecting to hear from them for hours and no one is looking for them. No agency should ask a lady to do this, I would say that an agency that did is not respecting the safety of the ladies working with them, and no lady should agree to it.
I'm not saying this is your intention but rather that the ladies working in the industry should take care to protect themselves and to mitigate risk. Hopping into a car to go into an underground garage where she is not likely to have cell service, going to a condo where unless she is able to contact police and they respond to her call for help there will be no way for anyone to reach her isn't exactly low risk. Of course this is assuming that once in the car the person actually takes her to the garage and/or condo instead of another location where no one will know to look for her.
I wouldn't even recommend accepting that date with a workplace verification as there are far too many ways that the lady loses should her date turn out to be violent.
@Fuji, so based on what you just said, the reason why ppl make so little an hour is bc they're /irrational/incapable and overall CRAZY because as you say "If they were people who had their shit together and always behaved in rational and intelligent ways they'd be earning more than $11."
Therefore, of course they're going to act the like 1(ONE)condo guard bc that's just what ppl who make less $$ do??? Holy way to paint the entire lowerclass with one enormous fuck you stroke.
FYI buddy, crazies come in all shapes and sizes, and all income brackets. Deviant, shady,crazy behaviour isn't reserved solely for the poorer, but I guess that whole Wallstreet collapse just fazed over you right?
From my experience, the most morally corrupt, backstabbing, revengeful behavior has been from ppl who are higher on the corporate ladder and I have met the most honest, hardworking morally outstanding individuals who didn't make much $, and vice versa.
Bottle line:MONEY DOESN'T DICTATE BEHAVIOUR, IT ONLY BRINGS OUT YOUR TRUE SELF!!!
So no, the lower wage bracket isn't reserved solely for the stupids who are waiting to unleash their crazy on tenants such as Afterhours; it's reserved for people who are either less fortunate to make more $, or are content making that much. It doesn't mean they "don't have their shit together" or theyr'e crazy!!! It does make you, however sound..how do I say this politely......Republican???
This particular creep was making $11/hr and he would still be a creep if he somehow made $111/hr; he would just be fucking over richer ppl lol.
Like I said before, lay off the "would they, they could, what if, " neurotic drivel and deal with each individual cases as it happens based its appropriate consequence, not based on (your very warped) perspective of how individuals might react based on their socio-economic background.
Therefore, of course they're going to act the like 1(ONE)condo guard bc that's just what ppl who make less $$ do??? Holy way to paint the entire lowerclass with one enormous fuck you stroke.
FYI buddy, crazies come in all shapes and sizes, and all income brackets. Deviant, shady,crazy behaviour isn't reserved solely for the poorer, but I guess that whole Wallstreet collapse just fazed over you right?
From my experience, the most morally corrupt, backstabbing, revengeful behavior has been from ppl who are higher on the corporate ladder and I have met the most honest, hardworking morally outstanding individuals who didn't make much $, and vice versa.
Bottle line:MONEY DOESN'T DICTATE BEHAVIOUR, IT ONLY BRINGS OUT YOUR TRUE SELF!!!
So no, the lower wage bracket isn't reserved solely for the stupids who are waiting to unleash their crazy on tenants such as Afterhours; it's reserved for people who are either less fortunate to make more $, or are content making that much. It doesn't mean they "don't have their shit together" or theyr'e crazy!!! It does make you, however sound..how do I say this politely......Republican???
This particular creep was making $11/hr and he would still be a creep if he somehow made $111/hr; he would just be fucking over richer ppl lol.
Like I said before, lay off the "would they, they could, what if, " neurotic drivel and deal with each individual cases as it happens based its appropriate consequence, not based on (your very warped) perspective of how individuals might react based on their socio-economic background.
Act like you own the place and nobody bothers you. That goes for the client or SP. "I'm an invited guest", said snootily enough works.
Sometimes you also have to worry about more than just the stiff behind the security desks. If you're not a totally anti-social slob and do have casual relations with your neighbors, some of which may be cute women, it is best to go through some alternative methods to get the girl into your place.
To Kyra, what about the appts that may start off at a restaurant & then end up at a condo/hotel. In those cases you are not being dropped off at your ultimate location. If the agency knows where you are going and it is a short distance to the meeting spot, then quite easy for the driver to follow you there.
To Kyra, what about the appts that may start off at a restaurant & then end up at a condo/hotel. In those cases you are not being dropped off at your ultimate location. If the agency knows where you are going and it is a short distance to the meeting spot, then quite easy for the driver to follow you there.
I agree!
If you've seen the client before and are meeting in a public place like a hotel bar or restaurant that could be an exception. I've done this many times, never any problems.
There is some validation to this comment. If you're the guest, walk like you've been there often!
Ok. So let's just leave it at that. It doesn't really detract from the point which is you never know WHO your condo guard is friends with, or relatives with, or whatever--and you don't really know whether he's the type that might have an axe to grind, and whether he'll grind it at your expense.
You know unlike pretty much ANYONE else who might be clued in to what you're doing condo guards have practically nothing to lose by outing you. The others who would know--the escorts, the drivers, bookers, and so on, have as much to lose as you do by outing you.
The condo guard, however, can have a good belly laugh at a party regaling everyone with the stories of the lewd stuff he saw go down on his shift, pointing to you and laughing as the growing crowd joins him in the running joke that is now your life.
Sure you can call management and complain about him, and then the security company that employs him will rotate him to a different building. He'll probably appreciate the change of scenery. Even if that security company actually fires him, it's an $11 job. He can get another equally shitty job somewhere else without much trouble. He's got little to lose.
It's really better to avoid that.
