I am not cowering nor am I subservient. I do applaud this woman for what she did.
I intended to encourage more discussion along the lines of the issue KBear raised, that of what exactly will be accomplished at the moment. I also suggest that losing your temper is not smart.
You need to know when to take advantage and when to be more careful. For example, being pulled aside for secondary inspection at Customs is NOT the time to stet mouthing off, lest you want to risk being banned from the US.
Two examples from my personal experience:
1. I was pulled over for a burned out headlight Fair stop. Cop asked what I had in the back of my vehicle under a blanket and I told him what was there. He asked if I minded him having a look. I said that, with due respect, that although I have nothing to hide, I would not consent to a search but that I would not interfere with him. He said, "Oh you know your law, are you a lawyer or something?"
I politely replied that I think we all should know our rights under the Charter as it makes for a better society. He replied that he could "make this stop difficult and write a book of tickets".
I replied that I suppose it would be as easy for me to request a trial for ten tickets as for the headlight ticket and that I think the JP might consider that ten tickets was some sort of evidence of retaliation for my lack of consent to his request to search my vehicle.
Surprisingly, the cop replied that he appreciated me being civil and not loosing my cool and getting angry etc. I said I know he is just doing his job protecting society but that I am just doing the same thing! He laughed and told me to to get lost, he didn't have time to write me a ticket now.
Second example was driving down I-75. Got stopped by Deputy Beaufort T. Justice with more fucking flashing lights than a UFO. License, ownership and insurance. Asked where I was going. Said this was a known corridor for interstate drug transportation and asked if I would mind if he had "a look around yer veeeee-HICKLE" .
Now, he had no probable grounds but I was not a US citizen so was unaware of my rights as a non-citizen (US and CDN Constitutional/Charter rights have different applicability in Canada vs USA vis a vis "person" or citizen) and I knew that the more cooperative and polite I was, the faster I got rid of him and got on my way to where I was going.
I agreed and he replied, that (agreeing to the search) was "good enough" and let me on my way.