About dating today's young women: a young male's perspective

GPIDEAL

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Hey for $200. bucks I get what I want and don't have to listen to "you want me to do what"......with an SP I get a smile and hear "what ever you want babe" got to love it. In the long run it costs a lot less for the SP than wining and dining a "straight" girl.
Hey I'm not arguing with you on the just paying for sex part, but I wouldn't even say "here's $200, let's fuck" to an SP unless we were having fun role-playing.

In fact, treat them nice, and your mileage should improve whether GFE or PSE.
 

deep_blue

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LOOL.

I always chuckle whenever members of the male species try to understand us lol, they are always so far from the mark.

No offence intended gentlemen, please continue....this is entertaining :)
Then maybe you should contribute something tangible to the discussion then. Do educate us, I sincerely would love to hear your perspective.
 

GG2

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Then maybe you should contribute something tangible to the discussion then. Do educate us, I sincerely would love to hear your perspective.
She wouldn't know where to start. How do you ask an emotional creature to look objectively at itself?

But for those of us observing, there's no mystery to understanding women.
 

kono

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I've traveled to many places around the world, US, Europe, China, Australia, South America and I can tell you that it's a Toronto thing without question. Women here for some reason or another are just super stuck up (good looking or not). They'll never give you thee time of day. If you were to go to Montreal on the other hand, you'd have no problems talking to women. Way more open and friendly.

If you look at the US, there are a number of places ie Columbus Ohio where women hit on you. I have to say that was such an empowering feeling having the roles reversed (Very surreal). All this just confirms what I've always thought of Torontonian women.
I've had friends visit from abroad and they've all come to the same conclusions.

Yes women do like a confident man but in the GTA it seems you need more then that. Game? That's why I always say to find someone outside the GTA. 1 - you don't have to deal with all the stuck-up-ness and 2 - the odds of you finding a quality woman are much greater. But that's IMO
 

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It's been a while, but I'll weigh in on this.

It's different here. The more times I visit Toronto, the more this is apparent. Judging from all the similarities of experiences about how hard it is to date girls in Toronto etc. etc. etc. When you travel, you realize that the reality of dating here need not apply elsewhere. Compared to the other places I have been to, dating in Toronto is simply absurd. Really. And most of the girls here are simply clueless as to what makes a guy tick. Turn it around. Most girls here don't take the time to find out what really turns a guy on or what he finds attractive. If they did, they would know it's not just boobs and tits, but the proper attitude as well.

For example, if a girl thinks about what you like to do (I'm not talking sexually here, although this is also important), what shows you like to watch, what makes you feel good etc. and takes the time to do them, that shows a proper attitude. If she does them without making you feel like you have to bankroll your relationship just to keep her, and approaches your relationship with the sole purpose of taking care of you, that's the proper attitude. That's not an equality issue. This is an issue of respect and interest. I have seen the difference. The thing is, girls here are too self-centred, egotistical, and conceited to think about pleasing a guy. Which is why we pay for a professional.

When I have been outside of Canada, I have noticed that in the places where you would expect the girls to be more stuck up than Toronto, this wasn't the case. In fact the girls were so nice, that I had a hard time initially adjusting as I wasn't used to all the attention. And from girls that are WAYYYYYYYY hotter than the girls in Toronto. By a large margin. And they were actually very nice and the experience was very positive. Its not that the girls in Toronto are hot that they can be stuck up, it's that they mistakenly think that there is no one better, and that they are the best, and feel that they can behave anyway they want to towards a guy. Very similar to a spoiled child, actually. I think we have a generation of girls who are nothing more than spoiled children with a false sense of entitlement. Unfortunately, most guys are stuck here and have no alternatives, so they have to put up with that attitude. Or pay for it.

When you travel, you see the dysfunction with dating here clearly, and realize that no, it isn't the same everywhere else, and yes, Toronto girls don't make the best dates/girlfriends. Outside of Toronto, I had the best sex I ever had, with someone who would destroy most of the girls here in terms of looks, and better than the highest end SP I have seen here (and I've seen them all). She was simply gorgeous! AND smart. Extremely bright (she was with me, so she'd have to be), and AMAZING in bed. Truly spectacular. At the same time, there were literally six girls who were all hot, in their late teens/early twenties (college girls) who were all throwing themselves at me, treating me like a king. I DONT consider myself a player or anything like that. It made me realize quickly the difference between what is here and what is out there. I don't date anymore in Toronto. Waste of my time and money. I actually laugh everyday I walk in the downtown core and see some girl with the sunglasses on and that expression on her face that she is better than everyone else. Or the female administrative assistants who all cheat on their husbands and boyfriends and THINK they are actually hot.

My advice is, if you're in Toronto, stick with the MP's and SP's. Pay your fee, get your experience, and manage it with everything else going on in your life. Spending your time and money on a girl in Toronto is just not worth it anymore.

On a side note: There is a book on the Girl Power movement, and how it all relates to dating and the way men are being treated today. And why it seems to be a generational thing. I think the article I read about the book, describes how during the time of the Spice Girls and when Britney Spears was just becoming famous (around 1999) this is when it all seemed to take off. And most of the girls sucked it up at the time. That's why any man younger than 40 probably has to deal with this stupid "I am entitled" behaviour. I can't recall the title of the book, the author is female and actually argues against the girl power movement, as it is actually against the concepts of feminism (i.e. equality), and alienates men in the process. The movement disguises itself as a legitimate move towards equality in feminism, but was really a marketing campaign to encourage girls to become hyperconsumers. I wish I knew the author's name, but you can read more about the Girl Power Movement below:

http://www.suite101.com/content/gender-in-magazines-girl-power-and-the-crisis-of-masculinity-a335576

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Girl_Power
You couldn't have said it any better. And like you, I've traveled and I know what you speak of.
I've live in Toronto for 3 plus decades and it's dating and dealing with these women has made me a bitter person. But when I travel that all goes away. It's almost like non-Torontonian women are like a completely different species. Not Self Center (one sided relationship), Not Stuck up, Not Conceited and they don't feel this Entitlement which is almost child like. Moving seems to be the only options or bring your SO here.
 

Don Draper

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I've traveled to many places around the world, US, Europe, China, Australia, South America and I can tell you that it's a Toronto thing without question. Women here for some reason or another are just super stuck up (good looking or not). They'll never give you thee time of day. If you were to go to Montreal on the other hand, you'd have no problems talking to women. Way more open and friendly.

All this just confirms what I've always thought of Toronto women.
I've had friends visit from abroad and they've all come to the same conclusions.

Yes women do like a confident man but in the GTA it seems you need more then that. Game? That's why I always say to find someone outside the GTA. 1 - you don't have to deal with all the stuck-up-ness and 2 - the odds of you finding a quality woman are much greater.
Very accurate and very true.
 

krayjee

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Master Don... Could you kindly change your sig. picture. It looks to me like she's eating a cut up pussy. You did that in purpose ?
 

james t kirk

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^^^

Yes, I noticed that too and thought WTF.

Don is a freak to be sure.
 

Don Draper

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Master Don... Could you kindly change your sig. picture. It looks to me like she's eating a cut up pussy. You did that in purpose ?
Indeed I did. Brings a whole new meaning to the phrase 'Sexy Meat'.:p

It entices lust, hunger and humour all in one go. It's a keeper.
 

Samurai Joey

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Indeed I did. Brings a whole new meaning to the phrase 'Sexy Meat'.:p

It entices lust, hunger and humour all in one go. It's a keeper.
Just out of curiosity, do you have any idea what the lady in your signature pic is actually eating? From my quick glance it looks like either some type of stir-fried or marinated meat or fish.

(Also out of curiosity -- do you actually know the lady in your signature pic, or is this an image you found on the Internet? Feel free to PM me on that one).
 

GG2

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The misconception that women are hard to understand comes less from the fact that women are emotional creatures, and more from the fact females and feminists who have for the past several decades been writing editorials in Cosmopolitan-type magazines, hosting their own nationally syndicated tv and radio shows (See Oprah), and been indoctrinating males and female students about female uniqueness and complexity in the educational system. In other words we've had women who can't figure out themselves writing about it and concluding that they're too complex to be understood. This notion has trickled into pop culture and is commonly embraced by girls like Dawn@Dreammakers who laughingly reference it because they actually believe it to be true. But understanding women is actually as simple as 1,2,3 to many males (as evidenced in this thread). We know exactly what women want and how they go about getting it.
 

GG2

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another another thread filled with angry(predominantly white) males
Did you take a poll? There are more white males on this forum than any other ethnic group. Are you suggesting that they are overrepresented in this thread? If so, how do you know?

What makes you think they're angry?

No matter the issue whether it be religion, ethnic relations, gender, politics, space exploration, baking cakes - you've always shown yourself to be a complete tool.
 

Don Draper

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Just out of curiosity, do you have any idea what the lady in your signature pic is actually eating? From my quick glance it looks like either some type of stir-fried or marinated meat or fish.
It's pan seared spicy pork, cut lean. I'd love to get a piece as such but when I order it, it's much meatier.


I've heard you can also eat bark (if dire be the circumstances) but I'm sure it wouldn't be as tasty.
 

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Did you take a poll? There are more white males on this forum than any other ethnic group. Are you suggesting that they are overrepresented in this thread? If so, how do you know?

What makes you think they're angry?

No matter the issue whether it be religion, ethnic relations, gender, space exploration - you've shown yourself to be a complete tool.
they are angry because they cannot get along with women and love to complain women are stuck up and failed to see that women reject them due to their bitter attitudes. I used to post on a men's rights men forum and left because of the constant bitterness and anger and blaming women for their problems. what self respecting women would want to be with men like these?
 

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Indeed I did. Brings a whole new meaning to the phrase 'Sexy Meat'.:p

It entices lust, hunger and humour all in one go. It's a keeper.
It most assuredly does not evoke any feeling other than disgust. You usually have pretty hot sig pics, albeit with slightly creepy young Asian girl-fetish, but damn man, that pic is just gross. Why you think eating a cut-up pussy is humorous on any level is beyond me, and I had thought, beyond you. Apparently not.
 

Don Draper

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It most assuredly does not evoke any feeling other than disgust. You usually have pretty hot sig pics, albeit with slightly creepy young Asian girl-fetish, but damn man, that pic is just gross. Why you think eating a cut-up pussy is humorous on any level is beyond me, and I had thought, beyond you. Apparently not.
Because it's NOT cut up pussy but an actual piece of edible meat that coincidentally looks like one. If you don't see that it's edible food first and the humour in that also, then there's nothing to be done for you. Sorry to say.
 
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