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ajithbhay

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Dec 6, 2017
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Any tip/suggestion to get out of this addiction? Have a beautiful wife, young daughter and i know what i am gambling with. My family is everything for me and i am really feeling stressed and concerned about their health and safety. I really don't want to spoil my life for a 20 mins fun and really want to come out if this hobby. Any suggestions? Thank you.
 

Sweetface09

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Any tip/suggestion to get out of this addiction? Have a beautiful wife, young daughter and i know what i am gambling with. My family is everything for me and i am really feeling stressed and concerned about their health and safety. I really don't want to spoil my life for a 20 mins fun and really want to come out if this hobby. Any suggestions? Thank you.
What are your triggers? For me is boredom and work stress.
 

xix

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AI bombardment once a week here.

Sex Anonymous.
Close account here.
Walk backwards as @Goodoer question what brought you in.

I never knew AI had family.
 
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jimieboe

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Any tip/suggestion to get out of this addiction? Have a beautiful wife, young daughter and i know what i am gambling with. My family is everything for me and i am really feeling stressed and concerned about their health and safety. I really don't want to spoil my life for a 20 mins fun and really want to come out if this hobby. Any suggestions? Thank you.
I hear you...and feel for you. I been sticking to rub and tugs only... not the same but no risk of catching anything and if wife ask it's just a massage :)
 

Intrinsic

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I hear you...and feel for you. I been sticking to rub and tugs only... not the same but no risk of catching anything and if wife ask it's just a massage :)
The wife... "Massage with a very "hApPy EeEndIng!!!! what else goes on there? Huh? Huh? Tell me!! Oh you're so quiet now, GEE, I wonder why???
.....I know EXACTLY WHAT GOES ON!! I watch movies!"
 

Climberx

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Any tip/suggestion to get out of this addiction? Have a beautiful wife, young daughter and i know what i am gambling with. My family is everything for me and i am really feeling stressed and concerned about their health and safety. I really don't want to spoil my life for a 20 mins fun and really want to come out if this hobby. Any suggestions? Thank you.
Clearly your family isn't everything for you if you are coming here asking for advice. If it was, you would of stopped your addiction. You want to know how to stop? Tell your wife about your addiction and work through it together with her. If she leaves, well, then you learn the lesson and, will likely, have more motivation to stop this "addiction". I had a neighbor who was addicted to smoking for years and years. Didn't matter what people told him, he just wouldn't stopped. Then one day he stopped. You want to know why? He got lung cancer and had to get one of his lungs removed. He died about a year after surgery. You can either wait for the cancer to hit you to decide to stop (and hope to make it out the other end) or just take responsibility today.
 

Climberx

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Have you ever been married? If I had to guess, it's likely a NO. Single people are very judgemental about things they don't understand and experiences they haven't lived through.
How did you come to that conclusion? Hard times are often the best reality check and learning experience. And anyone who's had to suffer the consequences of their choices knows that. My post makes that very clear. The OP hasn't had to suffer the consequences of his choices, and thus, likely not very motivated to stop his addiction (because if he was, he wouldn't be posting here).
 

LTO_3

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Keeping & seeing only one escort while going into debt is not smart. A friend did something like this years ago and was about 20K in debt. He then went cold turkey until he cleared his debt. And in your situation with a family you won't be able to hide your debt forever. Just quit cold turkey and whenever the urge hits think of you family and then grab your wife and bang her instead.

LTO_3
 

GusTheRussianBarber

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Any tip/suggestion to get out of this addiction?
I can relate to your anxiety. I was caught... it was not easy. More power to you.

First piece of advice? Stop thinking of it as an addiction. It is a choice. It might be a choice you've conditioned yourself to see as an addiction, or it may be a choice you're scared to give up, or it may be a choice that fate has led you to, but it is a choice. You can stop.

I worked the Sex Addicts Anonymous program for years. It's worth looking into. If you or anyone else have questions about it, DM me. It's not a silver bullet insta-fix, but has helped a lot of people who put in the time and effort to make it work.

Since then, I've also been working on writing a book to help folks trying to break the cycle. It's particularly intended for people who find the religious context of traditional 12-step programs challenging. For those interested in this, also DM me.
 

Shaquille Oatmeal

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You could try reading the link he put up...Just sayin.
I did.
But OP is addicted to booking providers.
What does Ozempic have to do with it?
PS: The loss of appetite is how Ozempic works, by reducing blood sugar and slowing gastric emptying and may be that had a secondary effect on alcohol consumption due to feeling full all the time. But Ozempic would be the wrong drug for alcohol addiction as well.
 
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The Oracle

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I did.
But OP is addicted to booking providers.
What does Ozempic have to do with it?
PS: The loss of appetite is how Ozempic works, by reducing blood sugar and slowing gastric emptying and may be that had a secondary effect on alcohol consumption due to feeling full all the time. But Ozempic would be the wrong drug for alcohol addiction as well.
'' GLP-1 RAs appear to blunt the reward mechanism, the dopamine rush that comes with a reward, say researchers like Mansur. That could change how people feel desire, pleasure and motivation. ''
 
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