anyone ever refuse an SP?

[bazokajoe]

Yes and No.I had an appointment( 5pm) with a SP and she said I will text me at 3pm to confirm.Never got a text.She stood me up.Then when I got home a few hours later,after doing other things before coming home.She was on here and I sent her a message"thanks for standing me up"She wanted me to come back.I refused to be a)stood up again
b)waste my time driving back
c)paying a parking fee again
d)just pissed off that it happened
They want the buisness then can't keep a simple appointment.
They stand me up,they never get a second chance with me.

 

[WoodPeckr]

What if it is not bait and switch, but the SP does not look quite as nice as you thought she was (e.g. complexion worse than was pictured, but it really is her). Are you an asshole for leaving without paying anything?

Some girls still use pix that are 10+ yrs old when they were 50 lbs lighter. IMHO that is a B&S where she misrepresented herself and she deserves nothing. She wasted your time...

 

[Rockslinger]

Some girls still use pix that are 10+ yrs old when they were 50 lbs lighter.

Just attend a TERB party and you can see the SP in the flesh (although usually clothed). Problem solved.

 

[WoodPeckr]

Just attend a TERB party and you can see the SP in the flesh (although usually clothed). Problem solved.

LOL!
True, this in now however it was not the case years ago before TERB....

 

[fuji]

Frequently. I am picky. Often times SP's are not as described. I will not pay to fuck someone that I would not agree to fuck for free!

 

[fuji]

Fuji's guide to cancellation fees.

For incall: Before anybody gets naked, if you realize the girl is not as described (dishonest) just say sorry and leave, but if she is as described (so honest) but just not your type pay a small cancellation fee and then leave. After anybody gets naked the fee is 100% hers whether you leave or stay--so take a good long look at her, in reasonable light, before that point.

For outcall: Before anybody gets naked, whether she is honest or dishonest, pay a small fee and ask her to leave. After anybody gets naked the full rate is hers as with incall.

Usually the money should change hand before anybody gets naked, or at least be visible on the table, or whatever. Don't try and get it back, that's just crass. Make up your mind before that point.

The reason why incall and outcall are different have to do with consequences. In an incall situation, you simply walk away. End of story. So it is just a matter of fairness--if she was honest, but it's just not clicking, she still deserves something. In an outcall situation you want to avoid her screaming and yelling outside your door, disturbing all the neighbours. It may seem unfair to have to pay a cancellation fee to a liar, but it's far more discreet to keep her from being too unhappy.

 

[dallassomething]

I find this part funny. Or having a cancellation fee for that matter. If you have something come up or something else on your part and you have to cancel, yeah I can understand a $50 cancellation fee. However, if you show up and the SP is high, drunk, in poor hygiene, or otherwise indisposed, why should you pay anything? If an SP cancels because a guy smells like he hasn't seen a shower in a week, does she give him a quick BJ on the way out? I don't think so, and she shouldn't.

With that said, I don't see anything wrong if you want to be a nice guy and pay for her trouble. You just shouldn't feel obligated.

I agree - it would be hilarious if stinking drunk clients get a tip BJ just for showing up but aren't allowed to stay. lol. I'd do it all the time!

Seriously though, I think in my situations paying something was okay (for me at least) - although I haven't experienced a B&S and don't think I will pay for it if I do - I think the girl with the bad complexion had her photos touched up so wasn't really a B&S and I felt like I'd taken up her time - she might have scheduled someone else if it wasn't for me. And strung-out girl seemed like she may be a trouble maker - sweet but unwell - I think about her. Asian mix girl - we were already undressing when I realized I wasn't going to get into it without talking to her - we were already in 10 minutes - so I definitely owed something.

 

[kaempferrand]

Yes. Only once though. It was in 2008 and was staying at the Clarion Hotel (now closed) in Montreal. Booked this girl from MSC and really wanted to meet her given her reviews. Then once I opened that door somehow for the first time I was not attracted to her at all. Not her fault but mine and I knew it would not be a good encounter so I gave her $40 and said I had an emergency and had to leave.

 

[Riotman]

I have only walked out once in my whole life. There have been only a few times, maybe 4 or 5 where I stayed (despite me not feeling attracted to the girl). Sessions still worked out ok.

Sometimes, if you stay based on the girls attitude and looks, the session may end up worse !!

So its a gamble.. This is a hobby. Anything is possible !

Indeed.

Got into an argument with the SO one night a few years ago,went to a hotel,called something out of the phone book,asked for a young asian chick,they said they had a 20 year old etc...

Late 30's broad shows up,i roll my eyes and let her in (i was half drunk anyway),was thinking i should tell her to bail as she's not what i was looking for,before i could i was having the best BJ i have ever had,then slammed her on the bed,it was great. Glad i didn't get rid of her.

 

[diablo77]

i understand some SP's have to refuse service to clients based on a client showing up drunk/unclean etc, but has anyone had a SP show up and you refuse them?

it's happened to me several times - i won't name names, just the situations -

1st time - i booked an asian/spanish mixed girl but i couldn't communicate with for the life of me - i'd ask what she liked to do together and she'd smile, shake her head and shrug... any intimacy/chemistry was totally lost in translation and i asked her to leave after several attempts to talk. i just couldn't connect. it turns out the texts to book her were written by a 3rd person. lesson learned.

2nd time - my SP arrived late-ish, and was clearly strung out - i asked her to leave immediately.

3rd time - this time i was visiting an SP at a hotel and when i arrived a) i'm not sure she was the girl in the pictures of the advert, b) and i hate to be shallow, but her complexion was terrible, c) she was dressed in lingerie but looked kind of uncomfortable/frumpy. so i excused my self as politely as i could.


for the record - i did give each girl $ - not the whole amount, but i felt i'd booked time that she was counting on.

If it was a b&s as in your point 3, I would have left without paying a cent. What they're doing is paramount to fraud.