Anyone Regret ever starting this Hobby

[mb12ca]

Has any of you ever had great regret of starting this whole hobbying thing that we do?

The more I hobby, the more disappointing it gets and the more it affects me negatively. The only thing is that I don't believe I can stop as I am addicted to the idea of having any girl I want whenever I want, within a few hours of contacting her - it's like the feeling of ordering food delivery x 1000.

So I just have kind of accepted it as one of my weaknesses. After my first visit with an sp, I was so happy, but since then I have found my experiences, in hindsight at least (during and immediately after I am always happy) to be less and less pleasureable for so many reasons. Also, I have found that all FS feels the same no matter how hot the gir is. One thing that keeps me doing this is the fact that I don't have a woman in my life right now, and I do always enjoy the company of the opposite sex - it's much different than hanging around guys. I mean, I am married, but my wife is out of country, she doesn't want to return, and many of the woman I have know from my past have moved on to other relationships and are no longer available. Plus, if I try to start a relationship in civiain life, it is so time-consuming and often the girl wants more of a commitment than I can offer - it always ends bad. So, I feel I am going to keep going back to hobbying even though I know I shouldn't.

Don't get me wrong, I think sp's are amazing woman, it's just that they can only offer one thing and after a while it loses it's appeal if that's all that is available.

 

[1andun]

I regret starting this "hobby" every single day of my life. I have blown $100,000 and much mpr and even had to sell my house. Im trapped in this worls of SP`s and cant get out. Dont know who said it" what doesnt kill you will make sure stronger" but he was surely wrong.

 

[mb12ca]

I'm suprised by the first tow responses which are along the lines of how I feel. I thought for sure I would get dumped on by the vultures.

 

[1andun]

You dont really know your fellow terbites?

 

[freestuff]

Yes. It's like McDonald food. You crave it (even though it's bad for you) and then afterwards, you have this bad feeling in the pit of your stomach.You say to yourself that you're not going to do it again but you know you're just lying to yourself. Man, I can't believe I've wasted so much $$$ on this addiction. But we're weak and we're men so we can't break the cycle.

 

[realthing69]

The first year I started hobbying it was a lot of fun but looking back I regret it from a financial point of view.

I feel the same way about each session feeling the same that's why I'm trying to curb my hobbying.

 

[mjg1]

It's so easy, it's hard to stop! More times than not, I wish I had my money back, after a visit! If your're not rich or have a lot of disposable income, I don't recommend this hobby. I'm not rich so I need to quit.

 

[Serpent]

I got a lot into the SCs, wasted low 6 figures, don't have much to show for it today. Still I'm relatively young and trying to get into a normal relationship.

My advise to anyone who'd come on Terb would be: try to invest time, money and effort into a regular relationship if you're lonely. There's nothing here.

 

[Cycleguy007]

I gotta say, I am rather surprised as well... the way some people go on in reviews and all. (Yes... I read reviews from time to time...)

But maybe thats the thing... even though the sex was great, you are left feeling empty a couple hrs later (kinda like chinese food LOL!) or as though something is missing... Sex is a basic human need, but so is companionship. When one comes without the other... that's when emptiness sets in.

Thanks for sharing guys. Very insightful.

 

[wet_suit_one]

Hmmm..

No regrets yet. However, it is worthwhile to hear your cautionary tales. Thanks for the heads up.

 

[realthing69]

I got a lot into the SCs, wasted low 6 figures, don't have much to show for it today. Still I'm relatively young and trying to get into a normal relationship.

My advise to anyone who'd come on Terb would be: try to invest time, money and effort into a regular relationship if you're lonely. There's nothing here.

I'm in my late 30s and that's what I've been trying to do for the last few years but it's tough out there in the dating scene.

 

[dj1470]

sometimes when i look at my bank account
but it's still cheaper than paying alimony

 

[Serpent]

I'm in my late 30s and that's what I've been trying to do for the last few years but it's tough out there in the dating scene.

True, it's tough. But when you go to bed at night:

a. you're happy you didn't waste your money.
b. you know all you need is that 1 special girl and it's a matter of time to get her.
c. you know that regular girls demand more of you as a person looks, personality etc. -- so you try to step up your game.

 

[Brill]

As the insightful rock philosophers say,

If you don't like what you've got, why don't you change it?
If your world is all screwed up, rearrange it!

 

[Danolo]

I've been hobbying for 40+ years..,. starting way back with massage parlors that were all the rage... I was young and tall and often got NO mileage cuz they thought I was a cop!

Now, at 60+ years old, my hobbying days have slowed down a bit, but I still love it.

I think for me its about that fleeting connection I can make with a SP. I have found the quickie 1/2 places just not satisfying in the long term. I may still go to one, once in a while, to relieve the pressure, but these days I look for a SP that I can connect with a bit. If, for an hour or so, I can share a happy time, some sexual intimacy, and mutual respect, then that is what I want.

I'm not looking for a wife, I have one of the best; I'm not looking for a life long friend, I have a couple of those; I'm not looking for a deep emotional attachment to a SP, but rather a good time in bed. Its simple and I don't get too worked up about it. Just fun!

When I have a good experience, I usually report it here. If I don't, I tend to word my review carefully so that a reader can make his own deductions and read between the lines.

I don't think one needs to feel guilty about hobbying.. its the nature of humanity that we want to copulate. Nothing wrong with it, in my opinion... it feels good!

 

[Cycleguy007]

Does anyone ever feel guilty about it?

I'm not trying to be judgmental in anyway... just curious is all...

 

[Nickelodeon]

I would agree that it's an addiction. On the other hand, 21 year old asian girls are an addiction and this is an outlet that allows keep to stay out of jail, keep my position with the community (Eric Tillman take note), and not be seen as a dirty old man by friends.

 

[wangbang]

No regrets at all. I have had a blast and have always been able to control myself. Things have never gotten out of control, never been addicted to the poon and I have had great relationships outside of the hobby.

These days I still do SC's but have really slowed down in the SP field. Truthfully, I found the SP's of 10 years ago gave better service (generalizing) as these days I find making appointments and dealing with the girls more difficult.

 

[mb12ca]

I don't feel guilty in terms of cheating on my particular wife, for she is extremely selfish and I have spent most of my marriage serving her to the utmost degree. But, I feel guilty in terms of the fact that I have cheated while in a marriage, no matter how bad my marriage might be. It's a weird feeling to describe.

 

[Dandy_Dapper_Boy]

Did somebody say Alimony???
If anyone cares to hear what I paid out in alimony before I got custody of my son, you will see that even 800 dollars a month in escorts is far cheaper then what my monthly payments were. Far cheaper.

she got my house!!