Hockey and motorcycles can also be rather expensive. I love the thrill of both but then as I got older I started to get hurt more often and recovery slower. I gave up motorcycles after the "ramp incident". Visit me at Rockslinger.com.
Anyone Regret ever starting this Hobby
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Yes,
- money that could allow me to invest additional "fun" money in stocks like RIM or Apple
- money that could allow me to buy a Rolex
- money that could allow me to take CFA exams for "fun"
No,
- no "surplus" cashflow to speculate ugly stocks say Lehman Brothers, Bear Stearns and Citigroup
- no need to get desperate and spend money on high maintenance, civilian "hotties" who demand to be treated like a queen, at min a princess while giving a false hope that I may get "laid/lucky" after spending 5 figures on her year in and year out.
- stress relief for those dudes who get the "receiving end" of demanding, obnoxious female boss, aka devil in Prada daily, or attractive female co-workers who use their sex appeals in addition to the qualifications to compete job promotions.
The jury is still out but one thing is certain, never spend on a dime in hobbying unless you vested your take home pay to pay down the debts, except affordable mortgages, fund emergency cash and max out your retirement funds in RRSP and TFSA.
- money that could allow me to invest additional "fun" money in stocks like RIM or Apple
- money that could allow me to buy a Rolex
- money that could allow me to take CFA exams for "fun"
No,
- no "surplus" cashflow to speculate ugly stocks say Lehman Brothers, Bear Stearns and Citigroup
- no need to get desperate and spend money on high maintenance, civilian "hotties" who demand to be treated like a queen, at min a princess while giving a false hope that I may get "laid/lucky" after spending 5 figures on her year in and year out.
- stress relief for those dudes who get the "receiving end" of demanding, obnoxious female boss, aka devil in Prada daily, or attractive female co-workers who use their sex appeals in addition to the qualifications to compete job promotions.
The jury is still out but one thing is certain, never spend on a dime in hobbying unless you vested your take home pay to pay down the debts, except affordable mortgages, fund emergency cash and max out your retirement funds in RRSP and TFSA.
Cool. How did you know? Everything's dead on except for the $120.00 part. She gave me $140.00 AND a gift certificate for my favorite restaurant!
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[size=+2]"Regrets, I have a few...but then again, too few to mention"[/size]
Explain math? Yes.....One girl PLUS one girl equals: ****TWO GIRLS****! One on the bottom, me in the middle, the third on top licking just under my balls, means = 1 girl can't do that!
Gyaos.
This hobby is for strong willed persons only, as its totally addiction, even more than gambling, but if a person knows his limits then its fine or else its a distructive in every respect!
This hobby gives immense pleasure, and once can explore all his boundaries with SP's and full-fill all his hidden urges and desires, without hurting anyone especially himself too.
This hobby is pretty expensive more than a most prestigious Golf Club where only prevelige memebers are allowed to play and have fun, plus this hobby is sometimes un-reliable, unkind, cruel, too, one has to do his homework well before undetaking this hobby! Overall i do not regret at all, you have to be totally level headed & respectful in this hobby, as mutual respect and dignity are the most important rules to follow in this hobby.
This hobby gives immense pleasure, and once can explore all his boundaries with SP's and full-fill all his hidden urges and desires, without hurting anyone especially himself too.
This hobby is pretty expensive more than a most prestigious Golf Club where only prevelige memebers are allowed to play and have fun, plus this hobby is sometimes un-reliable, unkind, cruel, too, one has to do his homework well before undetaking this hobby! Overall i do not regret at all, you have to be totally level headed & respectful in this hobby, as mutual respect and dignity are the most important rules to follow in this hobby.
Its mutual respect and dignity plus being strong enough not to get carried away by your emotions.
It sure not for everybody
Maybe that is the problem, its far more than having the guts to pick up the phone and call.
Isn't to say if you find hobbing not so great you have no guts / just it might not be for you. Some guys take it as an insult they "have" to pay for it. Like it makes them less of a man. Understandable I guess.
It sure not for everybody
Maybe that is the problem, its far more than having the guts to pick up the phone and call.
Isn't to say if you find hobbing not so great you have no guts / just it might not be for you. Some guys take it as an insult they "have" to pay for it. Like it makes them less of a man. Understandable I guess.
Somewhat. When I first started, holy shit did I spend alot. And loved most of it. Their were a few bad experiences, but overall, I loved it. New woman, guaranteed sex, etc. And all at the push of a button. In time, it becaem disappointing. I'd go see an escort, and afterwards go, "Well, that was a waste of time and money." I still see escorts now, just not nearly as often. I see them when I need to, not when I want to. If I get the urge to call up an escort, before I do I masturbate. If after release I'm satisfied, then obviously I don't need an escort. If not, I call an escort. It's amazing how many times I don't need an escort.
I have spent a bit of time yesterday and today reading through a lot of the replies to this thread and I'm struck with one thing above all in what I've read; we are all human and
looking to feel a connection. I suspect that many of the men and women on this board would, with the right partner, either never started with this hobby or would have stopped it.
For those of you who would disagree with me, you are all welcome to your opinions but I think that for as many of you as there are that there are equal numbers who are silently nodding
your heads in agreement about my less than scholarly observation.
A great big thank you to the original poster for such a thought provoking post.
looking to feel a connection. I suspect that many of the men and women on this board would, with the right partner, either never started with this hobby or would have stopped it.
For those of you who would disagree with me, you are all welcome to your opinions but I think that for as many of you as there are that there are equal numbers who are silently nodding
your heads in agreement about my less than scholarly observation.
A great big thank you to the original poster for such a thought provoking post.
Regrets? None really. I'm a SC only guy, so I'm coming at this from a little different place than a lot of TERBites given that I'm heading out for beer, boobies, and seedy wild time without necessarily having to get off. SCs have brought me a lot of satisfaction, but with that being said:
1. I know what I spend and have a sense of 'opportunity cost'.
2. I don't feel compelled to spend.
3. I keep SCs and Dancers out of my daily life (It may have cost me some good times, but I'm sure it's saved me from more than a few really bad times).
4. I keep things in perspective. Beer, boobies, and dancers belong in the neatly labelled box called 'Beer, Boobies, and Dancers'.
So SCs have given me:
-A few hangovers.
-A temporary escape from what is often the drudgery of daily life.
-The ability to not be phased by naked women and to make inane smalltalk.
-Some truly fun and seedy wild times.
-My own private little bit of naughtiness that I can savour and look forward to.
-An excuse to bum around on TERB. (The world's most expensive free community.)
All and all 'my hobby' is more satisfying than giving to the church, cheaper than therapy, and just naughty enough to give me a special little tingle with no real risk. That's not bad value for money from my POV.
1. I know what I spend and have a sense of 'opportunity cost'.
2. I don't feel compelled to spend.
3. I keep SCs and Dancers out of my daily life (It may have cost me some good times, but I'm sure it's saved me from more than a few really bad times).
4. I keep things in perspective. Beer, boobies, and dancers belong in the neatly labelled box called 'Beer, Boobies, and Dancers'.
So SCs have given me:
-A few hangovers.
-A temporary escape from what is often the drudgery of daily life.
-The ability to not be phased by naked women and to make inane smalltalk.
-Some truly fun and seedy wild times.
-My own private little bit of naughtiness that I can savour and look forward to.
-An excuse to bum around on TERB. (The world's most expensive free community.)
All and all 'my hobby' is more satisfying than giving to the church, cheaper than therapy, and just naughty enough to give me a special little tingle with no real risk. That's not bad value for money from my POV.
I was an active hobbiest when without an SO (Last stages of my marriage and before my current relationship) so probably have good experience about being on 'both sides of the fence' - when in a poor relationship or none, this is a very easy hobby to get addicted to- for me it was mostly MPs and maybe 3 times a week at the peak (i.e.for aa couple of months until I realised I couldn't really affrd that level of hobbying). It did cost a lot financially, but was a real escape from whatever else was going on in my life the the chase for the next best thing was awesome.
When without an SO, I also got into fitness more (need to do that again anyway) to alleviate the need and found that getting a wider social group was key to minimizing the need (the connection, that CG speaks of) - sex and a connection are both important. I went to social events and met new people through Meetup.com in a social environment - just a good way to become friends with different women.
Now that I am in a fantastic relationship (for over a year), I haven't even thought about going back to my old ways.
So, If you feel down about how addicted you are to all this, then I encourage you to also work on building non-sexual female relationships through social sites and getting out and about a bit more, so that you are not so closeted and closed in your habits and thinking.
When without an SO, I also got into fitness more (need to do that again anyway) to alleviate the need and found that getting a wider social group was key to minimizing the need (the connection, that CG speaks of) - sex and a connection are both important. I went to social events and met new people through Meetup.com in a social environment - just a good way to become friends with different women.
Now that I am in a fantastic relationship (for over a year), I haven't even thought about going back to my old ways.
So, If you feel down about how addicted you are to all this, then I encourage you to also work on building non-sexual female relationships through social sites and getting out and about a bit more, so that you are not so closeted and closed in your habits and thinking.
I too do feel some regrets as well about having started...Or more like regrets that have surfaced now that I have...
I regret having lost my virginity to a stranger, rather than to someone 'special'. I regret having not formed 'normal' relationships with members of the opposite sex...Hell even members of the same sex. (I do not mean in the homosexual sense, but simply to have formed friendships) I regret being too damned afraid to go out there, put my frail ego on the line and take the shots that come with playing the dating game. And I fucking well regret all the nights I've wasted hunkered down at my PC living in an escapist fantasy.
The only regrets I actually have about seeing SPs? I regret the time goes by too fast. I regret that I don't have the nerve to experiment more, and that I KISS. (Keep It Simple Stupid) And I regret that I am not a better companion to these ladies while I am there.
The only guilt I really feel is that these attractive, charming and intellegent young ladies hve to spend their time with the likes of me.
That it is.
I was going to comment on this above, but I felt I should answer it down here instead. Do I regret the money I've spent on this? Yes....But thanks to my lack of self confidence, I also suffer a great deal of buyer's remorse too. Almost anything I buy, I look at and think "I could have spent that money better somewhere else." Once I factor that part of my inherant thought process out, I most certainly do not regret it. And while I have been kindly admonished for spoiling the few ladies I've seen with gifts, that I do not regret either. They each have given me something 'special' to me, and I just wish to give them something they will enjoy in return.
For the same amount of money I've spent on my other "hobby" I could have seen/see my ATF for 980 hours!!..... hmmmmmm, not a bad idea...anyone wanna buy a boat???
NOPE! why? fortunate enough to have a good relationships with ladies outside of the hobby and i've only seen providers in between relationships. plus, i've had some pretty good and bad experiences that are pretty memorable.
i think your in trouble...your hobby has probably ruin any relationship you'll ever have for the rest of your life. think u better quit cold turkey and re-learn how to date and treat a woman if your ever hoping to get into a meaningful relationship which by the tone of your post seems to be something you're looking for.
Wait, I have just thought of a regret.
I regret I didn't see more sp's, heck 10 years ago I first visited Toronto but did I see any SP's, nope. Know why, I believed that saying if it sounds too good to be true it likely is, lol.
Seen some ads in the paper, 20-22 year olds, etc etc but thought oh yeah, its likely some 30 year old who has a few kids or will just blow me off and split out the door right afterward.
When I did hook up I was like joking to her if she wanted to try round two while we were just lying around afterward, she goes with a smile on her, yeah sure. The next night I book another lady, she looked better yet, then the third night another hottie showed up at my hotel door--they seemed to keep looking prettier and prettier.
So yeah my regret was not hooking up as often.
It is a hooby thou, people travel and go subdividing one week a year or water skiing, etc
I regret I didn't see more sp's, heck 10 years ago I first visited Toronto but did I see any SP's, nope. Know why, I believed that saying if it sounds too good to be true it likely is, lol.
Seen some ads in the paper, 20-22 year olds, etc etc but thought oh yeah, its likely some 30 year old who has a few kids or will just blow me off and split out the door right afterward.
When I did hook up I was like joking to her if she wanted to try round two while we were just lying around afterward, she goes with a smile on her, yeah sure. The next night I book another lady, she looked better yet, then the third night another hottie showed up at my hotel door--they seemed to keep looking prettier and prettier.
So yeah my regret was not hooking up as often.
It is a hooby thou, people travel and go subdividing one week a year or water skiing, etc
I'm new I have no regret as yet. Life is to short and this is one way to enjoy life.
Money comes and goes.
Right now I need some help cause I'm lost.
I'm looking for a good black/chocolate lady or escort that provides incalls. Must have real teta/ boobs.
CAN anyone help me base on their best or favourite choice
Money comes and goes.
Right now I need some help cause I'm lost.
I'm looking for a good black/chocolate lady or escort that provides incalls. Must have real teta/ boobs.
CAN anyone help me base on their best or favourite choice
Nope, not one bit. It is a little pricey but this is the BEST thing I ever started (other than starting my own business, but that's a close second).
I have never been happier, calmer, more content. Back in the day if I couldn't get a date and was hornier than hell, I sufferred or did it the old fashioned way. Now? No pressure to go out and find some chick drunk enough to fuck me. Just about whenever I want I can get some hottie to make me happy.
I have never been happier, calmer, more content. Back in the day if I couldn't get a date and was hornier than hell, I sufferred or did it the old fashioned way. Now? No pressure to go out and find some chick drunk enough to fuck me. Just about whenever I want I can get some hottie to make me happy.
