Someone I know casually has found themselves in very serious legal trouble, criminal charges have been laid and he is out on bail. He claims to be innocent and will plead not guilty. This person spoke with a friend, who then called me, and told me that the guy admitted guilt and passed on that information to me with some details.
Now, I know the friend is probably going to support this person in court and may not admit that the guy admitted guilt.
Here are my concerns.
There is a victim here and the the victims family is hurting. I don't know the victims.
I have seen the accused out on the street and have spoken to him. I remain distant trying to accept that he is innocent until proven guilty but have not treated him poorly as I see others have done.
I am concerned that others see me as supporting this guy when really I am taking a neutral position for now.
I am concerned legally, and morally, that if he is let off and I have information that could convict him, I could get in some trouble for not speaking up (and I would need to live with the guilt of not saying anything).
On the other hand, he has great kids and a nice wife. I don't want to be the factor that sends him away for many, many years.
Now, I know the friend is probably going to support this person in court and may not admit that the guy admitted guilt.
Here are my concerns.
There is a victim here and the the victims family is hurting. I don't know the victims.
I have seen the accused out on the street and have spoken to him. I remain distant trying to accept that he is innocent until proven guilty but have not treated him poorly as I see others have done.
I am concerned that others see me as supporting this guy when really I am taking a neutral position for now.
I am concerned legally, and morally, that if he is let off and I have information that could convict him, I could get in some trouble for not speaking up (and I would need to live with the guilt of not saying anything).
On the other hand, he has great kids and a nice wife. I don't want to be the factor that sends him away for many, many years.