This is exactly what I was talking about. If she says no just walk away. No harm done.
Flirting: The I have a boyfriend excuse
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How delusional do you have to be to keep pursuing someone after they tell you "I have a boyfriend"? Seriously. Unless she is saying it during the hummer in the backseat of the cab ride to her place, she is telling you in absolutely no uncertain terms that she is not interested in you sexually. End of fucking story.
The best reply I've gotten from a guy when I gave him the "I have a boyfriend" line (I was actually single), was "Cool, I have a goldfish". He definitely got me to smile and I had to give him credit for that.
When it comes to lookers, every and I mean every woman plays hard to get at the beginning, 99.9% of the time. Look at what Carmen stated. You have to have something going on, for them to notice you.
One example is, when I was younger and single, I always went out in a taylored Suit with a Tie. Women notice this shit, and it makes for a very good first impession. Rarely do I see that anymore these days.
Unless its in a high class club.
Easy.
When she says "I have a boyfriend" playfully say "that's funny, so do I". She'll laugh.
If the woman is highly attractive then she actually has a boyfriend, and he's probably got more going on than you to have landed a such a hot female. If the girl is plainjane then she may still have a boyfriend, but she might be tempted by a better offer, if that's what you represent.
Oh look. This thread still.
It doesn't matter how fucking attractive a girl is. It doesn't. Fucking. Matter. If she is telling you she has a boyfriend, she is telling you to buzz off. She's even doing it nicely. Do her a favour and fuck off before she tells you what she really thinks. Feel free to cry in your beer about how she wasn't as cute as the hot chick that also turned you down and "I bet I stood a ghost of a chance more with her", but do yourself, her, and the entire universe a favour and leave her the fuck alone. This is not rocket science, people. How dense a motherfucker do you have to be?
My aren't you cantankerous.
My point was informed by personal experience. I've been the boyfriend who girls will mention in order to tell a guy to politely fuck off, but I've also been the guy in situations where a girl acknowledges a relationship but still wants to hang out. Bottom-line: the hottest girls (and yes, this includes sp's) usually have boyfriends, sometimes more than one, if you know what I mean.
Better cantankerous than dense. You were the boyfriend, were you? Jesus! The "boyfriend" in question doesn't have to even exist for fucks sakes! It is a way to say "please go away now". Good gravy!
And what the fuck is this argle-bargle about the hot chicks having boyfriends and the not-so-hot ones not having them? Seriously dude? We're supposed to take that at face value are we? That's just science, is it? (magnets, how the fuck do they work?)
Come on man...if you were like 3 minutes after me ok sure, but I beat you by two hours...
If you're interested in a woman and make it known so and she replies with the "I have boyfriend" clause, all you have to do as a man is jump right over it like a hurdle and tell her: "I'm not interested in him. I'm interested in you!".
Stick to your guns. Focus on your goal.
If indeed she has a boyfreind, you as a suitor have no idea of what that relationship dynamic is. He could be lame, she could be feeling ignored, she could have lost interest, she could be in a rut and needs affirmation of her femininity. She'll just hold out and be coy until she feels assured of how interested you really are before she lets you in the door. So, if you are really attracted to her, stick to it to the final step and get your desired answer.
I can't tell you how many women finally gave in after my subtle but persistent advances. Granted, there is also plenty of women who do have spouses and wanted nothing to do with me. It makes total sense. Again, you don't know that until you follow it through.
Always take it through to its last possible conclusion. Quite often, women themselves don't know what they want and when faced with a clear and interesting option will often give in to it. The female psyche is based on emotion, not logic.
Stick to your guns. Focus on your goal.
If indeed she has a boyfreind, you as a suitor have no idea of what that relationship dynamic is. He could be lame, she could be feeling ignored, she could have lost interest, she could be in a rut and needs affirmation of her femininity. She'll just hold out and be coy until she feels assured of how interested you really are before she lets you in the door. So, if you are really attracted to her, stick to it to the final step and get your desired answer.
I can't tell you how many women finally gave in after my subtle but persistent advances. Granted, there is also plenty of women who do have spouses and wanted nothing to do with me. It makes total sense. Again, you don't know that until you follow it through.
Always take it through to its last possible conclusion. Quite often, women themselves don't know what they want and when faced with a clear and interesting option will often give in to it. The female psyche is based on emotion, not logic.
Sorry man. Think I read the OP and posted without reading two pages of dribble. I do that sometimes. lolCome on man...if you were like 3 minutes after me ok sure, but I beat you by two hours...
My stupidity, if you want to call it that, has gotten me laid on several occasions, that's all I'm saying. I have no regrets. As The Great One says "you miss a hundred percent of the shots you don't take."
When you say "hitting on chicks", what's your approach?
Is it conspicuous that you want to get somewhere with them, or is it more easy going and friendly?
BTW, I'm glad I'm not the only guy left that refers to women as chicks.
Her : I have a boyfriend
me : how about another one?
Her: I have a boyfriend
Me: He could give you massage after I give you an anal orgasm
me : how about another one?
Her: I have a boyfriend
Me: He could give you massage after I give you an anal orgasm
Another thing Im wondering about with all the social apps e.g. whatsapp viber line fb is asking for her number almost becoming a faux-paus? I get "I dont give my number to strangers" sometimes. And, Im noticing a few girls now dont have a number or mobile provider like fido, they just communicate using an app like viber with free wifi.
"I have a girlfriend" in response doesnt work it ends the conversation.
I believe most chix by nature dont give off hints they like a guy. None of The girls Ive gotten numbers from or dates with checked me out.
"I have a girlfriend" in response doesnt work it ends the conversation.
I hate when chix say sorry.
I believe most chix by nature dont give off hints they like a guy. None of The girls Ive gotten numbers from or dates with checked me out.
Gentlemen, watch this scene, this is the art of seduction, originality, honesty !!!, but casual, topped with humor. Don't be direct, be subtle.
