tippingwalker:
It's hard to not have your S.O to know where you are at all times and if she closely watches your schedule and knows where you are at all times. The others have mentioned a lot of great idea's. I would caution on a few of their suggestions, you don't want to show up with any traces that you were with a lady (even if the others meant that as a joke, in this situation and any, it's not a joke, it's highly sensitive). I am not sure what you do as your career but you can take the morning off, afternoon off, or evening off without your wife knowing. You can ask your work for some time off because you have a medical appointment. Work shouldn't question why you have a medical appointment. Does your wife check in with you at work? If this is the case you could always tell the person who might pick up that call to tell your wife you are in a meeting or something. If they say you are in a meeting make sure not to respond to your wife's messages or calls during that time, 'cause your in a meeting and can't talk.
When scheduling with a lady ask her to not wear scents, ask if there is a shower available. Also, when you arrive strip down that way any scent from her isn't transferred onto your clothes. Washing the body of lipstick, scents is easier than on clothes. Ensure a shower will be 100% available for you to use. If there isn't a shower you can always stop into a gym, pay whatever fee they have and shower if the case comes down to that. If you use a certain soap or body wash you can also buy or bring that with you so you aren't alternating your scent because your wife will notice another soap scent.
Most ladies like myself require you to have a cell phone, sometimes this can be hard to do because you are scared your wife will find out. That is why you can e-mail the lady and discuss this. If text and calling isn't an issue, that all you need to do is delete the conversation you can do this (certain bills show the numbers and some S.0 see's the bill) if that is the case I would recommend getting a cheap phone that you can use only for that purpose. Also, inform the lady to not text/call you, that you will only text/call her. That way you aren't struggling to come up with an excuse to give to your wife if you are together. If you text the lady and she hasn't responded ensure you text back saying not to text that you will text when it's safe for you to text. Again, so no awkward and uncomfortable situations.
When it comes to when you can fit the 1-2hour visit for a lady, it depends on what you are willing to share with your wife of where you would be and if she would check in. The safest is the work, you need some time to visit the doctor. If its in the morning you can still fit in your work hours and when you come home and when she asks how was work, you have something to talk about, no awkward situations for you. If you want to take up another hobby or activity you can but most likely she will be interested to either join or even meet others.
I hope this was helpful and best wishes.
Warm hugs always,
Amanda-Lee
It's hard to not have your S.O to know where you are at all times and if she closely watches your schedule and knows where you are at all times. The others have mentioned a lot of great idea's. I would caution on a few of their suggestions, you don't want to show up with any traces that you were with a lady (even if the others meant that as a joke, in this situation and any, it's not a joke, it's highly sensitive). I am not sure what you do as your career but you can take the morning off, afternoon off, or evening off without your wife knowing. You can ask your work for some time off because you have a medical appointment. Work shouldn't question why you have a medical appointment. Does your wife check in with you at work? If this is the case you could always tell the person who might pick up that call to tell your wife you are in a meeting or something. If they say you are in a meeting make sure not to respond to your wife's messages or calls during that time, 'cause your in a meeting and can't talk.
When scheduling with a lady ask her to not wear scents, ask if there is a shower available. Also, when you arrive strip down that way any scent from her isn't transferred onto your clothes. Washing the body of lipstick, scents is easier than on clothes. Ensure a shower will be 100% available for you to use. If there isn't a shower you can always stop into a gym, pay whatever fee they have and shower if the case comes down to that. If you use a certain soap or body wash you can also buy or bring that with you so you aren't alternating your scent because your wife will notice another soap scent.
Most ladies like myself require you to have a cell phone, sometimes this can be hard to do because you are scared your wife will find out. That is why you can e-mail the lady and discuss this. If text and calling isn't an issue, that all you need to do is delete the conversation you can do this (certain bills show the numbers and some S.0 see's the bill) if that is the case I would recommend getting a cheap phone that you can use only for that purpose. Also, inform the lady to not text/call you, that you will only text/call her. That way you aren't struggling to come up with an excuse to give to your wife if you are together. If you text the lady and she hasn't responded ensure you text back saying not to text that you will text when it's safe for you to text. Again, so no awkward and uncomfortable situations.
When it comes to when you can fit the 1-2hour visit for a lady, it depends on what you are willing to share with your wife of where you would be and if she would check in. The safest is the work, you need some time to visit the doctor. If its in the morning you can still fit in your work hours and when you come home and when she asks how was work, you have something to talk about, no awkward situations for you. If you want to take up another hobby or activity you can but most likely she will be interested to either join or even meet others.
I hope this was helpful and best wishes.
Warm hugs always,
Amanda-Lee
