Have you ever thought "you suck in bed"?

[Cbr20152012]

Saw the title and Thought this could be an interesting thread given it’s fundamental human nature, then I read the first post and it struck me as troll-esque at best.

Shame. Could have been interesting.

out….

 

[y2kmark]

You should ask your escort friend to elaborate.
How can we men be better?

Tell us what to do and WE WILL DO IT!!! - Sam Kinneson...

 

[NotADcotor]

I am reminded, back when I started, I'd make the effort, not to get her off but I could always use some pointers. After being told a few times with some variant of "I don't get off that way" I got the message and gave up. I don't believe that was the actual message, I am sure it's just fine, on a semi regular basis with an attractive dude, but not that often and from uggos and with the pressure to perform.

Fine with me.

They say too much vibrator use can leave a gal too insensitive for anything less, perhaps having dude after dude go downtown has similar effects?

 

[escortsxxx]

I am reminded, back when I started, I'd make the effort, not to get her off but I could always use some pointers. After being told a few times with some variant of "I don't get off that way" I got the message and gave up. I don't believe that was the actual message, I am sure it's just fine, on a semi regular basis with an attractive dude, but not that often and from uggos and with the pressure to perform.

Fine with me.

They say too much vibrator use can leave a gal too insensitive for anything less, perhaps having dude after dude go downtown has similar effects?

later

 

[Mr Deeds]

You should tell your friend it's the guy paying who is there for the pleasure, she's only there for business.

I find the experience to be much better if my partner is having a good time as well. Believe it or not sps can enjoy sex with clients. There's no real trick to it they are after all women too

 

[Jenesis]

That's a true statement. Its also true one must like sex to be good at sex. If a woman is not satisfied then she might be grumpy you think?

What does that have to do with anything???


Look. We are pros here to fuck and be fucked. Not to be pleasured. As stated, if we want some good D - we find it. Or we get a good dildo.

Do I expect my clients to jerk themselves off too????

Any escort that is “grumpy” because she is not be pleased needs to get out of the business. The fucking entitlement - I can’t get over it here.

And sorry but you have Gracie Sparks vibes all over you, which I pray to all the available Gods possible that you are not. If you are not her - don’t come here to cause shit and put down 90% of the population on this board. You want male bashing entertainment - find a female forum / there are plenty of them out there.

EDIT - fuck me she is back. Just read the political forum. It is her. I don’t understand why she is so obsessed with these boards in this way. I’m an ally for mental health and I preach about it all the time here but at some point, when you know you are ill, which she does, you have to take responsibility for yourself and others to get help.

Can’t wait to be bashed on the blue board for the next little bit!!!!

I used the report post button to report her as rejoining the board. I suggest everyone else does the same.

 

[Luna Soleil69]

What does that have to do with anything???


Look. We are pros here to fuck and be fucked. Not to be pleasured. As stated, if we want some good D - we find it. Or we get a good dildo.

Do I expect my clients to jerk themselves off too????

Any escort that is “grumpy” because she is not be pleased needs to get out of the business. The fucking entitlement - I can’t get over it here.

And sorry but you have Gracie Sparks vibes all over you, which I pray to all the available Gods possible that you are not. If you are not her - don’t come here to cause shit and put down 90% of the population on this board. You want male bashing entertainment - find a female forum / there are plenty of them out there.

EDIT - fuck me she is back. Just read the political forum. It is her. I don’t understand why she is so obsessed with these boards in this way. I’m an ally for mental health and I preach about it all the time here but at some point, when you know you are ill, which she does, you have to take responsibility for yourself and others to get help.

Can’t wait to be bashed on the blue board for the next little bit!!!!

I used the report post button to report her as rejoining the board. I suggest everyone else does the same.

I here this response from man worshippers a lot. Sorry but I believe the woman should feel good too.

 

[Luna Soleil69]

I am reminded, back when I started, I'd make the effort, not to get her off but I could always use some pointers. After being told a few times with some variant of "I don't get off that way" I got the message and gave up. I don't believe that was the actual message, I am sure it's just fine, on a semi regular basis with an attractive dude, but not that often and from uggos and with the pressure to perform.

Fine with me.

They say too much vibrator use can leave a gal too insensitive for anything less, perhaps having dude after dude go downtown has similar effects?

My escort friend is 36 years old. That could be a factor that she's in touch with her body.

 

[Jenesis]

I here this response from man worshippers a lot. Sorry but I believe the woman should feel good too.

Are you fucked? No one is say a woman shouldn’t feel good, DA.

But a pro is not there to be pleased. Her job is to service. Period. To expect more than that in the job is ludicrous and entitled. Getting pleasure is a bonus in this gig.

In civie life - sure.

But you are on an escort board FFS. You know what you are doing and the game you are playing.

And I will take the label of man worshiper over man hater any day all day sweetie. I do like men. Not more than women. Not less women but yes / I have no problem admitting that I actually like men. You don’t / you can leave then.

 

[Luna Soleil69]

Saw the title and Thought this could be an interesting thread given it’s fundamental human nature, then I read the first post and it struck me as troll-esque at best.

Shame. Could have been interesting.

out….

I didn't think this was troll material at all. I think I was hoping for seeing what men and women like to have mutual pleasure so one doesn't say you suck in bed.

 

[Luna Soleil69]

Are you fucked? No one is say a woman shouldn’t feel good, DA.

But a pro is not there to be pleased. Her job is to service. Period. To expect more than that in the job is ludicrous and entitled. Getting pleasure is a bonus in this gig.

In civie life - sure.

But you are on an escort board FFS. You know what you are doing and the game you are playing.

And I will take the label of man worshiper over man hater any day all day sweetie. I do like men. Not more than women. Not less women but yes / I have no problem admitting that I actually like men. You don’t / you can leave then.

this conversation is over between me and you. Your viciousness is over the top.

 

[Jenesis]

Saw the title and Thought this could be an interesting thread given it’s fundamental human nature, then I read the first post and it struck me as troll-esque at best.

Shame. Could have been interesting.

out….

Totally trolling. I wouldn’t post back but I’m a couple days out from my period and PMS is real y’all.

This outlet is better then others.

 

[Jenesis]

this conversation is over between me and you. Your viciousness is over the top.

Truth hurts to the bone honey.

 

[Vittoria.]

Being unfuckable to your wife/girlfriend doesn't begin and end with you "sucking in bed".

It begins with the kind of man are you after you're no longer courting her and the intensity of the honeymoon phase has worn off.

In my opinion, women over time get turned off by what I would consider inconsiderate and gross behaviours of men that you notice when spending ample time with them and they’ve let their “guard” down so to speak. I’ve met enough men through this industry to claim that most (NOT ALL, relax) don’t take care of their appearance (and in conjunction their health). Dry skin (unpleasant to be touched by cracked hand), unkept fingers and yellow jagged toe nails, yolk coloured teeth and white unbrushed tongues, too much wild public hair. Things that can be fixed with minimal effort & goes a long way. When you take care of yourself, you feel better, you go into the world with a better attitude, you receive better attitude back.

I’ve also experienced men who start feeling “comfortable” enough around me (thinking this should be a compliment) to be pissing with the door open (sometimes forgetting to flush), burping and farting around me, wiping snot on their sleeves not a Kleenex, etc.
I enjoy being “gross” during sex if it’s called for, but otherwise I’m a lady all the time. I’m polite and considerate, it’s second nature to me. I expect someone who wants me to find them attractive (for the long haul) to be a gentleman to me (and with the way they interact with the world) all the time, not only when they want something from me.

Women don’t get turned on my pressing the right buttons when you feel like it the way that men can be. Try being more of a well groomed gentleman overall.
Also I think women need more variety of stimulation than they think and just get bored of vanilla sex much quicker than men do. That could be resolved with communication.

VX

 

[Cbr20152012]

Who is Grace Sparks? What is wrong with her?

I don’t know either - I was going to ask but you beat me to it.

 

[shack]

Being unfuckable to your wife/girlfriend doesn't begin and end with you "sucking in bed".

It begins with the kind of man are you after you're no longer courting her and the intensity of the honeymoon phase has worn off.

In my opinion, women over time get turned off by what I would consider inconsiderate and gross behaviours of men that you notice when spending ample time with them and they’ve let their “guard” down so to speak. I’ve met enough men through this industry to claim that most (NOT ALL, relax) don’t take care of their appearance (and in conjunction their health). Dry skin (unpleasant to be touched by cracked hand), unkept fingers and yellow jagged toe nails, yolk coloured teeth and white unbrushed tongues, too much wild public hair. Things that can be fixed with minimal effort & goes a long way. When you take care of yourself, you feel better, you go into the world with a better attitude, you receive better attitude back.

I’ve also experienced men who start feeling “comfortable” enough around me (thinking this should be a compliment) to be pissing with the door open (sometimes forgetting to flush), burping and farting around me, wiping snot on their sleeves not a Kleenex, etc.
I enjoy being “gross” during sex if it’s called for, but otherwise I’m a lady all the time. I’m polite and considerate, it’s second nature to me. I expect someone who wants me to find them attractive (for the long haul) to be a gentleman to me (and with the way they interact with the world) all the time, not only when they want something from me.

Women don’t get turned on my pressing the right buttons when you feel like it the way that men can be. Try being more of a well groomed gentleman overall.
Also I think women need more variety of stimulation than they think and just get bored of vanilla sex much quicker than men do. That could be resolved with communication.

VX

There's some serious man hating and job hating going on there. LOL.

I've heard that what really kills a woman's desire for sex is Wedding Cake.

 

[luvcowgrl]

As Jenisis stated, we are seeing an escort. Maybe some like getting you off but I would honestly think most don't give 2 shits and most realize it's fake. These troll threads by Grace Sparks are ridiculous and for those that don't know her past labeling her as a pest is putting it politely.

 

[Vittoria.]

There's some serious man hating and job hating going on there. LOL.

I've heard that what really kills a woman's desire for sex is Wedding Cake.

What on earth was hateful about my statements? My advice was so simple and applicable to everyone. (brush your tongue, wash under your nails, use a kleenex) Too hard for you to do?
This is my observations within this industry and my personal life with men. Gross habits and behaviour are a turn off. Here I'm paid to overlook them but in my personal life I'm not and I won't, and I've had to end things with partners who know my body oh so well but their behaviour outside of the bedroom was unappealing thus made me not want to fuck them any longer.

VX

 

[Vittoria.]

Partly true. Especially the being the gentleman part. But you could be a gentleman, and take care of yourself to a reasonable extent and still be rejected by your wife, that many men here have talked about in other threads. Sometimes it is the kids, sometimes it is menopause or whatever else.

Also many men, may work in blue collar jobs and their rough skin etc., could be a product of their work, that they do to take care of their families and provide for them. Men also have stresses, are more prone to health issues, prone to injury etc.,

A good woman, has to appreciate her partner, for who he is, and still find him fuckable because she actually loves him, and not because his body is "well groomed" - because it is not always possible to be well groomed, depending on your work etc and especially as you age.

Love doesn't equal lust.
And yes obv both people have a part to play, the OP was a comment on why women won't fuck their men, and I'm sharing my real life experience as to what made once fuckable men to me unfuckable/turned me off.

VX

 

[shack]

What on earth was hateful about my statements? My advice was so simple and applicable to everyone. (brush your tongue, wash under your nails, use a kleenex) Too hard for you to do?
This is my observations within this industry and my personal life with men. Gross habits and behaviour are a turn off. Here I'm paid to overlook them but in my personal life I'm not and I won't, and I've had to end things with partners who know my body oh so well but their behaviour outside of the bedroom was unappealing thus made me not want to fuck them any longer.

The way you phrased things seemed to be very demeaning and everything is the fault of the man. Nothing at all about the women. No mention of how women let themselves go when they feel comfortable in a relationship and don't try to look good and how they start bitching out out their men endlessly. Only negative comments about the men.

So, yes. Hateful seemed appropriate. Sorry.