I'm not here to defend my comments. I'm just going to say that i'm not talking about dating clients. This was not a conversation about clients.This is about people outside of the escort world. The previous commenter I was quoting was talking about why these women date losers and not successful people. It does have a lot to do with self esteem, stigma and just not having the time or the energy. Losers are easy and low maintenance.
I'm not talking about the escort/client dynamic at all. Men who would find out I was an escort would treat me like I was on call for them despite them having nothing to offer. They didnt have money, they weren't attractive, funny or interesting. There was nothing to hold my attention whatsoever.But they still expected me to be on call like they would treat an escort. They don't know how to separate the person from the job and they think how they treat their escort on the clock is how they need to treat an escort theyre meeting off the clock. There are a lot of things that we don't get out of interaction at work that we sometimes seek out from a relationship.
A lot of people have a hard time understanding that we are people who exist outside of this job and we don't expect to be treated like escorts when we're doing regular stuff like dating, going grocery shopping or going to the park.
Not everything is sexy... or about sex. I personally found that when people found out about what I did for a living it made them retarded. They instantly lost all ability to behave themselves and turned into drooling idiots that were totally incapable of having a conversation that didn't involve sex.
They were goons. When I clock out, I'm tired of goons. I deal with them all day. For some reason these loser guys figured out that we dont want to talk about sex all day and we have other interests and hobbies
It helps that they usually have massive dicks
when I dated losers I made sure they were hot and at least 9 inches or they were a throw away lol.
One time I dated a guy with a DUI who rode a bike to work and slept on his mom's couch because he f*cked me so good.
im not proud of it but I was young and the sex was 10/10. They're all parasites. He ended up shacking up with some poor woman, buying a house with her down payment and taking half her sh*t about few years later. They're just looking for some sucker and a payout. He probably barely contributed the whole time and took half of a house he barely helped out with.
We date Mr. Charming that's good for now until something better comes along.
I had one of these parasites break it down for me. They find someone with money, get married or buy a house, pay nothing toward the house or the bare minimum and then get divorced. They get half plus she might have to pay alimony. For some guys, this is a whole life goal for them to take half of a woman's assets. They see it as an investment that keeps growing and they can cash it out at anytime. Its disgusting.
