Hypothetical

[Emma@SecretaryService]

You're embarking on a relationship with a woman who has all the qualities you want in a life partner. She also happens to have all the qualities necessary to be one of the best upscale escorts in the industry and is giving this possibility serious consideration.

Do you encourage or discourage her potential career choice? Why or why not?

 

[aviator57]

You're embarking on a relationship with a woman who has all the qualities you want in a life partner. She also happens to have all the qualities necessary to be one of the best upscale escorts in the industry and is giving this possibility serious consideration.

Do you encourage or discourage her potential career choice? Why or why not?

It seems that this one is similar with the poll I've started early today! Why ?

 

[Emma@SecretaryService]

It seems that this one is similar with the poll I've started early today! Why ?

Actually, it was a thread not a poll you started.
Yours poses the question, "Would you marry an escort?" My question is different. Care to answer it, Sir?

 

[squash500]

You're embarking on a relationship with a woman who has all the qualities you want in a life partner. She also happens to have all the qualities necessary to be one of the best upscale escorts in the industry and is giving this possibility serious consideration.

Do you encourage or discourage her potential career choice? Why or why not?

For selfish reasons I would discourage her career choice . I've been on Terb long enough to know that there are a lot of wealthy terbites out there. As the potential life partner, I would be afraid of being dismissed by a more suitable candidate.

From a practical point of view, IMHO there is a dire shortage of top quality sps out there. Thus, I could see my potential life partner making over $300000/yr with the right marketing and approach to satisfying her clients and having a small but loyal and affluent clientele.

Is this the type of hypothetical answer you are looking for?--lol.

 

[KBear]

hmmm, I meet the woman I want to marry. Do I now encourage her or discourage her from becoming an escort. Decisions.. decisions... lol Do I get a cut in her take?

 

[skypilot]

I discourage it. I hate it when a womans mouth tastes like either condoms or someone elses cum. Also dont want her snapper or bung hole to get all stretched out from all the action she would be getting. Also If we were to have kids I would want to be fairly certain I am the father.

 

[fijiman]

She has the right to do as she pleases, based upon her needs and her responsibilities.

On the other hand, so do I.

Personally? I would say,

"No problem. I don't think there is anything wrong with being an escort, nor with paying one. (ie myself). My preference would be not, but baby if it important to you I support your choice."

Then I would ask her to explain to me the reasons why she was considering it and we would discuss it.

Afterwards I would look deep into here eyes and with a playful twinkle in my eyes I would ask her.
"Tell me about your services...?", and pull her towards me...


...
ahem, fast forward two minutes

But my answer would also depend upon the girl. For some girls, her reason for asking would be as some sort of passive-aggressive test. For others, it could be part of any one out of a large paradigm of relationship dynamics.

But for the most part, I really wouldn't care.

(Actually, it would be a turn on to be stepping one more step further away from society's norm. It's good to be bad! )
fj

 

[squash500]

In thinking about this question again. Now after my 3rd beer . The guy can't win either way. He is in a catch-22 position. If he discourages his potential life partner from following her escort dreams then over the years she will build up increased resentment and hostility towards him for depriving her of giving it a try. This fact could end the relationship right there anyway?

 

[W3bster]

Embarking on a relationship in my world means exclusivity. Therefore if she would consider selling intimacy by the hour then she is not an option for me. Yes, I'm a boring, vanilla guy but that's the way it is. If I was some other guys I would probably reason that since she sees all these men, I could "see" women on a weekly basis that I don't love or have feelings for--things just breakdown from there. I think the combination of "easy" money (loss of work ethic, mental over-devaluation of money), being constantly put on a pedestal by some guys, or being constantly treated like dirt or a machine from others all have bad consequences that are not worth the money.

 

[LordLoki]

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Becoming an escort is attractive for the immediate tax-free cash gratification and what it provides. ......

tax-free? Has anyone else had a tax audit where they offer you "concessions" if you turn in other people ?

I know they have caught a few home repair people like that.

Only 3 things are certain in life.... death, taxes, and ... hmmmmm something about memory and old age but I forget the details.

A wise lady pays taxes.

LL

 

[amber-jade]

why Hypothetically answer when i can FOR REAL ?

hi everyone, it's justin..

i rarely get to comment on a thread that relates to amber's & my real life relationship however this is indeed one of those times.

it's true,and we don't hide the fact that we are in a real relationship.
maybe we are more open minded than most couple we know
( even in our private ie:swingers lifestyle )

sexually speaking, in our mfm scenes, (or fmf's as that happens a lot as well )
we are both WELL BEYOND the jealous mind set that can ruin other relationships,( seen it and experienced it in past lives you might say)
we share everything, i have my own money, amber has her money, as we are in a serious relationship, we do mix the two,( as many other couple do )

it is a given that it's NOT a lifestyle for most people, i can tell you this FACT.
once the feelings and emotions of being jealous are out of the picture, one can focus on the trully inportant things..( who here has experienced that shit, sick feeling of being jealous ) i sure have( in the past )
but with that out of you mind, the sky trully is the limit, in a 100% true open relationship.

i for one think it's amazingly hot seeing amber having sex
(with both male & females), or knowing that she's open enough and trusts me enough to experience her 1on1 guests. i mean whats the big deal?
we're in love, a love i have never felt EVER before.& i know she feels the same way, zerp doubt in my mind.

we 100% trust each other, i KNOW she will never leave me for one of the good looking/rich men from terb but try your best, ya never know.


i'm secure in what we have, as is she.
we hide nothing but share everything..

from what we/she does we have made several close friends, people we would have NEVER met otherwise.

so i guess what i'm saying is, whats better
sharing an open fully honest relationship
or having the type of job that takes you away from the person you want to be with for 1/2 the time of each day , possibly loosing touch with each other and the life you had wanted?
( ring any bells, anyone )
i feel the answer is '' neither'', live you own life, don't give a crap what other say or think.

'' if you don't live your life, who the hell will'' ?

so it's comment knowledge, we where a couple prior to the sp world.

best regards as always:
justin


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[Thousand]

Well, what if I happen to have all the best qualities of a male pornstar, would my upscale escort wife allow me thrive in the adult-film industry by making love to all the hot sexy ladies?

 

[amber-jade]

Well, what if I happen to have all the best qualities of a male pornstar, would my upscale escort wife allow me thrive in the adult-film industry by making love to all the hot sexy ladies?

YES....

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[Gyaos]

You're embarking on a relationship with a woman who has all the qualities you want in a life partner. She also happens to have all the qualities necessary to be one of the best upscale escorts in the industry and is giving this possibility serious consideration. Do you encourage or discourage her potential career choice? Why or why not?

Discourage and turn her into a billionaire instead.

Gyaos Baltar.

 

[Serpent]

You're embarking on a relationship with a woman who has all the qualities you want in a life partner. She also happens to have all the qualities necessary to be one of the best upscale escorts in the industry and is giving this possibility serious consideration.

Do you encourage or discourage her potential career choice? Why or why not?

Discourage. Why would anyone make an encouragement? Sometimes I find Terb to be another plane of reality, that even some working girls find strange!

Let's take your question and I'll give you some scenarios where not only would i encourage her, I'd go under financial debt to help make it happen:

1. she also happens to have all the qualities necessary to be one of the best business executives and is giving this possibility serious consideration

2. she also happens to have all the qualities necessary to be one of the best heart specialist and is giving this possibility serious consideration

3. she also happens to have all the qualities necessary to be one of the best lawyers (specialized like intellectual property law, M&A etc) and is giving this possibility serious consideration

4. she also happens to have all the qualities necessary to be one of the best CFAs and is giving this possibility serious consideration

 

[Thousand]

Discourage. Income potential is limited and diminishes with age.

 

[Emma@SecretaryService]

Is this the type of hypothetical answer you are looking for?--lol.

Aww Squashy, you never disappoint; that's why I love you. *kiss*

 

[Emma@SecretaryService]

Embarking on a relationship in my world means exclusivity. Therefore if she would consider selling intimacy by the hour then she is not an option for me. Yes, I'm a boring, vanilla guy but that's the way it is. If I was some other guys I would probably reason that since she sees all these men, I could "see" women on a weekly basis that I don't love or have feelings for--things just breakdown from there. I think the combination of "easy" money (loss of work ethic, mental over-devaluation of money), being constantly put on a pedestal by some guys, or being constantly treated like dirt or a machine from others all have bad consequences that are not worth the money.

You seem to be anything but boring, and vanilla tastes delicious.

 

[alexmst]

I'd stay out of it -its her choice what job she does. If she point blank cornered me and asked me what I thought, I'd discourage her. Most SPs I've known well/talked to have told me they have had occassional really bad client experiences they never forget, and so I wouldn't want to be 'on the record' as having been in favour of the career choice after she had one.

 

[The Cunning Linguist]

I don't think this is a hypothetical question at all. In my experience, they rarely are when someone asks them

I think Emma may play for the other team, gentlemen. Not that there's anything wrong with that....

Or....she may be thinking of making the choice herself...?

Cmon Emma...titillate us....