Thanks for all the feedback back guys and gals. I just wanted to see if I’m in the minority. I often do things a little differently than most aparantly and I wanted to see if this was the same here.
I don’t flirt during initial booking? Am I alone?
- Thread starter Jenesis
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I don't think it's necessary for a first-time booking but I have gotten flirty with some repeat sps on subsequent bookings and I think that can be fun. The one thing I think isn't asked enough on initial booking is what the client is looking for out of their time. I know it adds time/messages but it's great for setting expectations on both sides (also, re-affirming restrictions, finding out what the sp likes, and creating anticipation for the session). Every time I've been asked that we each found out something helpful for our time together and it minimized some of those awkward moments.
For any new lady, I following her booking requirements and keep it clean. May ask a few questions but that is it.
And one a lady is a regular, I may toss in a compliment but not looking to flirt. No need for fakery on anyone's part.
Also hate being called hun, baby or sexy. I always provide a name which should be used.
The same should apply to the lady.
And one a lady is a regular, I may toss in a compliment but not looking to flirt. No need for fakery on anyone's part.
Also hate being called hun, baby or sexy. I always provide a name which should be used.
The same should apply to the lady.
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I agree with your approach. Professional Friendly is the way to go. If a SP were to heavily flirt with me before we even met, I'd be worried about her mental stability and would second guess the booking.I had a man tell me I should flirt more when a client is trying to book. That I lost his booking because I didn't. I said no problem, I don't need to flirt to gain appointments. To which he said others do blah blah blah. I blocked.
but I'm curious... is this true? I just want to get to the point of the booking. Either my ad, site and reviews are enough or they are not. I'm not here to waste time flirting with every guy, wasting time etc.
Plus how fake is that? I don't know them. So I'm suppose beg for the thier cock?
Is this normal and I'm not following suit? I'm not going to change my ways. I am so low volume with a high regular list that I don't need to play flirt games to gain new clients. A lot of times, I'm not even accepting new clients. But I am curious.
How do most book? Straight to the point or flirt for the call?
@speakercontrols
Apart from mental stability there are also the questions of how stupid or naive a provider thinks you are. Aside from that being offensive it also would make me suspicious of being set up as a mark.
Friendly, positive, and 'low key' enthusiastic are all good in initial provider responses. (Along with being reasonably prompt, well spoken, and succinct.) I'm naturally wary of anyone being too over the top for anything, but YMMV.
Apart from mental stability there are also the questions of how stupid or naive a provider thinks you are. Aside from that being offensive it also would make me suspicious of being set up as a mark.
Friendly, positive, and 'low key' enthusiastic are all good in initial provider responses. (Along with being reasonably prompt, well spoken, and succinct.) I'm naturally wary of anyone being too over the top for anything, but YMMV.
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