Thanks for all the feedback back guys and gals. I just wanted to see if I’m in the minority. I often do things a little differently than most aparantly and I wanted to see if this was the same here.
I don’t flirt during initial booking? Am I alone?
- Thread starter Jenesis
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I don't think it's necessary for a first-time booking but I have gotten flirty with some repeat sps on subsequent bookings and I think that can be fun. The one thing I think isn't asked enough on initial booking is what the client is looking for out of their time. I know it adds time/messages but it's great for setting expectations on both sides (also, re-affirming restrictions, finding out what the sp likes, and creating anticipation for the session). Every time I've been asked that we each found out something helpful for our time together and it minimized some of those awkward moments.
For any new lady, I following her booking requirements and keep it clean. May ask a few questions but that is it.
And one a lady is a regular, I may toss in a compliment but not looking to flirt. No need for fakery on anyone's part.
Also hate being called hun, baby or sexy. I always provide a name which should be used.
The same should apply to the lady.
And one a lady is a regular, I may toss in a compliment but not looking to flirt. No need for fakery on anyone's part.
Also hate being called hun, baby or sexy. I always provide a name which should be used.
The same should apply to the lady.
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@speakercontrols
Apart from mental stability there are also the questions of how stupid or naive a provider thinks you are. Aside from that being offensive it also would make me suspicious of being set up as a mark.
Friendly, positive, and 'low key' enthusiastic are all good in initial provider responses. (Along with being reasonably prompt, well spoken, and succinct.) I'm naturally wary of anyone being too over the top for anything, but YMMV.
Apart from mental stability there are also the questions of how stupid or naive a provider thinks you are. Aside from that being offensive it also would make me suspicious of being set up as a mark.
Friendly, positive, and 'low key' enthusiastic are all good in initial provider responses. (Along with being reasonably prompt, well spoken, and succinct.) I'm naturally wary of anyone being too over the top for anything, but YMMV.
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