Interesting KWI but I am going to dinner at her place and I've already met some of the family. She keeps telling me not to mention anything or make a slip of what she does. I tell her I know and understand. I think she has more problems with this business than I do.
Is this my Future
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Dude, if she's an SP, she's aware of terb, and probably already reading this thread. Maybe up until now she has not connected you with your terb handle but if you show her the posts on this thread, or you even start bringing this topic up within a few days of this thread being live, then she damn well is going to know it's you!roland51 said:
If she wants to be totally honest with the guy she is with, she should share her past.
Strange gaps in her past, will get a guy to wondering what she is hiding. And this could cause problems down the road.
Also, she will live in constant fear of running acrossed someone when they are out and about, who was a customer. She'll have to explain her way out of that, and again it gets uncomfortable for her.
True love is all about honesty, otherwise its just another charade.
Strange gaps in her past, will get a guy to wondering what she is hiding. And this could cause problems down the road.
Also, she will live in constant fear of running acrossed someone when they are out and about, who was a customer. She'll have to explain her way out of that, and again it gets uncomfortable for her.
True love is all about honesty, otherwise its just another charade.
You might be right I just got texted and she said we need to talk. She's on her way over now which means she just left work. Also another SP I've know for years just E:mailed me to say she's reading this thread and I should check it out. It sounds alot like me. Go figure.
KWI do you know me. Maybe I am her standard and I never mentioned her age and everyone assumes I am old and she is young. What if it's the other way around or were closer in age than you think. Remember I said we had a lot in common and that's how this all started.
I'm kind of in this situation myself and am interested in seeing how it turns out for you roland51.roland51 said:
And if a chick is that selfish and that much of a user, count your blessings that you didn't end up with such a witch.KWI said:
At least until the guy finds out she used to be a hooker. Then she goes right back down to the minors.fuji said:
Wow. This thread is very insightful. If there was any notion that sex itself creates an intimate bond between people this has gone on hyperdrive - it is really other things that create this bond. Here, Roland51 was seeing an SP (I'm assuming sex was involved somewhere), and yet intimacy or connection were other facets that appeared to have developed elsewhere in this interaction apart from the sex.
Very Well Put ^_^ Couldn't have said it better myself!
Emotions are hard to "keep in check" for certain clients, especially after an SP gives them an hour of bliss, and makes them feel as though they are the most interesting, and important people on the face of this planet. (Not to mention extra brain activity in the insula + increased seratonin...)
I guess that sometimes, good service comes at a cost -- and that cost may be budding emotions in the client or SP. It may be easier for an SP to keep those emotions "in check", because she has that objective reminder (X-amount of money = paid bills/savings/gas/rent/tuition etc.) to keep her "in check". A client may personalize the experience, and become intimate as to minimize the feeling that they are partaking in a "transaction" - and that is where things may get gray. (As Amazon_Woman said...)
I don't necessarily think that there is anything wrong with personalizing sessions with a client/vice-versa -- so long as they understand that I am a person outside of this business, and I may not feel inclined to completely share myself with them. (Not to say that I am fake, I just don't think that you need to know everything about me...) (As Amazon_Woman said; there are certain boundaries...)
(Make sense ?)
Anyway, Good Luck Roland51! I hope that all turns out well for you.^_^
Emotions are hard to "keep in check" for certain clients, especially after an SP gives them an hour of bliss, and makes them feel as though they are the most interesting, and important people on the face of this planet. (Not to mention extra brain activity in the insula + increased seratonin...)
I guess that sometimes, good service comes at a cost -- and that cost may be budding emotions in the client or SP. It may be easier for an SP to keep those emotions "in check", because she has that objective reminder (X-amount of money = paid bills/savings/gas/rent/tuition etc.) to keep her "in check". A client may personalize the experience, and become intimate as to minimize the feeling that they are partaking in a "transaction" - and that is where things may get gray. (As Amazon_Woman said...)
I don't necessarily think that there is anything wrong with personalizing sessions with a client/vice-versa -- so long as they understand that I am a person outside of this business, and I may not feel inclined to completely share myself with them. (Not to say that I am fake, I just don't think that you need to know everything about me...) (As Amazon_Woman said; there are certain boundaries...)
(Make sense ?)
Anyway, Good Luck Roland51! I hope that all turns out well for you.^_^
Alexa just to set the record straight I never sought to start a relationship with this SP. After the second call and we talked most of the session she gave me her cell and said call her sometime. At first I thought this was maybe her hook but to what advantage. We just kept communicating and things changed. I respect the business and I respect the ladies I'm with. I don't seek friendship but only sex. Also our first sessions were not that good. It was the conversation that we enjoyed. I'm happy to say now that the time we spend together is much better.
To be a Fill-In for an SP is a terrible experience one man can go through.
The man gives all his precious Time, Resources, & feels the pain in his heart, but for SP its nothing, never fall into this trap you will repent for the rest of your life, to be honest is very difficult to trust most of the SP's in this kind of friendship/relationship for them men are just toy's to play with, & when they find another expensive toy, she just destroy's the old one and replaces it with a new one, sad but its true, sometimes reality bites.............
The man gives all his precious Time, Resources, & feels the pain in his heart, but for SP its nothing, never fall into this trap you will repent for the rest of your life, to be honest is very difficult to trust most of the SP's in this kind of friendship/relationship for them men are just toy's to play with, & when they find another expensive toy, she just destroy's the old one and replaces it with a new one, sad but its true, sometimes reality bites.............
Now she knows your wealthy
Live life in the present and enjoy the situation you are in. By starting this thread and her potentially reading it you have pretty much guaranteed an end to a good thing. Self fulfilling prophecy and another example of someone overthinking things and adding too much drama.
You are having sex for free with a beautiful woman -- in my books things are good -- why would you start this whole thread? (maybe deep down you feel unworthy and sabotaged yourself)
Well, DUH, now she knows you have money you dumb ass.roland51 said:
Live life in the present and enjoy the situation you are in. By starting this thread and her potentially reading it you have pretty much guaranteed an end to a good thing. Self fulfilling prophecy and another example of someone overthinking things and adding too much drama.
You are having sex for free with a beautiful woman -- in my books things are good -- why would you start this whole thread? (maybe deep down you feel unworthy and sabotaged yourself)
