Lasting longer

[drlove]

Ever been with a sexy SP, only to finish too quickly??

Well, I conducted an experiment. Prior to my last appointments, I "flogged the dolphin" so to speak a couple of times, and let me just say that the result was two marathon sessions of continuous sex! (approx 45 min. each) I love being able to hold back so as to work up a really good sweat and really enjoy myself....the lady didn't seem to mind, either! In short, everything was fantastic - up there with some of the best I've had. Try it and see how you do!

 

[Big Daddy]

Depends on your age

Flogging the dolphin may not be a good idea. Sometimes you may find that the dolphin is sleeping when the SP arrives, and you may end up paying for the session just to wake it up

 

[Sasha Jones]

I have to agree with Big Daddy, I have seen it happen many times.

Besides, not that I would know from personal experience of course but isn't the first release the best one? Even if it doesn't last very long?

I would suggest to everyone if they are a "2 minute man" and want to go longer to find an SP that allows "multiple shots" and go a couple rounds with some help!

 

[E_B_Samaritano]

I have to agree with Big Daddy, I have seen it happen many times.

Besides, not that I would know from personal experience of course but isn't the first release the best one? Even if it doesn't last very long?

I would suggest to everyone if they are a "2 minute man" and want to go longer to find an SP that allows "multiple shots" and go a couple rounds with some help!

Sasha,

Great advice! If we get any more advice like that given above from drlove, then I think we should fire off a malpractice complaint to the Board of Pussyology Practitioners.

EBS

 

[drlove]

LOL....Thanks for the differing points of view on the matter. However, the SP I'm seeing presently is incredible...similar to Angie @ EC (formerly of VIP) except that she only allows one SOG. Therefore, I want the experience to last. What can I say...so far, so good - or should I say ..hard??

 

[sarasota]

...isn't the first release the best one? Even if it doesn't last very long?

Yes it is. As long as I have successfully held back from the first couple of urges to release.

Suggestion-

"The Multi-Orgasmic Man" by Chia and Arava is a book all about learning control for both health and pleasure. I am still in the process of mastering their suggestions.

 

[Big Daddy]

Not a surprise

No wonder woman prefer older guys

As far as first releases are concerned. I like first releases, particularly if they take the time that it takes for the second release.

 

[i_am_good]

...just be careful...I heard...

Not that this happend to me but...

While using a spay to desensitize the head of a penis is a great idea, the man must be careful not to spray too much if he intends to DATY. His lips/mouth/tongue might go numb!

Not that this happend to me...

 

[shack]

Re: ...just be careful...I heard...

Not that this happend to me but...

While using a spay to desensitize the head of a penis is a great idea, the man must be careful not to spray too much if he intends to DATY. His lips/mouth/tongue might go numb!

Not that this happend to me...

That's because you're long enough to get it in your own mouth.

 

[rr_bill]

A good desensitizer - "Stud 100"

I have a desensaticer that I use fir clients who want to last longer. One spray onthe head of the penis and it numbs the area. Not completely so that you don't have feeling but enough to make you last longer. I don't know exactly what it feels like, maybe the guys on here can help you out with that matter.

You can go to your local adult store and they should be able to help you with other products that can help as well. ............... Hope this helps,
kiarra

In case anyone is still wondering I can vouch for this stuff. I believe kiarra is referring to Stud 100 which I have seen on the counter at AOV, though I have purchased it elsewhere as well. The sprays are measured so you don't over-do it and thought it seems expensive, a spray can will last you for a very long time.

Re: using "one spray on the head" only:

I find it more beneficial to the desensitize the shaft as well as the head, so for me, a little more than one shot is needed because of the extra coverage.

I have tried other products e.g. "Maintain" and others similar to it, that are available at most drug stores where condoms are sold, and found that they were generally nowhere near as effective as the "Stud100", which is close to 10% Lidocaine (the same anaesthetic used in Solarcaine). Just a thought here - Has any one ever tried Solarcaine for this purpose?

Some years ago, long before desensitizers were available for this purpose, I found a product available at large drug departments that contained a fairly large content of xylocaine. It was intended for use as an oral anaesthetic and I used it very successfully as a sexual desensitizer for years until it became unavailable OTC (a prescription item?). It was even more powerful than Stud100.

i_am_good;

You must do your DATYing before you get to the main course - that gives the Lidocaine a chance to become more effective.

 

[shack]

Products like Ora-Gel, T-Jel and Anbesol are all over the counter topical anesthetics containing benzocaine.

 

[i_am_good]

??

shack, rr_bill

I've never used nor needed any of those products. And shack, at least you got the first part right.

 

[johnyboy]

I dated this girl once ..ok had an affair with and every time I scored she would start honking as soon as bobo dried out a bit and let me tell you they were all good ..just different and I ain't no spring chicken and she pulled 4 loads in 3 hours whew!!!..man I miss that girl