Is it illegal to have a girl on the side, whether long or short term? Go to the doctor to get a Rx for Viagra.
Are you married, Popeye?
Married but I want a side chick, what do I do?
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Are you married, Popeye?
Keep the next one happy. Pre-emptively stock up on flip flops and track suits for the next one.
That will likely be living in the unit on the next street at the trailer park....
Take the $700 and spend it on doing fun things with your SO, and any family you may have with her.
Do stuff you did that made you happy doing stuff together as you likely did in the past.
This should help to shake the stuck in a rut feeling.
And is so much less of a bomb than the other way you are planning on flushing $700.
I get the urge to wander. Stifle it some.
Talk to dear wife, explain you are going to blow off steam at the strip club, race track, whatever with some pals.
And talk about what you did.
Dont hide it.
I am still with my wife after 30 years of marriage. Kids are grown.
She has a guy pal she hangs with for some fun.
I know him, Is a good friend who got fiscally screwed by ex wife.
She scratches her itch 3-5 times a year with him, mostly because there are often times when there is a distict lack of lead in my pencil.
Unless on vacation and work pressures are out of my mind for while.
And when I feel the need to unwind and she is busy off seeing some movie or play I dont want to see I tell her I have an itch to see the peelers.
We catch up at breakfast.
How was your night, and we tell each other.
I have never been married, (and I am told it is a taboo subject), but I read many many couples who have been married for decades no longer sleep together but have sexual partners on the side. In some countries, like South Africa and Botswana, couples rarely get divorced but have affairs.
Not a smart decision. Your wife will eventually find out and be prepared to lose half of your shit over this.
Well apparently your love isn't as strong as you think if you're looking for someone else. You are already looking for an escape and you're only in your mid 30's. It wont get better. I'm not sure what kind of advise an individual can possibly give to you? Is there some secret remedy? I'm guessing you found your way to escorts but you need guidance for something long term? So if I posted " looking for a new car " what do you think people would say? They would probably say go find one.
She hops from guy to guy. I didn't care because I had no intention to be with her, as I told her about my gf all the time.
I'm only assuming here, but if he's like most married men, he was promised monogamy in marriage, but what he got was celibacy.
Try going the sugar baby route. If your willing to fork over some $ there are more then enough women out there who are comfortable with being a side chick to a married guy.
Can you go the sugar baby route with 700$ a month? I am afraid he will end up on artificial sweetener baby
Seeing as you were the one getting mocked by others...........NO. I received no beating.
I'll only respond when you post something worthy of a response. But keep up the name calling.
I had to look it up as I had never heard of that term
I did the SA route a few years ago but found out quite early that it was costly if you were just a tad picky hehe So went back to SP.
In Latin America too. Knew a USA govt bloke who told me working in an embassy that a dad brought in his 18 year old daughter and after the dad got his visa paperwork he introduced his daughter saying she needs a "sponsor" and that an important handsome man like my friend should have a girl on the side he sponsors. My friend said what this meant was in essence the daughter is a sugar baby, gets put up in her own apartment, and in essence trades sex for the accommodation and an allowance. He was stunned that it was her dad touting her lol.
I've been called it. LOLI had to look it up as I had never heard of that term
You need to be patient and prepared to keep walking away if they're asking for too much. You still have the SP as backup. But when you find an SB that you connect with and within your budget, it can be very fulfilling.
I saw my first SP in over a year last week and had a good time. Thanks, Philip.
This.
The point of an escort is they won't get attached and start calling you and causing trouble. The side chick is going to want more at some point and the wife is going to figure it out at sometime.
Best solution is to find a regular SP that you can have a long term arrangement with.
At $700 a month, you can get a couple of visits in a month.
I say this admitting that I don’t know the SB scene but I know it can be a lot of work to find the right arrangement. So if you not willing to put in the work, an SP regular is a great option.
Exactly. I've done the mistress route before. Best sex I've ever had for sure, but also the most drama. Maybe less if she's also married and understands the dynamics at play, but having a regular escort is a far better situation. You can still get the personalized attention and knowledge of what gets you off, but not have to worry about threats or extortion, and you can schedule for whenever works for you. With a mistress you're going to need to spend 10 hours messaging/dating her for every hour in bed, which is how it should be but do you have time for that? And if you do get caught, it's better to be able to say it was over professional paid sex rather than an actual emotional relationship.
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