Monthly allowances or PPV?

[alexiadx]

Some guys love attention and or to post critical attacks. It's no wonder there are very few industry girls posting on TERB.

Wow!!!
As the new girl on here, I totally didn't expect to see such spirited discussions on the topic.
As I mentioned Tyra and I were discussing this and I went ahead and added that option $4000/mth on my website but was still unsure of how to negotiate it or if its a worthy idea, also wanted general pros and cons form both sides ect

Yes it is kind of similar to a sugar daddy arrangement but without the pretense and lying that I've heard of.

I'm only on the 1st page of reading all your responses... and I'm hoping this thread gets less malicious towards SP's who share their personal experiences, feelings and opinions.

Here's hoping ....

 

[alexiadx]

You mentioned you're new so I thought I'd offer a couple of things to think about

I think most sugar daddy type arrangements have the gent expecting some level of exclusivity. Probably complete exclusivity. So maybe it's best not to use that term. It's your business to offer whatever you want, and your rates are yours to choose, just be honest with your clients about what they are getting.

Welcome to terb

HAHAHAH indeed. Thank you Jessica and Chloe.

LOL ok so ... hmmm offensive, funny, ludicrous, but overall I appreciated all the feedback and analogies. At the end of the day I really wanted to thank everyone for their input. Lots to digest

Miss Jessica Lee added her experience of using retainers which sounds like a great idea

So is that more like a draw system? I'm assuming that you mean something like you pay a retainer of X. An hour of your time is normally Y, but when drawn from the retainer is more like Y less 10% or something.

That way you have the assurance of hassle free payment and guaranteed bookings and the client gets a slight discount for the up front loyalty. If we are on the same page, this one at least has a basis in logic and makes some sense

 

[gack]

Hi all,

I'm the one who (I think) posted the first analogy using cell phone minutes. It was in response to a point about a subscription model (like Netflix).

I definitely didn't mean to offend any SPs, or belittle their worth. I thought this thread was about two different business models - PPV vs subscription. That's what I was trying to discuss - the business models involved.

If this came across as offensive or lacking respect for SPs - I apologize. I have the utmost respect for you ladies - which is why I'm here, and utilize your services!

 

[ValeriaBeleza]

Actually it's not quite like that. I have experience with these.

If he's the type to prefer longer sessions (clock-free dates not including overnight, usually a 5-6 hour thing), then he gets a couple of those a month. 2 or 3 which adds up to what my monthly arrangement fee is = $6000/month.

If he's the type to prefer shorter arrangements, 1-3 hours, then obviously he is free to see me up to a certain point that doesn't exceed the monthly fee by a great deal. I wouldn't nitpick an hour or two.

Usually gentlemen who prefer these types of arrangements aren't looking to call you up every day and demand that you are available on a whim. It is still treated like a regular session, with respect to both parties' availability. Also expectation with regards to other partners definitely varies. With my experience, I've found that they preferred 1 or 2 multi hour sessions a week and one or 2 dates that month, usually to a work party or some sporting event.

What people should remember is that with monthly arrangements, respect is still a very important factor. It is more likely to succeed with people you have great chemistry and history with.

The pros? Revenue with a regular client you hopefully enjoy being with. Absolutely won't work any other way. You can't pretend for that long...at least I don't believe so.

Cons? If you aren't used to what this type of thing demands, it can be hard.
A girl who is used to shorter sessions may decide it's not for her versus one who prefers longer ones and enjoys her time.
As well as one who prefers a gift every time versus one who doesn't mind a lump sum at the end of the month. The latter SP will usually succeed with these arrangements.

Then there is the issue of someone who wants you to be exclusive only to him.
If that comes into play, you have to factor in your fees depending on how much you generate monthly or quarterly and how much you expect to lose if you become strictly exclusive. Factoring how long this thing will potentially last, a month or 4 or 6, etc, may end up to be more costly than a normal monthly one (some months/quarters tend to be more lucrative than others).

I agree with Chloë. In addition, it often includes Skype calls if he is away

 

[Wild Wiglin Willie]

I think that the SPs in this thread discussing bulk selling of their services are unclear on the concept of bulk selling. I suggest that they go to Costco and see how things really work in the real world. Products are sold in larger packages at a discounted price for the convenience of the client. There is also a savings component built into the transaction. I hope this helps. I hope I have not given any ideas to SPs that may want to have a upfront fee for a membership card that clients will have to show at the door.

 

[niniveh]

" I hope I have not given any ideas to SPs that may want to have a upfront fee for a membership card that clients will have to show at the door."
What's wrong with that? Don't you do it at Costcos?

 

[Wild Wiglin Willie]

Nothing wrong with that if they do not charge for the membership cards.

 

[implied69]

I can't help but think any client who pays a monthly fee of 6k for limited (not unlimited) sex is rather dim witted and lazy or unfortunate in the looks department.

If you used a service - you could have 20hrs of sex at 300/h and great variety - playing a numbers game. If you like one of the many there are better arrangements to be had.

As they say there's a sucker born every minute.

I agree. $250-$300 for any hot chick. I don't know about you but seeing maybe 3diff chicks is a turn on. 1 chick over and over again gets a bit stale fast.

Looking at sites like seeking arrangement is a rip out