My updated Sugar dating progresses

[GeeBee]

I think he means that the SBs are setup by the site to get SDs to use more credits.

This is exactly what he means, we know that the SB’s aren't getting the credits. Many of the profiles appear to be fakes designed to get guys to spend their credits. I also suspect that legit girls profiles are used in this way, in that the site filters and sorts whose messages show up in their inboxes based on a guys credits. I’ve spoken to several SB’s about this. The suspicion is that messages from guys who are getting very low on credits seem to get seen by girls quicker to elicit a response, and the illusion of success. After he buys more credits? back to the bottom of the pile.

 

[Aprilmaeuk]

I think he means that the SBs are setup by the site to get SDs to use more credits.

Ahhh yes makes sense hahaha

 

[oral.com]

My recent experience with SDM has been frustrating. After connecting with potential SBs, the meet and greet next step now seems to always require a tribute ($250 is a number that they all want, which is suspicious)
I have been burned in the past with this, and reluctant to move forward. Is this a new standard or a scam to extract quick cash risk free?

 

[Aprilmaeuk]

My recent experience with SDM has been frustrating. After connecting with potential SBs, the meet and greet next step now seems to always require a tribute ($250 is a number that they all want, which is suspicious)
I have been burned in the past with this, and reluctant to move forward. Is this a new standard or a scam to extract quick cash risk free?

This sounds more like findom than anything, probably not genuine!

 

[Hamsterxxx]

So here is my experience after being on the SBs site for a few weeks now. After a extensive amount of likes and messages I've realized that I have a 20% success rate of amount of messages given/received to ongoing conversation leading to exchanging contacts..Note* even if the girl has initiated the conversation, most of the time it stops even if I reply (suspicions in bots) an overwhelming amount of daily messages/ likes to go thru, but now we as men we have to pick and choose who messages we want to pay for. As for the amount of girls I have gone out with was 3 of them from SBs site. I'm getting serious with one of them at the moment and she told me that she met me on sugardaddy site while I was using secretbenifits ( same platforms and setup, makes sense). as for one of the girls who told me that her account got hacked, this being random messages from her account sending out greetings to other guys that she had never came across. This basically answered my questionings about this site not being totally legit. Has this weird activity happened to any of you girls?
Regardless since I have met up with 3 and had the potential to meet up with 6 in total (I got no time to M&G all) I really do enjoy the secret photo option since I rather not show my face across the site and only Grant access to those I choose. not many options out there that hide profile pics other than Ashley Madison which is total dog shit of a site. I hope this helps some of you guys make a decision to sign up or not or confused as I was in the beginning.

 

[Massivo]

So here is my experience after being on the SBs site for a few weeks now. After a extensive amount of likes and messages I've realized that I have a 20% success rate of amount of messages given/received to ongoing conversation leading to exchanging contacts..Note* even if the girl has initiated the conversation, most of the time it stops even if I reply (suspicions in bots) an overwhelming amount of daily messages/ likes to go thru, but now we as men we have to pick and choose who messages we want to pay for. As for the amount of girls I have gone out with was 3 of them from SBs site. I'm getting serious with one of them at the moment and she told me that she met me on sugardaddy site while I was using secretbenifits ( same platforms and setup, makes sense). as for one of the girls who told me that her account got hacked, this being random messages from her account sending out greetings to other guys that she had never came across. This basically answered my questionings about this site not being totally legit. Has this weird activity happened to any of you girls?
Regardless since I have met up with 3 and had the potential to meet up with 6 in total (I got no time to M&G all) I really do enjoy the secret photo option since I rather not show my face across the site and only Grant access to those I choose. not many options out there that hide profile pics other than Ashley Madison which is total dog shit of a site. I hope this helps some of you guys make a decision to sign up or not or confused as I was in the beginning.

I've been on seeking and sugar daddy.ca for a couple of months now. Seeking is by far the better site... I've hidden my profile on sugar daddy.ca because I would get these messages and none of the girls would respond after I replied... There's definitely a scam going on with sugar daddy.ca. I met a girl off there who turned out to be an escort and things didn't work out, but the rest have been MIA or flakes after one or two messages.

My recommendation is to stay away from sugar daddy.ca. The credit system lends itself to the site scamming people to use up their credits... I think there's a lot of bot activity there... I've got a few more credits left, but after spending about 1 or $200 on credits I'm not buying anymore. Stay away!

 

[Liam011]

Counterpoint.. I have now slept with 9 women I met through sugardaddy ca. That's over about 3 years. I guess it depends on your skills and the demographic you're hunting in. YMMV, for short.

 

[CameronP]

never tried any of the SD sites. this is enticing lol

 

[Sugarsweet905]

Counterpoint.. I have now slept with 9 women I met through sugardaddy ca. That's over about 3 years. I guess it depends on your skills and the demographic you're hunting in. YMMV, for short.

Counterpoint.. I have now slept with 6 women I met through seeking. That's over about 3 months. I guess it depends on your skills and the demographic you're hunting in. YMMV, for short.

I like my results better.

 

[Aprilmaeuk]

Anybody wants to share their favourite explanation for women on seeking who ask about ppm etc as to why these convos should be taken off seeking site?

My attempts to educate them about bans etc are futile in at least 50% of cases

We get the same warnings and rules… so if anyone if talking about money on the site theyre fake. If they look too good to be true, they usually are lol. Snapchat telegram etc are huge red flags.

 

[GeeBee]

We get the same warnings and rules… so if anyone if talking about money on the site theyre fake. If they look too good to be true, they usually are lol. Snapchat telegram etc are huge red flags.

Can you clarify for me April. If we all know $$ talk can’t happen in the seeking messages, but snapchat telegram etc… is a red flag for girls, where should a guy suggest that the financial discussion take place? I usually suggest Snap because most young women have it and its discreet from my end.

 

[mcnulty22]

I am in a position to explore being a SD, and am intrigued. Can someone help me answer: Seeking has a seflie verification process. Is this selfie viewable by any users on the platform?

 

[GeeBee]

I am in a position to explore being a SD, and am intrigued. Can someone help me answer: Seeking has a seflie verification process. Is this selfie viewable by any users on the platform?

The verification is not necessary as far as I remember, and I wouldn’t trust them having a selfie. Skip it.

 

[mcnulty22]

The verification is not necessary as far as I remember, and I wouldn’t trust them having a selfie. Skip it.

Thanks for the reply! Looks like it became mandatory about 5 months ago. I can't bypass

 

[Papi69]

another question- how can you tell if the SB is a SP in disguise?

When you ask her as a joke, Are you okay with Bbbj and Daty? And instead of her saying "What's that?" Which is what you would expect from a non-Sp girl, she says "Yes, but No Cim and No greek."