New guy

[smoodie]

Hey everyone,


I'm a 23-year-old virgin. A while ago, I hired a girl from Top Drawer Ladies, but she was much older than I expected, and I just couldn't get turned on. She did give me a blowjob, though.


My birthday is coming up, and I'm thinking about seeing someone from ASB or another Asian provider. The only thing that's really holding me back is the fear of HIV or other STIs.


For those of you who have done this before, are you not worried about catching something? How do you deal with that concern?


Thanks.

 

[unassuming]

You should find another hobby.

 

[smoodie]

You should find another hobby.

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so just because i asked.. u will be rude to me?

 

[Ryan_Coke]

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so just because i asked.. u will be rude to me?

No, he's just being honest. For someome who isn't experienced with women or sex, this is a difficult way to start and will make it more difficult in approaching non-pro's for future relationships.

That said, as long as you wear a condom you should do fine. Most agency girls are tested and operate safely. It is a hobby with risk but so is skydiving.

 

[fabulousinna]

When I first started I was in the same boat. But here’s the thing, the actual chances of catching something are extremely low. Like in this hobby you have less of a chance of an sti/std compared to a random girl you met at the bar. It’s just in your head, you’ll be fine and the paranoia disappeared for me after I think the 3rd or 4th time. Also, as a rule of thumb, always add like 5-8 years on top of which ever sp you see. Many great options at sft and dd as well, these two are my go to. I think Ella from sft would be perfect for you.

 

[GreedyBoy]

Hey everyone,


I'm a 23-year-old virgin. A while ago, I hired a girl from Top Drawer Ladies, but she was much older than I expected, and I just couldn't get turned on. She did give me a blowjob, though.


My birthday is coming up, and I'm thinking about seeing someone from ASB or another Asian provider. The only thing that's really holding me back is the fear of HIV or other STIs.


For those of you who have done this before, are you not worried about catching something? How do you deal with that concern?


Thanks.

You always roll the dice when you have sex with someone new. Just wear condoms.

So young! Sex on demand can screw you up if you have no experience. But sometimes an SP can help you over the hump, so to speak, break you in. Real relationships are so much more rewarding. If possible it is better for you find a girlfriend.

 

[LTO_3]

Find someone among your friends to bang you on your birthday. In fact, use that as the set-up and you'll have a better time than seeing an SP. Ask any of your male friends who they know or recommend for you to get laid on your birthday since friends are often helpful in making this happen. Only as a last resort see an SP since you're already fumbling through this since your nervousness is showing in your post. And ALWAYS, friend (preferably) or SP, wear a condom for your and her protection.

LTO_3

 

[OntGuy2010]

A quick search would return much more that you could EVER read and "digest" Has been discussed SO much SO many times!