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[smoodie]

Hey everyone,


I'm a 23-year-old virgin. A while ago, I hired a girl from Top Drawer Ladies, but she was much older than I expected, and I just couldn't get turned on. She did give me a blowjob, though.


My birthday is coming up, and I'm thinking about seeing someone from ASB or another Asian provider. The only thing that's really holding me back is the fear of HIV or other STIs.


For those of you who have done this before, are you not worried about catching something? How do you deal with that concern?


Thanks.

 

[unassuming]

You should find another hobby.

 

[smoodie]

You should find another hobby.

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so just because i asked.. u will be rude to me?

 

[Ryan_Coke]

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so just because i asked.. u will be rude to me?

No, he's just being honest. For someome who isn't experienced with women or sex, this is a difficult way to start and will make it more difficult in approaching non-pro's for future relationships.

That said, as long as you wear a condom you should do fine. Most agency girls are tested and operate safely. It is a hobby with risk but so is skydiving.

 

[fabulousinna]

When I first started I was in the same boat. But here’s the thing, the actual chances of catching something are extremely low. Like in this hobby you have less of a chance of an sti/std compared to a random girl you met at the bar. It’s just in your head, you’ll be fine and the paranoia disappeared for me after I think the 3rd or 4th time. Also, as a rule of thumb, always add like 5-8 years on top of which ever sp you see. Many great options at sft and dd as well, these two are my go to. I think Ella from sft would be perfect for you.

 

[GreedyBoy]

Hey everyone,


I'm a 23-year-old virgin. A while ago, I hired a girl from Top Drawer Ladies, but she was much older than I expected, and I just couldn't get turned on. She did give me a blowjob, though.


My birthday is coming up, and I'm thinking about seeing someone from ASB or another Asian provider. The only thing that's really holding me back is the fear of HIV or other STIs.


For those of you who have done this before, are you not worried about catching something? How do you deal with that concern?


Thanks.

You always roll the dice when you have sex with someone new. Just wear condoms.

So young! Sex on demand can screw you up if you have no experience. But sometimes an SP can help you over the hump, so to speak, break you in. Real relationships are so much more rewarding. If possible it is better for you find a girlfriend.

 

[LTO_3]

Find someone among your friends to bang you on your birthday. In fact, use that as the set-up and you'll have a better time than seeing an SP. Ask any of your male friends who they know or recommend for you to get laid on your birthday since friends are often helpful in making this happen. Only as a last resort see an SP since you're already fumbling through this since your nervousness is showing in your post. And ALWAYS, friend (preferably) or SP, wear a condom for your and her protection.

LTO_3

 

[OntGuy2010]

A quick search would return much more that you could EVER read and "digest" Has been discussed SO much SO many times!

 

[reviewer_person]

Could you elaborate on why "sex on demand" can screw someone up if they don't have much experience?

 

[The Options Menu]

For those of you who have done this before, are you not worried about catching something? How do you deal with that concern?

Get the common vaccinations including hepatitis and HPV. Stay up to date on them. Understand the relative risks of the services you engage in, and stick to your safety lines. Listen to your big head and take a good look (wet sores and rashes bad, along with track marks, etc.) and smell (modest healthy vagina smell, or no smell, is good, and foul smells are bad). GET TESTED MORE THAN NEVER. Try not to succumb to hypochondria.

Most established pros have better sexual health practices, and test far more often, than civilians in this town. The number of civilian women willing to raw dog a guy because he seems nice is crazy.

 

[superman12]

Hey everyone,


I'm a 23-year-old virgin. A while ago, I hired a girl from Top Drawer Ladies, but she was much older than I expected, and I just couldn't get turned on. She did give me a blowjob, though.


My birthday is coming up, and I'm thinking about seeing someone from ASB or another Asian provider. The only thing that's really holding me back is the fear of HIV or other STIs.


For those of you who have done this before, are you not worried about catching something? How do you deal with that concern?


Thanks.

Its natural to have the fear of catching something especially when you first start seeing sp's. Just know that the women you meet get tested regularly and are probably more "clean" then a girl you might hook up with off of a dating app or just randomly for a one night stand. For a lot of women in the industry this is there livelihood so they probably take more precautions then there clients do to ensure they dont catch something themselves or give something to their clients. Always wear a condom when your doing the deed and try not to cum in her even while wearing a condom. Take the condom off and blow in her mouth or somewhere on her to be extra safe.

 

[reaper29]

Use a reputable agency as the girls will mostly get regularly tested. Don't forget, this is their livelihood, so they don't want to take unnecessary risk either.

Try Katie Kuiper at Duscreet Dolls. She's super friendly and closer to your age.

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Good luck.

 

[GreedyBoy]

Could you elaborate on why "sex on demand" can screw someone up if they don't have much experience?

You buy time with an SP and it is all about you. With a GF you make an investment, and it is about both of you. You just need money to be with an SP. With a GF you also need to make an effort - you make mistakes but you learn.

With SPs you pay for a service. It is all about your immediate gratification. And when the time is up, things end there. With a GF you need to invest effort, time, care, and sex still might not happen. But if things go well you get companionship, ongoing intimacy, commitment and perhaps love. Guys tend to look for sex, but discover that there is so much more to enjoy, and that they too have emotional needs. SPs are technically much better at sex in the short term, and they have the non-sexual skills to pamper you, make you comfortable and amuse you for a one-sided hour. Plus they may be better looking and much younger than anyone that you could win with your looks and charm. With a GF you learn how to please each other, navigate each other's emotional landscapes, and things get better over time. If you have not learned the relationships skills to have a GF you may end up trying to find love with an SP - you can buy sex but you cannot buy love! If you start your adult life with GFs, later on you will have much more realistic expectations with SPs. But if you see SPs before having a serious GF, you will have unrealistic expectations of a civvie, or never develop the ability to get a GF. And then you will be disappointed when your emotional needs are not met. You might even become resentful, misogynistic.

For a different perspective, older married men often want to stay married, having invested time and love in someone, consequently they do not want a GF, and see SPs because their spouses lose interest in sex and intimacy.

 

[Gentleman777]

You buy time with an SP and it is all about you. With a GF you make an investment, and it is about both of you. You just need money to be with an SP. With a GF you also need to make an effort - you make mistakes but you learn.

With SPs you pay for a service. It is all about your immediate gratification. And when the time is up, things end there. With a GF you need to invest effort, time, care, and sex still might not happen. But if things go well you get companionship, ongoing intimacy, commitment and perhaps love. Guys tend to look for sex, but discover that there is so much more to enjoy, and that they too have emotional needs. SPs are technically much better at sex in the short term, and they have the non-sexual skills to pamper you, make you comfortable and amuse you for a one-sided hour. Plus they may be better looking and much younger than anyone that you could win with your looks and charm. With a GF you learn how to please each other, navigate each other's emotional landscapes, and things get better over time. If you have not learned the relationships skills to have a GF you may end up trying to find love with an SP - you can buy sex but you cannot buy love! If you start your adult life with GFs, later on you will have much more realistic expectations with SPs. But if you see SPs before having a serious GF, you will have unrealistic expectations of a civvie, or never develop the ability to get a GF. And then you will be disappointed when your emotional needs are not met. You might even become resentful, misogynistic.

For a different perspective, older married men often want to stay married, having invested time and love in someone, consequently they do not want a GF, and see SPs because their spouses lose interest in sex and intimacy.

Well put. I would recommend you have some sexual experience with civie women before ever seeing an SP.

It seems like there are a bunch of young, virgin men trying to bang escorts, and that is not the correct timeline to go in.

 

[Ryan_Coke]

You buy time with an SP and it is all about you. With a GF you make an investment, and it is about both of you. You just need money to be with an SP. With a GF you also need to make an effort - you make mistakes but you learn.

With SPs you pay for a service. It is all about your immediate gratification. And when the time is up, things end there. With a GF you need to invest effort, time, care, and sex still might not happen. But if things go well you get companionship, ongoing intimacy, commitment and perhaps love. Guys tend to look for sex, but discover that there is so much more to enjoy, and that they too have emotional needs. SPs are technically much better at sex in the short term, and they have the non-sexual skills to pamper you, make you comfortable and amuse you for a one-sided hour. Plus they may be better looking and much younger than anyone that you could win with your looks and charm. With a GF you learn how to please each other, navigate each other's emotional landscapes, and things get better over time. If you have not learned the relationships skills to have a GF you may end up trying to find love with an SP - you can buy sex but you cannot buy love! If you start your adult life with GFs, later on you will have much more realistic expectations with SPs. But if you see SPs before having a serious GF, you will have unrealistic expectations of a civvie, or never develop the ability to get a GF. And then you will be disappointed when your emotional needs are not met. You might even become resentful, misogynistic.

For a different perspective, older married men often want to stay married, having invested time and love in someone, consequently they do not want a GF, and see SPs because their spouses lose interest in sex and intimacy.

Awesome post

 

[Mhorgan]

Hey everyone,


I'm a 23-year-old virgin. A while ago, I hired a girl from Top Drawer Ladies, but she was much older than I expected, and I just couldn't get turned on. She did give me a blowjob, though.


My birthday is coming up, and I'm thinking about seeing someone from ASB or another Asian provider. The only thing that's really holding me back is the fear of HIV or other STIs.


For those of you who have done this before, are you not worried about catching something? How do you deal with that concern?


Thanks.

Dont start this hobby you will be fxcked for your life.