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Oops, I stand corrected!Roommates said:
This thread is addicting- like a drug! I can't even sleep, I'm so excited to read all of the replies. I know it sounds silly, but...
Alexa...is that you??? I miss you! Call me!sensual lady said:
Okay, I'm going to sleep...I hope. Goodnight TerbLand!
I read your initial post last night at 10:30 and was struck with the exact feelings that homonger originally presented. I like the fact that the reviews are there. It helps the beginning hobbyist discern between reputable agencies and good, respectful sp's. As far as listing what may (or may not) have taken place during an encounter, I can see your point, but it would be hard to stop.
You are totally right when you say it is a matter of respect. Respecting you as a person and respecting your wishes as a service provider.
I have looked at several reviews for you since you announced your possible arrival in the Barrie area, and ALL have been good to outstanding. I have also noticed that you provide different services to different clients. THAT IS EXPECTED. YMMV is a acronym used frequently for that very reason, not just in regards to you, but most other sp's as well.
I think the main issue is the little boys that throw a fit when they feel their mileage was not as long. I like that your menu is not rock solid, and that if the mood is right, and you are willing, the menu may have additions, but I wouldn't cry about it if it didn't happen.
Even in long term relationships this occurs. People have moods, turn-ons, turn-offs and soetimes have just a bad day. In your line of work, the whole cleanliness issue and the fact that you just may not be attracted to ALL guys plays a big part.
I think you have handled this in the best way you can. Voice your displeasure that the details are listed, and hope that your wishes are respected.
I have not reviewed any sp's myself for this reason. I will give a thumbs up or down, but thats about it. If the review would be bad, I would not arbitrarily post it. If I were asked (say in a pm), I would give may opinion and stop.
I will be posting reviews soon, as I am a new hobbyist and am just starting to form a foundation of opinion. As far as details, that would depend on the wishes of the sp. I think reviews are good for sp's in the way that they open doors, and extremely bad in the way that they can close them.
I hope your requests are respected, and I look forward to seeing you if you make it to Barrie.
Jerm
P.S. I'm a Capricorn, so respond accordingly!<S>
You are totally right when you say it is a matter of respect. Respecting you as a person and respecting your wishes as a service provider.
I have looked at several reviews for you since you announced your possible arrival in the Barrie area, and ALL have been good to outstanding. I have also noticed that you provide different services to different clients. THAT IS EXPECTED. YMMV is a acronym used frequently for that very reason, not just in regards to you, but most other sp's as well.
I think the main issue is the little boys that throw a fit when they feel their mileage was not as long. I like that your menu is not rock solid, and that if the mood is right, and you are willing, the menu may have additions, but I wouldn't cry about it if it didn't happen.
Even in long term relationships this occurs. People have moods, turn-ons, turn-offs and soetimes have just a bad day. In your line of work, the whole cleanliness issue and the fact that you just may not be attracted to ALL guys plays a big part.
I think you have handled this in the best way you can. Voice your displeasure that the details are listed, and hope that your wishes are respected.
I have not reviewed any sp's myself for this reason. I will give a thumbs up or down, but thats about it. If the review would be bad, I would not arbitrarily post it. If I were asked (say in a pm), I would give may opinion and stop.
I will be posting reviews soon, as I am a new hobbyist and am just starting to form a foundation of opinion. As far as details, that would depend on the wishes of the sp. I think reviews are good for sp's in the way that they open doors, and extremely bad in the way that they can close them.
I hope your requests are respected, and I look forward to seeing you if you make it to Barrie.
Jerm
P.S. I'm a Capricorn, so respond accordingly!<S>
Well said, Jeremy.
For what it's worth, just because reviews don't have explicit play-by-play details doesn't mean they are any worse. Observe:
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IMHO, the second review is more attractive, and would make me want to see her more than the first.
* These reviews are fictional. I have never met Vanessa, dammit. I made the two reviews up. I have no idea of her services. Stop PMing me for details. Offer void in Quebec. No purchase necessary, see stores for details.
For what it's worth, just because reviews don't have explicit play-by-play details doesn't mean they are any worse. Observe:
Is
really any better than
?
IMHO, the second review is more attractive, and would make me want to see her more than the first.
* These reviews are fictional. I have never met Vanessa, dammit. I made the two reviews up. I have no idea of her services. Stop PMing me for details. Offer void in Quebec. No purchase necessary, see stores for details.
Vanessa made a very reasonable request to not have the intimate details of her private sessions made public in a review. Why is this such a issue?
However, I think she could have kept this thread to 2 pages by not stating the obvious..... the worst kept secret in the escort business by the way..... that providers do not offer the same menu to every client. But I give her credit for saying it publicly and without apology, especially since she tends to create controversy even when she DOESNT try!
Bottom line is that you get what you give, but some guys cant handle the blow to their fragile ego when it become apparent that they simply arent going to get everything they read about. That is precisely why SPs hate explicit reviews, because whether or not they are fact or fiction (and lets face it, some of the members here should be writing Letters to Penthouse), every guy that reads it wants to replicate the best of the best.
VV, psssst....... write me, I'm a Sagitarrius, I'm from New York and I like Rock & Roll.
However, I think she could have kept this thread to 2 pages by not stating the obvious..... the worst kept secret in the escort business by the way..... that providers do not offer the same menu to every client. But I give her credit for saying it publicly and without apology, especially since she tends to create controversy even when she DOESNT try!
Bottom line is that you get what you give, but some guys cant handle the blow to their fragile ego when it become apparent that they simply arent going to get everything they read about. That is precisely why SPs hate explicit reviews, because whether or not they are fact or fiction (and lets face it, some of the members here should be writing Letters to Penthouse), every guy that reads it wants to replicate the best of the best.
VV, psssst....... write me, I'm a Sagitarrius, I'm from New York and I like Rock & Roll.
I usually don't post any reviews but I think I'll say a little about the amazing times I've had with Vanessa. I think it's safe to say that everyone knows she's drop dead f-ing gorgeous, but I've been with her quite a few times and let me tell you, maybe it's because i'm closeish to her age and not unattractive but everytime I see her (including my first time..mmm, that was the BOMB Van) she blows me away (thats not a pun), her voice for one thing is perfect, she's warm and funny. If she's got a BF in the real world that guy is really a lucky MuthaFuka.
I really hope that the real men out there who've had the pleasure don't disrespect her wishes. If you've have even 1/10 of the fun that I've had than really I'm sure you do respect them. For the others...well...every time u make up a story you completely screw the rest of us, it undermines exactly what this forum's purpose is. Anyways, go ahead and blast me if ya want, i'm probably not listening.
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I really hope that the real men out there who've had the pleasure don't disrespect her wishes. If you've have even 1/10 of the fun that I've had than really I'm sure you do respect them. For the others...well...every time u make up a story you completely screw the rest of us, it undermines exactly what this forum's purpose is. Anyways, go ahead and blast me if ya want, i'm probably not listening.
Love that Vegetarian
I bumped into the monger of ho's while waiting in line to see 'Position Impossible' at the cinema.....
he was a couple of patrons ahead of me, but i can smell him a mile away.....the smell is somewhere btwn 12 day old socks and Captain Highliner fish sticks
he was a couple of patrons ahead of me, but i can smell him a mile away.....the smell is somewhere btwn 12 day old socks and Captain Highliner fish sticks
