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- Thread starter Vanessa Valentine
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Flirt Away!
Please don't delete this thread Vanessa. I just spent an hour reading it. Well not quite, but it took a while. I just wanted to say that I think your request is a valid one. What's to be gained by posting intimate details anyway? Nothing.
Anyway, rest assured that if I see you someday I will respect your wishes. Hopefully others will too.
Please don't delete this thread Vanessa. I just spent an hour reading it. Well not quite, but it took a while. I just wanted to say that I think your request is a valid one. What's to be gained by posting intimate details anyway? Nothing.
Anyway, rest assured that if I see you someday I will respect your wishes. Hopefully others will too.
Crazy Canuck!
Hmmmm. I see a double standard here. You like Vanessa for showing a little spunk but you object strenuously to Ripped for showing too much spunk.In addition I think it just shows you to be a lady with some spunk! I like that!
I think anyone should be allowed to post a review on ANY provider, whether she likes it or not. Having said that, it's certainly that provider's option to choose whether or not to continue to meet with said reviewer.
I also think that the TERB policy of deleting tasteful reviews of a provider because SHE doesn't like it stinks.
I suppose that's part of the price paid for having a provider-supported board. It's imperative to keep the customer satisfied.
I also think that the TERB policy of deleting tasteful reviews of a provider because SHE doesn't like it stinks.
I suppose that's part of the price paid for having a provider-supported board. It's imperative to keep the customer satisfied.
This all sounds so like high school...
Maybe everybody here should do a quick reality check.
Lets all remember that these ladies engage in an act of commerce. They "sell" what is suppossed to be an intimate, personal expression of emotional love for money. We, gentlemen, are the consumer. WE pay for this personal service, and if we want to tell a "buddy" what happened, either on a review board, or via a PM, we should be able to. Miss V seems to think we shouldn't. She most certainly has the right to limit whatever activities she engages in with clients, but, people being people, we all like to compare our experiences, just like high school(I got to 2nd base, I got to 3rd, I slide into home...). The "I don't kiss & tell" honour concept goes out the window when money changes hands. If she is having problems with clients expecting more than she is willing to supply for them because of what they heard or read on a review board, then the choice is obvious...tell the moderators....NO REVIEWS OF ME.......EVER!!!!! But, here's the crux....reviews, when their good, generate business(there's that pesky concept of commerce again).
So, Miss V, WHOMP, there it is...you gotta take the good with the bad, just like everyone else in business.
One more thing. YMMV. Why? Does it have to do with looks? Size? Age? If it appears the client is "well-heeled"? You're just extra horny that day? Chemistry? Race? My inquiring mind wants to know? Sounds just like dating to me....
Maybe everybody here should do a quick reality check.
Lets all remember that these ladies engage in an act of commerce. They "sell" what is suppossed to be an intimate, personal expression of emotional love for money. We, gentlemen, are the consumer. WE pay for this personal service, and if we want to tell a "buddy" what happened, either on a review board, or via a PM, we should be able to. Miss V seems to think we shouldn't. She most certainly has the right to limit whatever activities she engages in with clients, but, people being people, we all like to compare our experiences, just like high school(I got to 2nd base, I got to 3rd, I slide into home...). The "I don't kiss & tell" honour concept goes out the window when money changes hands. If she is having problems with clients expecting more than she is willing to supply for them because of what they heard or read on a review board, then the choice is obvious...tell the moderators....NO REVIEWS OF ME.......EVER!!!!! But, here's the crux....reviews, when their good, generate business(there's that pesky concept of commerce again).
So, Miss V, WHOMP, there it is...you gotta take the good with the bad, just like everyone else in business.
One more thing. YMMV. Why? Does it have to do with looks? Size? Age? If it appears the client is "well-heeled"? You're just extra horny that day? Chemistry? Race? My inquiring mind wants to know? Sounds just like dating to me....
buckybruce relax, yes the girls make an inordinate amount of money of us, but look at it from their side and what they do and how it affects them inside even though most are not quick to admit it....miss valentine is obviously frustrated with it so jus respect her wishes and relax
I am relaxed....
but this is all a bit ludicrous....
It's all about choices.....make them and live with them.
but this is all a bit ludicrous....
It's all about choices.....make them and live with them.
I agree sp's make their own choices and have to deal with them despite the inevitable effect, however miss valentine is not suggesting a deletion of a bad review but keeping a good review, you can post a bad review about her as long as its regarding her warmness, attitute, kindness, whatver. Just dont include menu details cus it seems she only gives bbbj or whatever to clean men she feels comfortable with, then a dirty smelly whatever wants a bbbj from her and is pissed not to get it
Re: This all sounds so like high school...
I think it could be all of these things or none of them. Who knows, really? It is a bit like dating I guess, but let me ask you (not just you, buckybruce, but the general you) something... Do you feel equally attracted or interested or turned on by every sp you meet? My guess is probably not. Some sp's turn your crank and you really want to kiss them or whatever. Others, you kind of go through the motions, right? Sometimes you can explain it by saying stuff like she was or wasn't my type, but the bottom line is, any given person will just hit off with some people, and not so much with others.buckybruce said:One more thing. YMMV. Why? Does it have to do with looks? Size? Age? If it appears the client is "well-heeled"? You're just extra horny that day? Chemistry? Race? My inquiring mind wants to know? Sounds just like dating to me....
i agree with homonger sort of, its a matter of logic,. Sp's that are ymmv would probably rather give bbbj or whatver (of course considering chemistry as well) to a dude like me, clean cut, fresh and i my late 20's as opposed to an older dude in his 40's or 50's with a belly like homonger
Well, he's right, I do have a belly.Smilty said:i agree with homonger sort of, its a matter of logic,. Sp's that are ymmv would probably rather give bbbj or whatver (of course considering chemistry as well) to a dude like me, clean cut, fresh and i my late 20's as opposed to an older dude in his 40's or 50's with a belly like homonger
But don't do be sure about your logic, some sp's do like older gentlemen as opposed to younger morons like you who have no idea what they are doing. And I do alright in the ymmv department. I think I have had more extra mileage sessions already than you are likely to have in your entire life.
Alright, that is kind of a crappy apology, but that's cool. No problem with having a little fun, and believe me, I have given and received far worse shit on this board than that.
As for Sara, I don't know, man, you must have done something to piss her off. I'd watch out if I were you.
As for Sara, I don't know, man, you must have done something to piss her off. I'd watch out if I were you.
I usually do quite well in the YMMV dept. and I am older-mid 40s-It really is about having respect and cleanliness. I have also been with so do-anything ladies and my preference is for a lady to have limits and to let me know what they are. Some people seem to believe that they are buying a woman's soul when they pay for play. For me the sexiness comes more from a woman who opens than a woman who is open. So keep your standards Miss Valentine-and guys respect this woman's wish for discretion.
Interesting thread. What began as an important discussion about reviewing and escort preferences has become an extended paean to a TERB legend -- not Vanessa Valetine but HOMONGER! Ah, the vagaries of free speech!
But at the risk of returning the thread to its original purpose I offer the following thoughts. When I first joined this board about a year ago, I often expressed outrage over attempts by both providers and moderators to eliminate explicit information from reviews. I was particularly upset at the furor that resulted from a favorable but somewhat explicit review written by homonger. At that time I thought that freedom of speech should reign and only abusive comments should be censored or deleted.
I've changed my views slightly in the succeeding year. While I still think free speech is a right to be defended at all costs, I also understand that TERB as a review and discussion board, and not a pay review site, might appropriately adopt more restrictive guidelines. I must admit I don't like the idea of providers dictating to either clients or moderators what can or cannot be written about them. On the other hand, I understand perfectly the YMMV issue that is always a factor in provider-client relations.
I think that a board diminishes in usefulness the more restrictions are placed on the reviews, so on balance I prefer respectful but detailed reviews. Without candor it's difficult to distinguish between an advertisement and a genuine review. Thus while I continue to enjoy TERB and continue to post on it, I've learned to rely primarily on pay sites like TER and Captain69 for uncensored information. I also know that those sites are far from infallible so I have my own set of calculations that lead me to decide whether or not to trust a review listed in either place.
But in any case I want to thank Vanessa for starting such an interesting thread and showing us that beauty and brains can be an especially attractive combination. Also, I almost never enter the Lounge, so I'm going to change that habit immediately. Some interesting stuff going on here!
But at the risk of returning the thread to its original purpose I offer the following thoughts. When I first joined this board about a year ago, I often expressed outrage over attempts by both providers and moderators to eliminate explicit information from reviews. I was particularly upset at the furor that resulted from a favorable but somewhat explicit review written by homonger. At that time I thought that freedom of speech should reign and only abusive comments should be censored or deleted.
I've changed my views slightly in the succeeding year. While I still think free speech is a right to be defended at all costs, I also understand that TERB as a review and discussion board, and not a pay review site, might appropriately adopt more restrictive guidelines. I must admit I don't like the idea of providers dictating to either clients or moderators what can or cannot be written about them. On the other hand, I understand perfectly the YMMV issue that is always a factor in provider-client relations.
I think that a board diminishes in usefulness the more restrictions are placed on the reviews, so on balance I prefer respectful but detailed reviews. Without candor it's difficult to distinguish between an advertisement and a genuine review. Thus while I continue to enjoy TERB and continue to post on it, I've learned to rely primarily on pay sites like TER and Captain69 for uncensored information. I also know that those sites are far from infallible so I have my own set of calculations that lead me to decide whether or not to trust a review listed in either place.
But in any case I want to thank Vanessa for starting such an interesting thread and showing us that beauty and brains can be an especially attractive combination. Also, I almost never enter the Lounge, so I'm going to change that habit immediately. Some interesting stuff going on here!
Re: Re: This all sounds so like high school...
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EXACTLY! This is one of the unfortunate situations that many of us find ourselves in. My goodness, take a shower, it's okay to be fresh!Crazy Canuck said:Having discussed this with several SPs I can tell you that in a lot cases it comes down to personal cleanliness. As an example, say you have a lunch time appointment with a lady. She offers you the opportunity to shower but you say no because you had a shower that morning. Okay it's been about 5-6 hours since your showered. How eager is she going to be to get anywhere near your crotch?
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