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Well since I am no longer a 'hooker' I have no problem admitting how many men I slept with on a daily basis. Not that I would have had a problem admiting it while I was still a 'hooker' either but here goes.The Mad Humper said:
When I first started it was one or two a day for the first couple weeks, to get me worked in (worked for an agency) then it was 3 or 4. I remember one night I did 5 or 6 and that was the most I ever did and it only happened one time. Went back down to about 2-3 for the duration of the time at the agency (6 months) but some days there was only one or nothing.
Then I went out on my own and was seeing anywhere from 1-3 per day, depending on how I felt that day. Then I was starting to feel myself burning out and I started advertising on the internet and dropped down to no more than 2 per day, about a year or so later I then dropped down to one per day and by the time I was done (and for the previous 2 yrs) I was only seeing someone about 2-3 times per week.
Anyone who sees more than one or even two people per day can't keep it up for long, I wouldn't say more than a year or two at most and someone who was seeing 11-14 per day wouldn't last more than a couple of months, and I think that time frame is being pretty damn generous. I think that even in my 'prime' I wouldn't have lasted more than a couple days at that rate.
I always find it amazing how many guys people think we see and how much money we must be making. Mind you, it is good money and compared to the general population we do sleep with a lot of people but at the rate some guys think we go we would never have the time or energy to spend all that cash we were raking in.
All that being said, wear a fukking condom you idiots.
Good point Svend. Lots of guys daty without thinking much about it and that too has a risk albeit small.
Sasha Jones? THEE Sasha Jones? I knew a girl names Sasha Jones once... she liked Tim Hortons and McDonalds and bad takeout Chinese food.
How goes it shithead?
How goes it shithead?
Sasha thanks for your input. Out of curiosity what did you find was causing the burnout. Was it the physical or emotional demands or something else?
Common Sense...right??
Despite the discussion veering towards the hours that SW's work or don't work and the conditions that many of them endure, and the need for classification, most agree uncovered is dangerous. So my next question is why? Is it supply and demand? In fact the rates for those offering the alternative to safe practices are pretty much the same as those who take precautions. I'm just curious, like who wouldn't want a bbbjtc vs. the seran alternative if the comparison was without potential consequences?
Despite the discussion veering towards the hours that SW's work or don't work and the conditions that many of them endure, and the need for classification, most agree uncovered is dangerous. So my next question is why? Is it supply and demand? In fact the rates for those offering the alternative to safe practices are pretty much the same as those who take precautions. I'm just curious, like who wouldn't want a bbbjtc vs. the seran alternative if the comparison was without potential consequences?
Do you suppose that the Internet, and TERB in particular, have had an influnce on the availability of BBBJ in just the past three years?Alexa Taylor said:
I remember when I first stumbled upon TERB and started reading the boards out of voyeurism, there was great buzz over an Incall in the Fairview Mall area - Melanie or Melissa or something - blond Asian girl with some annoying small dog in the appartment - Mr.Downtown probably remembers. Anyway, I remember this thread getting huge mostly because of standard BBBJ. I got the impression that guys who would normally go for a different type were interested mostly because of the BBBJ.
It seemed in 2002 that BBBJ was not that widely available - like you either had to roll a dice with a totally messed up SW type, or be a very established regular with premium price escort to get this.
So have on-line communities driven the demand, or have the providers who were doing this all along simply become better known and more widely accessible?
The coinciding factor is that during the same 3 years, it has become widely believed even outside the "hobby' that oral sex is generally low-risk. HIV transmission is thought to very rare and peopel might believe they can detect if someone's Herpes are at an infectious stage, while at the same time being willing to live with the risk of treatable or non-life threatening conditions like Chlamydia. Perhaps the increase in unprotected oral-sex in the industry is simply reflective of what is being practiced by society in general?
First of all, Mad Humper's assessment about SP's that have been outlined in this thread are far off. 11-14 clients a day is ridiculous, and if you claim this to be a fact, then please link the source or provide some kind evidence of this. Almost every single SP I know does not get even half of this number. If girls were getting even 5 clients a night, every night, for a year, there would a hell of alot more women working in this field. And that is to account for the industry to be doing well, which lately it has not been. On average (meaning either the top 3-4 girls of an agency) in Toronto, SP's will see anywhere from zero to four clients a night. The fact of the matter is that the claims made are absolutely blown out of propotion and are far from the truth.
This also goes to show you that many men in this hobby still have a very skewed perception about the women working in this industry. Mad Humper's whole post about the three clasifications for SP's was just plain rude. This indeed shows more about yourself Humper, then what you claim to know about this industry. Please be a little more respectful when conversing your ideas however fucked they may be.
As for BBBJ. We all know it happens. It happens in your real life away from the hobby right? What makes you so confident that your women are clean? If you are so worried about STD's and what not then I suggest you cover up for the rest of your life, regardless of BJ's or FS with every partner. See how long that will last...
This also goes to show you that many men in this hobby still have a very skewed perception about the women working in this industry. Mad Humper's whole post about the three clasifications for SP's was just plain rude. This indeed shows more about yourself Humper, then what you claim to know about this industry. Please be a little more respectful when conversing your ideas however fucked they may be.
As for BBBJ. We all know it happens. It happens in your real life away from the hobby right? What makes you so confident that your women are clean? If you are so worried about STD's and what not then I suggest you cover up for the rest of your life, regardless of BJ's or FS with every partner. See how long that will last...
Ventura said:
everything is dangerous, it's just a question of the degree. the fact of the matter is that even with a condom, having sex can lead to contracting herpes if you didn't look for blisters (and how many guys inspect an SP or any girl that closely beforehand?). the truth is a condom only covers so much and the only way to be 100% sure is to not have sex at all. then you have to look at what you think you might contract from a girl from her mouth and ask if the risk isn't then equal if you kiss her. with a bbbj it's the girl who is absorbing the lion's share of the risk, so that'd be why the guys typically don't feel so bad about asking for it (because they understand the risk). as for why the girl offers it, i think alexa has hit the nail on the head.
This...
I have never met a woman who was up to having sex more than two of three times a day with someone she LIKED and knew...so I couldn't imagine doing it all day end to end with multiple guys. Turns out (most of) you ladies don't.
Makes sense.
...was insightful. I often wondered "how do they do that". Now i know...they don't.Sasha Jones said:Well since I am no longer a 'hooker' I have no problem admitting how many men I slept with on a daily basis. Not that I would have had a problem admiting it while I was still a 'hooker' either but here goes.
When I first started it was one or two a day for the first couple weeks, to get me worked in (worked for an agency) then it was 3 or 4. I remember one night I did 5 or 6 and that was the most I ever did and it only happened one time. Went back down to about 2-3 for the duration of the time at the agency (6 months) but some days there was only one or nothing.
Then I went out on my own and was seeing anywhere from 1-3 per day, depending on how I felt that day. Then I was starting to feel myself burning out and I started advertising on the internet and dropped down to no more than 2 per day, about a year or so later I then dropped down to one per day and by the time I was done (and for the previous 2 yrs) I was only seeing someone about 2-3 times per week.
Anyone who sees more than one or even two people per day can't keep it up for long, I wouldn't say more than a year or two at most and someone who was seeing 11-14 per day wouldn't last more than a couple of months, and I think that time frame is being pretty damn generous. I think that even in my 'prime' I wouldn't have lasted more than a couple days at that rate.
I always find it amazing how many guys people think we see and how much money we must be making. Mind you, it is good money and compared to the general population we do sleep with a lot of people but at the rate some guys think we go we would never have the time or energy to spend all that cash we were raking in.
All that being said, wear a fukking condom you idiots.
I have never met a woman who was up to having sex more than two of three times a day with someone she LIKED and knew...so I couldn't imagine doing it all day end to end with multiple guys. Turns out (most of) you ladies don't.
Makes sense.
My ideas aren't fucked, but I'm sorry if I offended you oh great one. I find if funny that you refer to paying for sex as a hobby. These hookers have all been abused either physically or sexually and most have a drug habit to support. Your just helping them ruin their life. I'm sure though you have been convinced by them that they are paying their way through college. They act like they really like you, but when you leave they are probably like what a sick ass or pervert. If it makes you happy I'll retract my 11-14 dicks per night and cut it down to 5. Either way I look at it, its still pretty sick.PHNINE said:First of all the assessment about SP's that have been outlined in this thread are far off. 11-14 clients a day is ridiculous, and if you claim this to be a fact, then please link the source or provide some kind evidence of this. Almost every single SP I know does not get even half of this number. If girls were getting even 5 clients a night, every night, for a year, there would a hell of alot more women working in this field. And that is to account for the industry to be doing well, which lately it has not been. On average (meaning either the top 3-4 girls of an agency) in Toronto, SP's will see anywhere from zero to four clients a night. The fact of the matter is that the claims made are absolutely blown out of propotion and are far from the truth.
This also goes to show you that many men in this hobby still have a very skewed perception about the women working in this industry. The whole post about the three clasifications for SP's was just plain rude. This indeed shows more about yourself, then what you claim to know about this industry. Please be a little more respectful when conversing your ideas however fucked they may be.
As for BBBJ. We all know it happens. It happens in your real life away from the hobby right? What makes you so confident that your women are clean? If you are so worried about STD's and what not then I suggest you cover up for the rest of your life, regardless of BJ's or FS with every partner. See how long that will last...
I am pretty embarassed for you and your view toward these women. I have become friends with many SP's off the meter and the ones they call sick ass and perv are the ones that don't repsect them, ie you. Your disrespect for these ladies are reflection of who you are and what kind of person you are. You can retract any statement or statistic you would like because I know all of them are coming out of your ass. You view of all these SP having such horrible lives is a very negative perception on these women. The exceptions are there, but the good ones are there as well. As for ruining their lives, I can tell you honestly that by you saying your inconsiderate words are far more damaging then anything I have done. I do not need to justrify to you what I have done in the past to help out some of these friends, and I definately don't think you would ever understand anyways.The Mad Humper said:
BTW, if this hobby is so sick, then please stop joining TERB and trying to start shit.
Another intelligent generalization.The Mad Humper said:
And I can make an assumption by your "handle" and the fact that you're on this board means you are a sexual deviant, represent a threat to society and should be incarcerated to protect women and children.
My assumption is no less valid than yours above.
PHNINE, I'm sure you have become great friends with all of the ladies that you paid to meet. I for one always try to make friends, not buy them. I'm sure you get calls from them all of the time just to say hi and see how you are doing. If thats the case, good for you. I myself don't believe that is the case. Do these girls become hookers because this is their dream job. They always wanted to make lots of money and when they were growing up they said to their mom and her sugar daddy that "I want to become a prostitute". I don't think so. I'm not trying to start shit, I was doing some research for a class assignment when I came across this. I can't believe anyone out here actually thinks these girls like you. They want you money!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If you've convinced yourself otherwise, good for you.
If thats the case, good for you. I myself don't believe that is the case. Do these girls become hookers because this is their dream job. They always wanted to make lots of money and when they were growing up they said to their mom and her sugar daddy that "I want to become a prostitute". I don't think so. I'm not trying to start shit, I was doing some research for a class assignment when I came across this. I can't believe anyone out here actually thinks these girls like you. They want you money!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If you've convinced yourself otherwise, good for you.I could never respect a hooker. If you want to believe these girls like you for you and not your cash, good for you and I'll leave it at that.PHNINE said:
ignore him if he wants to think that way let him i'm sure 90 of terb has him on iggy like i'm about to do right now
and yes i am friends with 80% of the men i have met during the 5 years i have been an escort why because they treat me with respect & caring kisses PH your a sweetheart
and yes i am friends with 80% of the men i have met during the 5 years i have been an escort why because they treat me with respect & caring kisses PH your a sweetheart
