The session is honestly never about pleasure for us

I've never come close to cumming or being turned on during a session. Just get off without hurting anyone and leave without irritating anyone. Have a good time but if you're looking to get someone off get a girlfriend.
I always thought guys that wanted to get me "off" were creeps. They do everything wrong because their only experience is with prostitutes and the best I can hope for is that i close my eyes, picture someone else and that they dont do something stupid and hurt me.