I want a refund!!The session is honestly never about pleasure for usI've never come close to cumming or being turned on during a session. Just get off without hurting anyone and leave without irritating anyone. Have a good time but if you're looking to get someone off get a girlfriend.
I always thought guys that wanted to get me "off" were creeps. They do everything wrong because their only experience is with prostitutes and the best I can hope for is that i close my eyes, picture someone else and that they dont do something stupid and hurt me.
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Usually a sign that someone needs a vacation from the biz. And if guys are doing it wrong for you, then tell them or direct them so they do it right for you.The session is honestly never about pleasure for us
I always thought guys that wanted to get me "off" were creeps. They do everything wrong because their only experience is with prostitutes and the best I can hope for is that i close my eyes, picture someone else and that they dont do something stupid and hurt me.
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I've had more providers ask to go hard more than go slow lol. If they're into the session and want to get off they'll ask you to change gears
And just a different take on this, from a guy who has been having sex for nearly 4 decades. Sure, some guys are fucking clueless, think the term āfinger bangingā is meant literally and who have only ever had paid sex, so never had to figure out how to actually please a woman. But from the point of view of a guy, who has had the the privilege of having sex with several different women, you are all sooooooo fucking different in what gets you off. As a guy; I can do something that for one girl makes her cum in mere minutes, whereas for another girl itās way too much, or a complete turnoff. Some like it soft, and take a long time to build up to an orgasm, others like it intense and quick. Some like the exact same stimulus over and over, for quite a while before they cum, others get bored with the same thing and like to switch it up every few minutes. Some girls absolutely need a cock to cum, others never cum with fucking. Some go nuts when you stimulate their butt with a finger or tongue, others are completely grossed out (and there are others who will either go nuts or be grossed out depending on their mood, the situation, the time of day or month or the angle of the earth relative to the sun!!
). Long winded way of saying that some of those guys that ādo everything wrongā did that with other women, and they really liked it, but you didnāt.
Imagine being called creepy because you want your sexual partner to have mutual pleasure. Fortunately I will never experience the waste of money that time spent with that particular SP would be.
My experience going faster would finish me off faster. Could be under the guise of getting off to get us outI've had more providers ask to go hard more than go slow lol. If they're into the session and want to get off they'll ask you to change gears
True enough. No reward without a little risk lolMy experience going faster would finish me off faster. Could be under the guise of getting off to get us out
Don't know if that's true for all sp's. Alot of the sp's I see definetly want to be pleasured. They actively give direction about what they like and what gets them off. Not saying they cum with every client but they sure do want to have an orgasm.The session is honestly never about pleasure for us
I always thought guys that wanted to get me "off" were creeps. They do everything wrong because their only experience is with prostitutes and the best I can hope for is that i close my eyes, picture someone else and that they dont do something stupid and hurt me.
I think the truth lies somewhere in the middle. Some SPs love to cum, and some think it's too personal and want to keep that for their partners, etc... and then there the ones who are in this industry who actively detest their clients.
To each their own, but to say SPs are never in it for the orgasm is a false generalization.
I think a lady cumming is the sexiest thing ever; losing her inhibitions and giving in to the pleasure.
I'll always try and if it doesn't happen it doesn't happen. I'm a big boy and we move on to other fun things. Sex is a two way street and I'm not doing out of obligation to make her cum, but I love to see it.
Apparently that makes me a creep
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I'll always try and if it doesn't happen it doesn't happen. I'm a big boy and we move on to other fun things. Sex is a two way street and I'm not doing out of obligation to make her cum, but I love to see it.
Apparently that makes me a creep
!Way to build up interest in your offering. Yikes.The session is honestly never about pleasure for us
I always thought guys that wanted to get me "off" were creeps. They do everything wrong because their only experience is with prostitutes and the best I can hope for is that i close my eyes, picture someone else and that they dont do something stupid and hurt me.
To be fair I completely understand that a part of their clientele would be that guy who doesn't know a lick (pun intended) about getting a girl off and refuses to acknowledge that it's his fault, not hers.
Dealing with those kinds of people in regular life is frustrating. It's a whole different level when it's something this intimate!
If Sinnamon hasn't ever had a client get her off, perhaps she needs better clients
Dealing with those kinds of people in regular life is frustrating. It's a whole different level when it's something this intimate!
If Sinnamon hasn't ever had a client get her off, perhaps she needs better clients
Almost like it's a shared human experience even if one person is a client and the other is a service provider.
It's one thing if a person kind of loses sight if that, or doesn't know a lot about a mutually gratifying experience (even ignoring orgasms), but it's quite another when a person aggressively doesn't give a fuck, or seems to take pleasure in being the worst part of someone's day.
@Ahri is a tiny thing and seems vocal about wanting a pounding. Iāve for sure been with physically larger girls who complain with almost any thrusting.
Itās one of the many things we love about pussy - each oneās different.
Part of the Domme persona I guess!The session is honestly never about pleasure for us
I always thought guys that wanted to get me "off" were creeps. They do everything wrong because their only experience is with prostitutes and the best I can hope for is that i close my eyes, picture someone else and that they dont do something stupid and hurt me.
I have trouble even finishing if I think the girl is hating it. But by the same token I give up on making her cum if I donāt like her that much and/or itās just taking too damn long!
