JoyfulC said:
That would be nice, and the same goes to you. I too have a cat, but also a 16month old son..so I keep very busy. I always post my O-town dates on here, so we can go from there.
Should I offer "greek" services?
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That would be nice, and the same goes to you. I too have a cat, but also a 16month old son..so I keep very busy. I always post my O-town dates on here, so we can go from there.
I know I will get bashed on this but it is just my opinion and my take having seen Rachael. Two reasons why I will never see here again are
when I first meet her and handed her the cash first thing she said was "do you mind if I count it" She is the only SP of the many I've seen that ever did that
The second words out of her mouth were do you mind if I have a smoke!
Rachelle you don't have to offer Greek service, you just have to offer good service!
when I first meet her and handed her the cash first thing she said was "do you mind if I count it" She is the only SP of the many I've seen that ever did that
The second words out of her mouth were do you mind if I have a smoke!
Rachelle you don't have to offer Greek service, you just have to offer good service!
MrLimpet said:
Mr Limpet, you are more then welcome to not want to see me again. I do ask new clients if they mind if I count the money..I ask to be polite..If you had chosen to come by again you would have seen that I would not count the money again. I've been in this business for 5 years, and have been given short payments on more then one occasion, if I had not counted it, these people would have succeeded in ripping me off.
I ask if you mind if I smoke so that you have the choice, obviously you said no and I know that I would have respected your decision.
You comment on just providing good service, I do offer great service and have the great reputation to prove it and I'm sure many terbites can agree with this.
I'm offering greek because of the demand, not because I'm looking for business..I do very well, not a shortage of work at all.
I see that you were not happy with these two things, but I ask for a reason, so that you are given a choice..this is better then smoking without asking you first.
When you buy something from a store...do they count your money?
I'm sorry to hear that you were unhappy, if you had made me aware of this I could have done something to make this up to you, now I guess it's too late.
Well thanx for your comments, that is what this board is here for. Have a great Day!
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Wow, I knew this poll would get alot of attention for ya Rachelle! Butt listen to JoyfulC on this one. Having read her blog for a while and having seen her a few years ago for a Birthday celebration, I know she is the real deal. It is all about your comfort level though. Apparently you need a way to control the stampede! lol
It seems that most are happy with you and their time with you. You cannot please every one. Looks like 50% of the guys like to keep the money to the end, but if we read Terb, you will see that at least in Ottawa this can save you heart ache later. AT and JoyfulC could tell you stories for days.
Did snicker with MrLimpet's comments though. Revenge of the smokers I say. If I knew that an SP did not smoke, they would not know I did. Personally I used to like having the Hollywood moment afterwards or while enjoying a glass of wine on the couch.
Yabut must be happy down there in K-Town!
It seems that most are happy with you and their time with you. You cannot please every one. Looks like 50% of the guys like to keep the money to the end, but if we read Terb, you will see that at least in Ottawa this can save you heart ache later. AT and JoyfulC could tell you stories for days.
Did snicker with MrLimpet's comments though. Revenge of the smokers I say. If I knew that an SP did not smoke, they would not know I did. Personally I used to like having the Hollywood moment afterwards or while enjoying a glass of wine on the couch.
Yabut must be happy down there in K-Town!
It is true that a some guys seem to decide for us that $10 here or $20 there is no big deal to be short. Apparently they think we're living off our trust funds and just doing this on the side for kicks. Guys should remember that $20 might be a tank of gas for us or groceries for the day. We have to pay to live each day too, and so it's really quite rude to short us.
But there might be a better way than counting out the money in front of them -- which essentially punishes all men for the actions of a few. If someone has shorted me in the past, #1, I have to decide if it's worth making an issue of. If it's only happened once or twice, over many sessions, and he's otherwise a desirable customer, then probably not, eh? But if it seems like he feels entitled to be short or if he's short the first time (always a bad sign!) then a gentle reminder to bring the extra cash to make up for it when he's booking his next session is in order. If he doesn't like that, then perhaps he'd like to try another escort.
Same thing with time. I recently swore off an absolute doll of a client but one who consistently went over -- as in booking half an hour and staying an hour. Occasionally this happens to everyone, but it became obvious that he expected it. When we discussed it, he noted that *I* should throw him out -- but then, the next time I was trying to move things along, he made it as difficult as possible, asking if we could go in the other room for a few minutes, or do this or that -- essentially putting me on the spot to be the bad guy and say "no, times up!" Which frankly, doesn't make me feel very sexy and so I don't appreciate it.
He insisted he couldn't afford more than half an hour -- but he saw me every week. Why not book an hour every other week? That way, it wouldn't cost him anymore, but he could pay me fairly. I kind of got the impression though that he wanted to see how far he could push me. Unfortunately, now we know! It's too bad, too, because we had a really strong physical click.
There are other guys I've simply told that half hours aren't available to them. The reason is that they consistently book half hours, knowing full well that they can't get their business done inside that time. I've never been the type to have a rigid list of restrictions and dos and don'ts. I like to let things go with the flow -- but of course, I'm counting on guys to be decent. If they can't seem to be, then sadly, I have to lower the boom. Again, if they don't like it, then I'm sure they will go elsewhere.
It's tempting in this business to focus on the negatives -- when we girls get together, it's often the guys who give us trouble that we talk about, and I notice that on boards like this, guys spend a lot of time talking about undesirable behaviour on the part of SPs too. Still, the overwhelming majority of people are decent and honest, especially when they're treated with respect. For that reason, I would caution younger SPs to be very careful applying any policies that might make a decent, honest guy feel like he's suspected of being a cheat just because he's a customer.
Good luck!
..c..
But there might be a better way than counting out the money in front of them -- which essentially punishes all men for the actions of a few. If someone has shorted me in the past, #1, I have to decide if it's worth making an issue of. If it's only happened once or twice, over many sessions, and he's otherwise a desirable customer, then probably not, eh? But if it seems like he feels entitled to be short or if he's short the first time (always a bad sign!) then a gentle reminder to bring the extra cash to make up for it when he's booking his next session is in order. If he doesn't like that, then perhaps he'd like to try another escort.
Same thing with time. I recently swore off an absolute doll of a client but one who consistently went over -- as in booking half an hour and staying an hour. Occasionally this happens to everyone, but it became obvious that he expected it. When we discussed it, he noted that *I* should throw him out -- but then, the next time I was trying to move things along, he made it as difficult as possible, asking if we could go in the other room for a few minutes, or do this or that -- essentially putting me on the spot to be the bad guy and say "no, times up!" Which frankly, doesn't make me feel very sexy and so I don't appreciate it.
He insisted he couldn't afford more than half an hour -- but he saw me every week. Why not book an hour every other week? That way, it wouldn't cost him anymore, but he could pay me fairly. I kind of got the impression though that he wanted to see how far he could push me. Unfortunately, now we know! It's too bad, too, because we had a really strong physical click.
There are other guys I've simply told that half hours aren't available to them. The reason is that they consistently book half hours, knowing full well that they can't get their business done inside that time. I've never been the type to have a rigid list of restrictions and dos and don'ts. I like to let things go with the flow -- but of course, I'm counting on guys to be decent. If they can't seem to be, then sadly, I have to lower the boom. Again, if they don't like it, then I'm sure they will go elsewhere.
It's tempting in this business to focus on the negatives -- when we girls get together, it's often the guys who give us trouble that we talk about, and I notice that on boards like this, guys spend a lot of time talking about undesirable behaviour on the part of SPs too. Still, the overwhelming majority of people are decent and honest, especially when they're treated with respect. For that reason, I would caution younger SPs to be very careful applying any policies that might make a decent, honest guy feel like he's suspected of being a cheat just because he's a customer.
Good luck!
..c..
Rachelle, it is fine to count the money as most SPs do but why don't you invite your first time client into the shower first before you start counting??? The damage would still be minimum if you find out they short change you at this stage.
rachelle of kingston said:
MrLimpet said:
It's nothing personal...in all kinds of business transactions when dealing with someone new it's expected that the cash gets counted. Don't forget that this is also to _your_ benefit, because then there can be no dispute about whether someone over/under paid.
Trust and verify. It's a good policy.
conepuppy said:
Conepuppy, you are a sweetie, and also a very smart guy!Feel free to come see me anytime!
...you can always excuse yourself to the little girl's room to freshen up and get ready, then check it there...
Some of the agency girls I've seen always accepted the $, gave a nice kiss and then excused themselves to the washroom for a moment. I always assumed it was to count the $, call the agency to confirm all is good as well as "freshen up"...then when emerging, they're good to go...
That's definitely more accomodating and maintains the "experience" if you will...
Some of the agency girls I've seen always accepted the $, gave a nice kiss and then excused themselves to the washroom for a moment. I always assumed it was to count the $, call the agency to confirm all is good as well as "freshen up"...then when emerging, they're good to go...
That's definitely more accomodating and maintains the "experience" if you will...
Well I should have done a review when I first saw Rachelle but there were enough out there on how amazing she is. As for the counting of money, I look at it this way. If the Sp counts it in front of you, big deal. I think it starts things off on the right foot with a sense of trust. After all the transaction must happen at some point so do it first and everyone is happy, or from my perspective with Rachelle, I was very happy. Funny thing is Rachelle didn't ask or count money in front of me, in fact we had such a great time with conversation and activities we both kind of forgot and she asked me whether I had paid or not. Thanks Rache and hope to see you soon. Stick to YOUR style and what YOU want to do. Those who appreciate you will always be there. Call you soon. Anyone wanting a review of my time with Rachelle let me know.
hotlick said:
Thanx for the kind words Hotlick, I had a great time with you too. It's been too long, can't wait to see you again!!
I do not count the money everytime. Every expierience with every customer is different. Like with hotlick, we had such a great time I forgot to even collect the money...I guess it all depends on the client, and how we vibe togethner. Sometimes I do step out of the room, check to envelope and tuck it away then come back in....other times I may ask a client if they mind if I count the funds right in front of them...I guess my point is I do not have any "rules" for how I deal with the money, everytime is different, because every client is different!!
greek service
the way I see it is that if a sp offers greek and both the sp and client are enjoying it and getting much pleasure in the process then why charge more putting in in the higher rate structure?
This is just my view and opinion on this.
Cheers
the way I see it is that if a sp offers greek and both the sp and client are enjoying it and getting much pleasure in the process then why charge more putting in in the higher rate structure?
This is just my view and opinion on this.
Cheers
Wow...You really are a social benefactor!rachelle of kingston said:
I'm going to start a poll too:
Why do you think SPs start polls like this:
Because they want to give you what you really want.
Because they want to promote themselves under the guise of really giving a shit. (No pun intended.)
F~u~
You are ignorant...I do not need to promote myself, I am fairly popular, not trying to be cocky, but it's true... You are an ingnorant ass_o_e...you are not even worth the 10 seconds it took me to reply...If you don't like what you read, then stay the hell out of any thread about ME!!!!!!
jazzpig said:
You are ignorant...I do not need to promote myself, I am fairly popular, not trying to be cocky, but it's true... You are an ingnorant ass_o_e...you are not even worth the 10 seconds it took me to reply...If you don't like what you read, then stay the hell out of any thread about ME
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