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Site Members who have never partaken

lamkam

New member
Dec 11, 2009
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Anyone else been on this site for years but never partaken in P4P? I have been to strip clubs like 3-5 times but have never done anything else.

Just curious if I am the only one on here of my ilk.
 

wazup

Well-known member
Jun 12, 2010
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There are several who hang out in the lounge only, seems to strike a cord with some people as it is an escort review board, I couldn't care less who has or hasn't partaken as there is a diverse amount of people on here and a good source to gather information on many topics.
 

TeasePlease

Cockasian Brother
Aug 3, 2010
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For those who have never partaken, I say its a matter of time :devilish:

Others have been to the dark side and back. We just enjoy the banter and the insight in the Lounge.
 

Drizzt

Registered L User
Jul 24, 2012
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I used to in Toronto a long while ago but wasnt a member of this site and was burned many times. Through work, i happened to be in Niagara from time to time and endes up finding out about there review board. Many great experiences there. Im temped to get my feet wet again locally but my past memories/experiences keep bothering me.
 

IM469

Well-known member
Jul 5, 2012
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I've partaken in all three but lately I'm mostly in the SC. It's not value issue - I like to relax, enjoy a drink, watch a game .. chill. The MP/SP is is a 30-60 minute focused effort after which I'm still looking for a place to relax.
 

TeasePlease

Cockasian Brother
Aug 3, 2010
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I've partaken in all three but lately I'm mostly in the SC. It's not value issue - I like to relax, enjoy a drink, watch a game .. chill. The MP/SP is is a 30-60 minute focused effort after which I'm still looking for a place to relax.
If you feel like it's too much effort, you're doing it wrong :p
 

Mr Bret

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Aug 13, 2012
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Anyone else been on this site for years but never partaken in P4P? I have been to strip clubs like 3-5 times but have never done anything else.

Just curious if I am the only one on here of my ilk.
Not trying to hijack the thread, but I'm curious what would draw a non hobbyist to this site in the first place.
And I see nothing wrong with it, just curious.
 

intrigued

Member
Sep 14, 2013
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Not trying to hijack the thread, but I'm curious what would draw a non hobbyist to this site in the first place.
And I see nothing wrong with it, just curious.
Funny enough I joined this site around 2009/2010 (My account was deleted from some sort of error on here) because I heard that seeing a SP was legal as long as they come to you and just happened to find this site and found it excited. I used this site to recommend a couple of awesome women to my friend but have actually never partaken myself. I'm only 26 so I don't have the extra income for this kind of play or when I did I was too nervous too. But I think I always found it a turn on to live vicariously through others reading the posts and imagining that I could be seeing these great women.
 

SkyRider

Banned
Mar 31, 2009
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I'm only 26 so I don't have the extra income for this kind of play or when I did I was too nervous too.
It would be rare to find a heterosexual male over the age of 30 who has never ventured to the "dark" side. Of course, not every male makes it a lifetime endeavour. Hobbyist or not, I think we all have life experiences that we like to share with the group.
 

downinthedm

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If you feel like it's too much effort, you're doing it wrong :p
Agreed. Not sure what u mean by focused effort. If u r horny with a boner and u got a beautiful lady willing to spend time with u not sure why u r additionally focusing. Just go with the flow buddy
 

The Fruity Hare

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Dec 4, 2002
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It would be rare to find a heterosexual male over the age of 30 who has never ventured to the "dark" side. Of course, not every male makes it a lifetime endeavour. Hobbyist or not, I think we all have life experiences that we like to share with the group.

Ummm, I think you mean you need to share your drivel for constant attention. Distinct difference.
 

legmann

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Dec 2, 2001
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There are several who hang out in the lounge only, seems to strike a cord with some people as it is an escort review board
..and there are any number of other boards/blogs/platforms where one can post whatever they like. Why an escort review board of all things?

I'm curious what would draw a non hobbyist to this site in the first place.
That is precisely the point.
 

lamkam

New member
Dec 11, 2009
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Not trying to hijack the thread, but I'm curious what would draw a non hobbyist to this site in the first place.
And I see nothing wrong with it, just curious.
For me personally it has been the fantasy element of it that has drawn me in. I have wanted to take the plunge in the past but a couple of factors have held me back:

1. Nagging guilt. Rightly or wrongly I see the act of paying for sex to be morally wrong.
2. Nervousness. It is legally a gray area and I don't want to soil my reputation.
3. Fantasy element. I have a feeling that the only thing that makes it a fantasy currently is the forbidden fruit element. Single at the moment but I get to role play it with my partner when I am dating which is a lot of fun.
 

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..and there are any number of other boards/blogs/platforms where one can post whatever they like. Why an escort review board of all things?
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Because shit can can real and raw around here. You have people who dont give a fuck what society thinks and says and can get a lot of good insights into things from both ladies and gents. Even though this place is filled with shills knights scum bags, owners and ladies trying to gather business, it also has some realy shit elements happening that you don't find on other boards. There are experts and experience POVs on many subjects plus there is the red world entanglement and the underground scene its pretty deep if you keep an eye out. I have also met some awesome ladies just from terb. Its a fucking microcosm of a society from worst of the worst to best of the best and all within. Just see it between the lines it's all there. People have seen it all done it all, just tap into this and can save yourself lots of issues from a sex industry POV and everything in between like marriage issues and indirect relationship advice or even how to build your custom computer, fill a crack or replace a roof. Just learn from experience and failures of others its all there just need to ask the right questions and read in between the lines. There are lawyers, doctors, politicians, radio hosts, media, engineers, priest, police, professors, pastors, contractors, coaches, disgruntled wives, criminals, x cons, loosers, winners, musicians, managers, dead beets, old fucking fat bastards....its all here.

I dont think the owner of terb wanted or wants this as this site is about business however you can't help like minds gravitating towards each other and common places of interest.
 

Titalian

No Regrets
Nov 27, 2012
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Because shit can can real and raw around here. You have people who dont give a fuck what society thinks and says and can get a lot of good insights into things from both ladies and gents. Even though this place is filled with shills knights scum bags, owners and ladies trying to gather business, it also has some realy shit elements happening that you don't find on other boards. There are experts and experience POVs on many subjects plus there is the red world entanglement and the underground scene its pretty deep if you keep an eye out. I have also met some awesome ladies just from terb. Its a fucking microcosm of a society from worst of the worst to best of the best and all within. Just see it between the lines it's all there. People have seen it all done it all, just tap into this and can save yourself lots of issues from a sex industry POV and everything in between like marriage issues and indirect relationship advice or even how to build your custom computer, fill a crack or replace a roof. Just learn from experience and failures of others its all there just need to ask the right questions and read in between the lines. There are lawyers, doctors, politicians, radio hosts, media, engineers, priest, police, professors, pastors, contractors, coaches, disgruntled wives, criminals, x cons, loosers, winners, musicians, managers, dead beets, old fucking fat bastards....its all here.

I dont think the owner of terb wanted or wants this as this site is about business however you can't help like minds gravitating towards each other and common places of interest.



I tend to disagree !! There are more than one owner !!
 

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I tend to disagree !! There are more than one owner !!
Why did they stop participating in thread discussions and general site banter? I don't know that much about them, just what I read from the forums and all the drama created by Chase on the other board a few years ago. It would be nice to know that you are right about this. Its just my intuition telling me the other may be truer to the fact.

In the end it does not matter really since they allow memebrs general freedom to post various POVs without censorship and I am also glad it is nothing like MERB. You have to give them respect for that and for not allowing this palce to turn into a zoo.

Maybe its better that we dont know their board politics in the end. As it stands this place is pretty good the way it is. Seems like you know way more about them then the average terb member.
 

The Oracle

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Mar 8, 2004
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On the slopes of Mount Parnassus, Greece
Because shit can can real and raw around here. You have people who dont give a fuck what society thinks and says and can get a lot of good insights into things from both ladies and gents. Even though this place is filled with shills knights scum bags, owners and ladies trying to gather business, it also has some realy shit elements happening that you don't find on other boards. There are experts and experience POVs on many subjects plus there is the red world entanglement and the underground scene its pretty deep if you keep an eye out. I have also met some awesome ladies just from terb. Its a fucking microcosm of a society from worst of the worst to best of the best and all within. Just see it between the lines it's all there. People have seen it all done it all, just tap into this and can save yourself lots of issues from a sex industry POV and everything in between like marriage issues and indirect relationship advice or even how to build your custom computer, fill a crack or replace a roof. Just learn from experience and failures of others its all there just need to ask the right questions and read in between the lines. There are lawyers, doctors, politicians, radio hosts, media, engineers, priest, police, professors, pastors, contractors, coaches, disgruntled wives, criminals, x cons, loosers, winners, musicians, managers, dead beets, old fucking fat bastards....its all here.

I dont think the owner of terb wanted or wants this as this site is about business however you can't help like minds gravitating towards each other and common places of interest.
And that is what we call a wrap ladies and gents. Great post!
 

NHFL

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I am very much "retired" and just come back on occasion for shits and giggles.
 
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