The 20s and 30s at Wicked is a myth. We go there more than any where else, we are in our 40s, and we generally figure we are about in the middle age-wise. But it is a very attractive crowd, very few overweight or ugly women. The crowd is decent at M4 and X, old and fat at HH. We have not been to Kimmies.
Race-wise, it is mostly white, some East Asian couples, some African-Canadian, particularly men, few South Asians.
Male-Male action is very forbidden in mainstream swinging, you will be shunned if you ask or try. Sometimes two or more guys might be working on one girl, but they are careful not to interact. Girl on girl action is of course highly encouraged.
Being picky is not a problem, 90% of the time we go out, we play with nobody but each other, it is still a turn-on to be going at it in an orgy setting. Some swingers go for whatever the best available is at the time, but we prefer to only swap when it is highly worthwhile for everyone. This is never a problem, you can go and watch the action without pressure to participate.
Wicked is always rumoured to be largely couples where he is paying her to be there, we have never really directly seen much evidence of this, the people we talk to generally have a consistent story as a couple. But it is hard to say.
Isn't it time for a Swinging Area at Terb? There is BDSM and other special interests, why not swinging? There is consistent curiousity about it here, but the posts are scattered all over the place. Moderators, would you consider it?
