Great party!
Could have been better attendance from guys and SPs and agencies but it wasn't so hard to make the best of it. I also find I like chatting with the dancers too, especially when I'm not there for dances, there's so much less pressure when you say "oh you know this is a party? I'm just chatting with my friend here, maybe we can talk later..."
Oh yeah, my2cents, the east indian (south asian is the preferred term for this century) dancer, Manisha, was great, very hot and nice personality. I hope Chris at Mirage gave her a business card ...
Two things I don't understand:
1. Guys come to the terb party and sit or stand around without going up to meet SPs they're actually interested in.
I see how you might be satisfied with seeing an SP "live" rather than only online, but it's really the perfect time to just go up and say "Hi, I'm Dick, i recognize you from your pics and just wanted to say you're looking great!"
It's just odd, are the lurkers at the party also lurkers here? and
2. The guy who was circling the SPs and then coming up to them and grabbing their asses (and even at their crotches) before he even said "Hi". I'M CALLING YOU OUT YOU IDIOT. Had I known I would have made sure you were "escorted" out of the club.
Ok I know you must have real psychologial problems so you might not understand that
(a) the SPs are not meat, they are people, someone's daughter, sister, mother;
(b) if you actually want to see them in private you aren't doing yourself any favours by showing such disrespect for them, every heard of "cathing more flies with honey than vinegar"?; and
(c) eventually you are going to get beaten up, pepper sprayed etc... (probably by one of the women).
I know who you are. If I see you at another party I will make sure you're not there for long if you try that shit again.
If you know that you're doing the wrong thing but don't know how to act around women, PLEASE put up a thread in the Lounge asking for advice, and take it. You need help.
