St Patty's TERB party @# Treasures

[Never Compromised]

I received a PM from someone that overheard several dancers talking about "that F*cking w*ore party" and how "those bi*ches" were taking customers. Same person told me that one of the dancers said that she was going to phone her "red and white boyfriend" to take care of the problem.

An indy told me that she stayed only for a very short time, because she felt there was too much bad drama.

Guys want to have parties at the SC, in case the SP's don't show. SP's don't want to attend parties at the SC, because the dancers are often rude, pushy and made life difficult.

 

[DATYdude]

i don't know....i certainly didn't see any bad drama. i also don't know how bringing in 50 or so more guys into the club can be a bad thing. the dancers were mingling with the board crowd all night and i saw many going for dances...not me though, i think getting private lap dances is immoral.

LOL
What I want to know is whether ANYONE is getting any work done today???

 

[Noir]

That blonde with the pig-tails....

I was really expecting more TERBites to come in, but the turn out was relatively low, and people left pretty early (myself included!). I enjoyed getting to speak and meet with people (and re-meeting people again - Byrent! haha) and stepping out of my role as the social-wall-flower. ( I ACTUALLY MINGLED AND TALKED TO PEOPLE! haha!)

I met the beautiful Manisha last night, who completely surprised me with how sweet and articulate she was! (Why oh why didn't I get a dance!? *ahem*) The stage shows heated up as midnight approached - Jane and I enjoyed the same dancer, on stage performing a girl-on-girl show! (Once again, Why oh why didn't I get a dance!? *ahem*)

All in all, it was an enjoyable night! ^_^ (Although the SC vs. SP thing is true. There were a few times when I heard some snide remarks from dancers...but from my experience, they seemed to be friendly for the most part! I stayed out of their way....haha)

 

[Herodotus]

LOL! It all seems so high school! Boys on one side, girls on the other, not interacting... Different groups of girls being catty to one another... Completely inappropriate social behaviour... All it needs is a few fights between drunken dudes!

 

[LingerieLVR]

I was able to attend , got there around 11ish, i found the party to be great, it was good to see some of the sp's come out, Charlie Girl, Brianna, Noir, Jane Natalie you are all beautiful with exceptional personalities...it was a pleasure seeing you there, Andy and Chris you guys sure know how to entertain, kudo's to Mirage...

One thing that turned me off was some of the dancer's attitudes to the sp's there, i found it really upsetting that the management at Treasures allowed for the dancers to get involved with the ladies and harass them, i heard one of the dancers tell Natalie from ML - "At least i don't suck c***". The management handled the situation very poorly, one of the dancers who was sitting with me having a drink was like "WOW"...and it kind of killed the mood being with her cause all focus went to what was going on. Girls were yelling about whose clients were whose and in all fairness to the sp's there, the clients were there in the terb designated area for them, even having drinks bought for them by Mirage (Thanks Andy). I think some of the dancers at Treasures were completely out of place and the situation should have been addressed by Treasures management sooner. With dancers being completely out of place with the sp's it made for a very uncomfortable atmosphere...

 

[Brianna1]

I myself had a great time last night, with the exception of having to get up really early today. It was nice to see some familiar faces along with some new. My only disappointment is that I was waiting for a dance from the beautiful feature Layla and did not have time for it!!!! Next time I am taking Longlegs just because she has very nice tata's LOL!!!! Love ya Samantha and will see you soon!!!! Don't forget about your quest (inside secret sorry guys)!!

 

[Never Compromised]

Don't forget about your quest (inside secret sorry guys)!!

Don't forget the towels and the shop vac.

 

[Lou Siffer]

I only have one problem with the waitress up stairs, one person I met ordered up 2 waters, gave her a 20 and she told him she had no change and would be back, but never returned, she did the same to me when I ordered 1 water gave her a 10 she said she would be back, but never returned..

No worries man. I went to the bar and got my change before I left.

I thought the party was pretty good. My first one, so I didn't know anyone going in. Met a few guys and girls. Everyone very friendly. I didn't realize there were as many terb members/SPs there as it seems from this thread. Guess I was a little distracted.

Got to see Jane get a little wild during her first ever lapdance. It's fun to watch someone, seemingly so innocent, start to push the limits of the lapdance. She got way more mileage out of that dancer than any guy would have!

Saw a bit of the drama as I was leaving. Too bad about that.

Thanks to Mirage for being a great supporter. I have never used an agency before but they will be on my list as soon as I get a chance.

 

[MuffinMuncher]

I put it to TERB, {and Sheik I am sorry I know you like the club and try very hard} no more parties at Treasures. I don't even think they should be put on the list for possible places to host a party. I think they should lose TERB's support. Management has been told about this issue many times, and many times it gets dealt with for one party but the next it is back to the same old shit. How many time are we going to go back and fucked over? I can tell you that no hobbyist would put up with that type of lack of customer service from an agency or an INDY, especially if it is repeated behavior.

I know that we havent always seen eye-to-eye over the years, but I agree with this point 100%. I missed the bulk of the drama, but I agree that no one should have to put up with that sort of disrespectful, rude and outright hostile interaction with a club employee.


To Natalie @ Mirage: what you should have said to that bitch of a dancer (when confronted with the "at least i dont suck cock" comment) was, "sure you do honey - but you do it for free, and I'm good enough to get paid for it", then turned and walked off.

 

[Herodotus]

I agree with everything Kiarra posted, except that the onus for the next TERB party should not rest solely on Andy and Mirage. They have done more than enough to help make the last couple of parties good times for all involved. And they have a little business to run.

 

[MuffinMuncher]

I know I heard a couple of comments at the Xmas party from some dancers. I just asked them whats the difference. Its all the same industry and there is very little difference between what you get from many of the ladies. We chose to differ in our opinion.

Precisely. At the end of the day, all women in the industry are essentially providing the same happy ending. The only thing that differs is the matter in which they choose to bring about that result.

 

[Godiva]

I hope the SP's didn't get too offended by the drama...the dancers should know better no one is taking away their business as we probably wouldn't be there if it wasn't the terb party...so technically we were not customers, we were patrons.

 

[BallzDeep]

Sounds like without Mirage there wouldn't be a party at all, sounds like they go above and beyond the call of duty. Why do they want to expose their ladies to skanky dancers in the future......sp's provide much more pleasure to guys than dancers do.

 

[Godiva]

well said...

Thing is, how many ladies went to that TERB party knowing they were giving up bookings that could have been made that night. How many SP's gave up anywhere from $200-$800 or even more that night to be there? I mean , yes, we are in this business for the money, but it makes you wonder who is in this business "strictly" for the money and who is here to have fun and get the bouns of being paid at the end of it..........[/QUOTE]

 

[JessiMae]

I was suppose to attend but something came up at the last minute, but I did here all about the drama that went on. More so then what is stated here.

I have to say that this reaction from the dancers surprises me as I thought this issue was finally resolved. This is not the first time that the dancers at the that club have reacted that way to the SP's. Not the second time either.

I was disappointed that I was not able to attend last night as I really wanted to go, but I think fate was watching out for me, because I would have had huge issues with what happened last night, and knowing me, I would have voiced it loudly last night as I have done in the past at that club.

I put it to TERB, no more parties at Treasures. I don't even think they should be put on the list for possible places to host a party. I think they should lose TERB's support. Management has been told about this issue many times, and many times it gets dealt with for one party but the next it is back to the same old shit. How many time are we going to go back and fucked over? I can tell you that no hobbyist would put up with that type of lack of customer service from an agency or an INDY, especially if it is repeated behavior.

I think the next party should be hosted by Mirage at a place they choose since the last 2 parties they have attended, they have single-handedly made the night much better for both SP's {Mirage ladies and non-mirage ladies} and hobbyist combined. They order out the entire bar, make sure that everyone is having a great time, make sure that people get home safe, offer car service to those that need it, and make sure that guys looking for dates, get them. What more do you want in a host?????

So to those that had a great time, I am glad that you did. Natalie from Mirage, my message to you sweetie, don't take it to heart. Just know that the dancers at the club do give a take out menu and just don't have the self confidence to say fuck the taboo of being an escort, I am going to do what I like. That message goes for any other lady who was offered and treated with such disrespect from the Treasures dancers. I am sorry that some of you had your night spoiled.


Kiarra

Fate must have been watching out for me too.

I was experiencing some issues with my camcorder so I had to stay home. I was trying to put one of my videos up on a site and it just was not working. None the less I decided to stay home. And put my energies elsewhere.

I was not really at a loss for anything if I did end up going, but really needed to get to the issue of my camera. I have not really been busy these last few weeks, but I have taken it as my opportunity to do other things that I love. I know how these dancers feel, but IMO getting angry is not productive. I like to stay away from negativity. If you are not making money then use that time to consider why and work on other things you have been wanting to get to. Market yourself heavily. For example, I often go weeks between clients (and no not by my own choice-by lack of calls) so I have been using the time to do some projects. I am currently working on getting my black belt in Karate and training a few dogs. I find that if I sit around and doing nothing, lack of money depresses me even more. I do not like sitting around and waiting for clients-too boring and that leads to negative thinking and anger. So IMO the girls who were complaining should have just called it a night and gone home. No need for fights or threats.

Anyhow, I too have reservations about going to parties in SC environment. I do not want to feel as if I am competing with a dancer.

 

[my2cents]

As has been noted by others I think if terb has a party at an agency friendly location then perhaps more ladies will attend. I think this kind of party would have to be organized by a few agencies so they would know the enviroment is safe for their ladies.

There was a good turn out of guys for this party so it goes to show clients are interested in meeting the ladies in a social atmosphere. Keeping it in a private location would allow for more interaction of meeting clients.

In regards to dancers the reality is they are in an industry that is overpriced in relation to massage places and SPs. I suspect terb members who were approached for a 20 dollar dance thought for 10 dances I could have a good time at a massage place or some SP. Attitude is what sinks most dancers from getting clients. If they have a hard time convincing a party of guys who are known to pay for a woman's company to get a dance then they have a problem.

 

[AdrenalinJunkie]

Damn Brianna, I never thought of the duo dance with you and someone - could well have been the amazing Samantha or Layla. Now I have to attend the next one

I myself had a great time last night, with the exception of having to get up really early today. It was nice to see some familiar faces along with some new. My only disappointment is that I was waiting for a dance from the beautiful feature Layla and did not have time for it!!!! Next time I am taking Longlegs just because she has very nice tata's LOL!!!! Love ya Samantha and will see you soon!!!! Don't forget about your quest (inside secret sorry guys)!!

 

[AdrenalinJunkie]

Noir

Glad to hear I'm not the only one that has trouble meeting people! Now I wish I had come up and introduced myself, but you seemed busy all the time. Next time, will it help if I go with you for dances with selected ladies?

I was really expecting more TERBites to come in, but the turn out was relatively low, and people left pretty early (myself included!). I enjoyed getting to speak and meet with people (and re-meeting people again - Byrent! haha) and stepping out of my role as the social-wall-flower. ( I ACTUALLY MINGLED AND TALKED TO PEOPLE! haha!)

 

[C Dick]

Unless it is a dancer-theme party, having it at a SC seems like asking for trouble. My suggestion would be a swinger club, they are not open on weeknights, I would think that you could get one cheaply / free if people were buying drinks. That way there are no dancers, and no staff are shocked by anything that might occur between consenting adults.

 

[HairBear]

Interesting suggestion.......I have another one...but first....I'm late...It's Sunday and I just got home from last Thurs Terb Party. Thankyou so much Mirage for commandeering my table upon arrival. It allowed me to meet the lovely Noir and Jane........first time in a SC....uh huh............by the way Jane..thx for that peck.....haven't been able to stop thinking of you and I........ooops..I digress...Hope you come Muskie hunting....ask Andy.Great to see you all..Charlie, Brianna, Longlegs, Natalie, Moisha,,,,,,,all you terbites and terbettes. So..here's my thought..newbie and all...SC versus a public venue...hmmm...muffinmunch has some valid points....tough call since the overwhelming majority of us are mature, responsible and discrete individuals. And true we shouldn't rely on Mirage either but...but...they certainly do set the standard..thx again....so here it goes....another poll...except I don't know how to start it......SP's are the only eligible voters...what specific venue would you prefer...a Remy's type place in Yorkville, a Swingers club as suggested, a different SC or whereever????Majority Rules...You name and we''ll be there!..Okay....Andy...you can vote too!!