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RobI

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What do you mean by pro vibes?
"Pro vibes' means you get this impression they seem to have a certain mindset about sex, more in line with an escort as opposed to a girl you meet on a dating site.

One easy tell is they tend to use "hooker language" like "incall", "bbbj" or "rates" or talk about how they "change more" for specific acts right off the bat.

When most girls talk about giving a blow job, they don't say, "I gave my boyfriend a cbj and cooked him a tofu steak last night" :)
 
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When most girls talk about giving a blow job, they don't say, "I gave my boyfriend a cbj and cooked him a tofu steak last night" :)
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this made me howl laughing, thx!
 
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manni

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Trying to sign up for both Seeking and SDM. Looks like both require some sort of live photo with a face photo to be uploaded. Are you guys not worried about potential leaks when signing up for these sites?
 

Mhorgan

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Trying to sign up for both Seeking and SDM. Looks like both require some sort of live photo with a face photo to be uploaded. Are you guys not worried about potential leaks when signing up for these sites?
This is the exact spot i stopped my process to join SDM. Sorry i dont how to by pass this. If someone know pls share.
 
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Bluespin

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Trying to sign up for both Seeking and SDM. Looks like both require some sort of live photo with a face photo to be uploaded. Are you guys not worried about potential leaks when signing up for these sites?
Been following a lot of discussions on Reddit on the topic and this is a common concern. From what I gathered SBs don’t require verification…but SDs do. Unfortunately there isn’t a known workaround if u want to signup to their services.

If we haven’t learnt from Ashley Madison saga…there’s not much more to say. Nonstarter for me.
 
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Hipjdog

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In terms of SB's, in my experience the girl is usually who she says she is, thankfully.
Look for markers in the photo that shows she's in Toronto (like the CN tower in the background, etc.)

If you're still having doubts about whether it's her, ask her to send you a picture giving a specific pose
(like a thumbs up or something). Any girl should be happy to do this if she's serious about meeting up.
Do the same for her if she asks.
 
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bandit2238

Always Looking for Fun
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Trying to sign up for both Seeking and SDM. Looks like both require some sort of live photo with a face photo to be uploaded. Are you guys not worried about potential leaks when signing up for these sites?
I'm single so no issues at all.
 

GeeBee

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I'm single so no issues at all.
All well and good until your face shows up in some data base of guys who contact girls to offer money for sexual encounters, and you try to do something like cross the border. Our southern neighbours frown on this, to say the least.
 
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Sugarsweet905

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All well and good until your face shows up in some data base of guys who contact girls to offer money for sexual encounters, and you try to do something like cross the border. Our southern neighbours frown on this, to say the least.
They don't frown upon it. They elect them president. 2 of the last 4 presidents were friends of Epstein.
 

Patron

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Some of the stuff you read on Terb is pretty unbelievable.

The U.S. maintains a photographic database of foreign escorts who show their face online in ads.

They are denied entry into the U.S. on known published guidance that no foreign sex worker shall be permitted to enter the U.S. if she has done such an advertisement in the past ten years. It is presumed that she is entering the U.S. to work. Most of the instances of it occurring is when the lady has a tour planned, but there have been instances where no proof existed that she planned to work in the U.S. The U.S. lobby for sex workers (yes, it exists believe it or not, has never tried to get this policy changed, likely because those foreign sex workers undercut their pricing).

Is it an absolutely fucking stupid policy? Oh, hell yes. There used to be a lot of tours of the U.S. by Canadian escorts. Now there are very few. The ladies who do so announce they are in the U.S. after they have entered. Is the picture of every Canadian sex worker in the database? No. Plenty of ladies enter, but the ones with full facial pictures are at the most risk.

But it is laughable and almost insulting to sex workers that a bunch of foreign Johns and Sugar Daddies would think the U.S. Customs / Immigration does the same thing with their pictures. They aren’t potentially coming to the U.S. to work.

Now of course it is not recommended to have theeroticreview or other similar sites in your Internet search history if selected for extra scrutiny. Just like an American should delete Terb from his search history when entering Canada.

But foreign Johns and Sugar Daddies don’t have a formal published policy to contend with like foreign sex workers do.
 
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Urbanexplorer

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I am on an SB hiatus. I was very focused on it for about 2-3 years. I’m not getting into the debate between the two venues because it’s about what you want out of it.

I feel I tuned it down to this intro message I created. Just get to it respectfully and be clear.

I still have 3 who I see. All three 19-21, hot, and not up in my business.
 

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RobI

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Trying to sign up for both Seeking and SDM. Looks like both require some sort of live photo with a face photo to be uploaded. Are you guys not worried about potential leaks when signing up for these sites?
I used to think uploading an obscure photo was the best way, but saw this on another forum: pick a picture that is super out there (like a LinkedIn or something that is already all over the internet)

The logic is that with so many scammers stealing people's photos, if someone questions why your photo is on one of these sites, you can explain that someone must have grabbed it from a Google search. Obviously, if it were you on there, you wouldn't use a super-obvious photo :)

Thoughts?
 
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RobI

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I am on an SB hiatus. I was very focused on it for about 2-3 years. I’m not getting into the debate between the two venues because it’s about what you want out of it.

I feel I tuned it down to this intro message I created. Just get to it respectfully and be clear.

I still have 3 who I see. All three 19-21, hot, and not up in my business.
This is a great example of how to answer a "so what are your expectations?" kind of question - it's straightforward without sounding pervy. Sounds like it's worked out good for you - congrats :D
 

RobI

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Has anyone made any good finds lately? PM me if you want to trade some.

I was expecting more new faces with school starting next week, maybe mid-September will bring out more :)
 

Urbanexplorer

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This is a great example of how to answer a "so what are your expectations?" kind of question - it's straightforward without sounding pervy. Sounds like it's worked out good for you - congrats :D
I lead with this to set expectations and define value. Ambiguity is exhausting.
 
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Golden081369

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I am on an SB hiatus. I was very focused on it for about 2-3 years. I’m not getting into the debate between the two venues because it’s about what you want out of it.

I feel I tuned it down to this intro message I created. Just get to it respectfully and be clear.

I still have 3 who I see. All three 19-21, hot, and not up in my business.
This is probably somewhere in the 1000 messages in this thread but I am just wondering what communication is like with your sugar babes. Is there conversation between visits or are the conversations just basically arranging the date? Not sure what the expectation is as far as conversation between dates. Maybe each girl is different. Appreciate some insight.
 

tombrady12

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This is probably somewhere in the 1000 messages in this thread but I am just wondering what communication is like with your sugar babes. Is there conversation between visits or are the conversations just basically arranging the date? Not sure what the expectation is as far as conversation between dates. Maybe each girl is different. Appreciate some insight.
Every girl is different. Make your expectations clear upfront and make sure that they are agreeable to them. If not, move on.
 
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