Sugar Dating Experience

[Hipjdog]

Had my second (relatively) successful Sugar experience tonight.

Met up with a mid 20's middle eastern girl. Nice enough, but fairly
quiet, didn't thank the waiter, and I had to keep the conversation
going with lots of questions (not my strong suit). Still she agreed to
come over.

Came over and we had a bit of wine but basically got right to it.
She seemed so quiet and reserved in public but she was pretty
experienced in bed. Good BBBJ for sure. Nice enough body.
Again, pretty quiet though. She seemed pretty comfortable with
the whole thing which leads me to think she's done this more than
a few times (though I did not ask her...learning from experience).
Gave her 400 donation and she left.

It was.....ok. She was pretty awkward and with rare exception I find
most of the girls on SA are hard to have a rapport with. I guess you're
not exactly going to get a lot of church girls on a site like that. Ah well.

Repeat: unlikely

 

[Leimonis]

... with rare exception I find
most of the girls on SA are hard to have a rapport with. I guess you're
not exactly going to get a lot of church girls on a site like that. Ah well.

I don't know if it would be easy for me to get rapport with church girls...

 

[dchoye]

I meet an SP who attends church regularly and does a lot of service work at her church.

 

[rtc188]

Guys, do you ask them if they are willing to do PPM over text when you first start talking to them, or do you wait until you meet them in at the coffee date? I don't want to offend them and have them ghost me, but at the same time I would prefer not to waste my time going to a coffee date only to find out they're not interested in PPM.

 

[xix]

Guys, do you ask them if they are willing to do PPM over text when you first start talking to them, or do you wait until you meet them in at the coffee date? I don't want to offend them and have them ghost me, but at the same time I would prefer not to waste my time going to a coffee date only to find out they're not interested in PPM.

How could it hurt you PPM?
It gives you a chance to socialize and go out. Coffee/tea is good enough for a first meet.

 

[Hipjdog]

Guys, do you ask them if they are willing to do PPM over text when you first start talking to them, or do you wait until you meet them in at the coffee date? I don't want to offend them and have them ghost me, but at the same time I would prefer not to waste my time going to a coffee date only to find out they're not interested in PPM.

I tell the girl I only do PPM because there's less pressure to get together a certain number of times per week and we
can both go at our own pace. I also say that meeting for coffee is just a meet and greet, not a PPM situation, though
I will cover the cost of any food/drink in case we aren't a match. Most girls haven't had an issue with that.

 

[rtc188]

I tell the girl I only do PPM because there's less pressure to get together a certain number of times per week and we
can both go at our own pace. I also say that meeting for coffee is just a meet and greet, not a PPM situation, though
I will cover the cost of any food/drink in case we aren't a match. Most girls haven't had an issue with that.

I see. My question is whether you tell her you only do PPM when you meet her in person for coffee, or if you tell her before you even meet her (i.e. when you're just messaging her initially) in case she isn't interested in PPM. My understanding is that some SB's don't like PPM.

 

[Hipjdog]

I see. My question is whether you tell her you only do PPM when you meet her in person for coffee, or if you tell her before you even meet her (i.e. when you're just messaging her initially) in case she isn't interested in PPM. My understanding is that some SB's don't like PPM.

Understood. It's true that many of the girls prefer an allowance (why wouldn't they?) but most will be fine with the PPM
if you have a nice rapport with them already. I tell them those are my standards ahead of time online, and few if any
girls have had an issue with it and agreed.

 

[Leimonis]

…and the entire site is flooded with 30+ women and SWs. Grrrr where are my 25yo beauties at?

 

[shack]

…and the entire site is flooded with 30+ women and SWs.

There are so many pros on the sites.

Babe, hun, love.

 

[Leimonis]

There are so many pros on the sites.

Babe, hun, love.

Babe or love is a maybe
Hun is a block!

and the fucking profiles Jesus H Christ
“I like outdoors and clean my house” fucking shoot me right now

 

[Hipjdog]

From my experience:

Red flags to watch out for:

• Lots of pictures of travelling/tropical islands.
• Either being on the site for many years or merely a few days.
• Virtually no profile information.
• Pictures that appear to be edited/doctored.
• Asking to be "spoiled".

Green flags to look for:

• Toronto landmarks in the pictures.
• Not every picture is sexual or an attempt to look hot.
• Well written grammatically correct sentences that give you an actual idea of what she's like.
• Understanding that she needs to bring something to the table other than just physically being there.
• Coming across as friendly and happy to talk.

 

[Leimonis]

There are so many pros on the sites.

Babe, hun, love.

 

[IMBob]

I renewed membership . Eventually you will get a pop up or email for 33% off . An example of what you are talking about . 2 messages in . "What sort of arrangement are you looking for ? I do ppm only hunny (550-850)" ..... next ....

 

[shack]

Babe or love is a maybe
Hun is a block!

and the fucking profiles Jesus H Christ
“I like outdoors and clean my house” fucking shoot me right now

Treat me like the princess I am.
Spoil me.
Babe and love are automatic signs of a pro AFAIC. No non-pro will call you those as part of their first message.

I like when these bimbos include shopping as one of their hobbies, as if that will make guys interested in them LOL

 

[shack]

From my experience:

Red flags to watch out for:

• Lots of pictures of travelling/tropical islands.
• Either being on the site for many years or merely a few days.
• Virtually no profile information.
• Pictures that appear to be edited/doctored.
• Asking to be "spoiled".

It is absolutely amazing how many drop dead gorgeous 34-37 year old (they look no more than 24) women there with only 1 pic and it's very artistic and professional. A lot of them are Asian.

 

[GeeBee]

How do real attractive Asian women meet guys?? Seeking, and even Tinder and the others are full profiles or mid 30’s Asian women and I just assume they are all scams!! Pity the real girl who is actually looking for a date or a sugar daddy.

 

[Leimonis]

Treat me like the princess I am.
Spoil me.
Babe and love are automatic signs of a pro AFAIC. No non-pro will call you those as part of their first message.

I like when these bimbos include shopping as one of their hobbies, as if that will make guys interested in them LOL

You forgot the all time classic “don’t waste my time”

 

[IMBob]

So Seeking has been promoting itself as a dating site .... so stupid .... No wonder , lots of ladies are on a day and delete their accounts. I've been messaging a SE Asian lady . She asked me what SD/SB meant . Then from her .... "I've had people send me messages for several days in a row, saying they want to take care of me. I told them that I can meet my material needs by running my own business." She thought Seeking was a dating site . Then asked me if I could name regular dating sites. .... smh

 

[Leimonis]

So Seeking has been promoting itself as a dating site .... so stupid .... No wonder , lots of ladies are on a day and delete their accounts. I've been messaging a SE Asian lady . She asked me what SD/SB meant . Then from her .... "I've had people send me messages for several days in a row, saying they want to take care of me. I told them that I can meet my material needs by running my own business." She thought Seeking was a dating site . Then asked me if I could name regular dating sites. .... smh

Christian Mingle is a great dating site that I usually recommend in similar circumstances