Sugar Dating Experience
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That's why I am rarely the 1st one to quote a number. If they persist, I say "When you get your hair or nails done, do they ask you how much you're willing to pay or do they tell you their prices. The same thing with a lawyer, he quotes you his hourly rate, not ask how much you can afford?" That's just the way our society works. The seller states his price and we decide if we want to accept it or not. Do not make the initial offer. This will keep prices and the ladies' expectations lower.
TBH, I prefer discussing it in person. How do we know how much we're willing to give them when we haven't even met them or know if there's any chemistry both sexually and personality wise. As well, talking about money via texting is fraught with the possibility of miscommunication. That is just the nature of texting no matter what the topic.
Actually, with the two girls I'm seeing now, we didn't talk about money until the end of the date and after fucking.
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I'm in process discussing with this one girl from online text. I'm quite new to this and she's the only one we managed to have several chats so far. Did I make a mistake by asking her how much before seeing her? She quoted $500. I like it bit lower but not sure how I approach this without turning her off.
Agree Seeking is really going downhill. Lots of fake profiles. And the real girls there are either the 'I am the princess' type or the bottom of the barrel kind.
It might be a bit late now. If you don't like the number, just politely tell them so. "Sorry, that's more than I'm used to paying." Most girls will come down. If they don't, just move on. There is a lot out there.Be patient. They're the ones that need our money and my experience has shown that you can get good value. Hint: Stay away from the glamour girls, the girls who say they want rich guys, give me whenever I want and I never even talk to ones who think that they are princesses. We need to get these girls to understand that they have to be reasonable. If guys are overpaying, it makes it harder for all of us.
But, be polite and gentlemanly. There are so many assholes out there that treat them like service providers, just being polite will get their attention. Do you want a pro or a college girl who needs a few extra bucks. At the beginning, act like you're trying to get a girl to go out with you.
I get the sense most girls don't even want to come out for meet & greet without getting paid. I'm just not sure how not to lose their attention if I suggest like a drink/lunch meetup first. I also want to make sure the pics are at least the same person I'm meeting.
You can always ask for a video call but some would be worried that you are recording it
Having an unpaid meet and greet (where the guy covers the food/drinks) is perfectly reasonable on both sides.
Why should a guy start paying for something he doesn't even know if he's getting yet because you've never even met?
If she's unwilling to do this one-time thing just move on. Any reasonable woman should understand this is necessary.
Why should a guy start paying for something he doesn't even know if he's getting yet because you've never even met?
If she's unwilling to do this one-time thing just move on. Any reasonable woman should understand this is necessary.
Don't give in. They'll learn soon enough.
You just might. But if you do, it means you made the right decision to not give in. They are being unreasonable.
Which is totally appropriate. If they can't understand that, then too bad for them.
Exactly, even from the girl pov, you think they would want to check me out first as well before some private fun. Common sense to me.
There's no way I'm giving in. If we do continue to disagree on the price point, I will have to bring up SP prices analogy, even tho I know it's a different scene. But hey for $500 you can get a solid VIP girl.
Absolutely. She should want to know that you are who you say you are. A woman who says 'yes' without any sort of screening is a huge
red flag. Getting to know someone for an hour or so at a bar isn't a lot to ask before going ahead with this kind of thing.
The girls that are willing to see you at the drop of a hat without knowing anything about you are professional service providers. If that's what you're looking for, all fine and well.
For a true SD/SB arrangement, I'd move on.
If the girl is pretty, and has her act (mostly) together, and has looked on Reddit or some other boards, she is gong to ask for $500. The strange part is recently I proposed to a good looking SA girl $400, the girl responded "not worth my time", now I see she is a full on escort for $400/hour. Go figure!
White girls routinely charge $500 and up. Reddit suggest a quarter of monthly rent which is closer to $600 in Toronto.
A SA girl not agreeing to $400 and go escorting is not surprising either. An SB date may not be very long but it’s definitely closer to 3 hours. I once had a meet and greet with a girl off SA and she admitted that she’s an escort and she straight up told me that she does not want to dilute her hourly rate. Her exact words.
The issue that most SB don't realize is that many of us also have to include hotel costs into the cost of the meet. Unless you live alone or even better you find a unicorn that can host.
Most I've done for a meet is 600 and I regretted it as soon as I said goodbye to her. She was 24, Indonesian with a tight body. Incredibly tight and was amazingly wet the entire time. Her face while I was fucking her was pretty amazing - she ended up leaving scratch marks all over my arms. But at the end of the day it cost me 800+ all in which could have been been 3-4 sessions with an SP. Despite how hot it was I'm not calling her back.
Most I've done for a meet is 600 and I regretted it as soon as I said goodbye to her. She was 24, Indonesian with a tight body. Incredibly tight and was amazingly wet the entire time. Her face while I was fucking her was pretty amazing - she ended up leaving scratch marks all over my arms. But at the end of the day it cost me 800+ all in which could have been been 3-4 sessions with an SP. Despite how hot it was I'm not calling her back.
Literally when she say not worth her time, is it because she knows as escort, one hour is one hour....whereas for the same money in sugar dating, time can be longer. More difficult for them to just end it after one hour? Idk just a thought.
If you are meeting Co-eds that is likely, but I have met young professionals, single mothers, etc. Who can easily host.
