im just curious, would you be paying more for sugar , also spending more time with them than the sp to get the "sex" experience?
Sugar Dating Experience
- Thread starter FunInToronto2023
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I'm old, short, pot belly and never pay over $400. I've got 2 on the go right now. 19 and 20. One stays overnight, the other 7-8 hours during the day.agree. If you are good looking, a nice and fun person, in great shape with a six pack still and are good with giving 500 each time you meet, you can pretty much smash any girl for 2-3 hours as a SB. Tons and tons of hot young girls that would be willing to do that. But they have to be attracted to you as well.
Charm, wit, respect. There's more than one way to skin a cat and still spend less.
Don't worry. It's a renewable resource.
But if I recall correctly you’ve also have been doing black girls. They often complain on Reddit that they are at a disadvantage across Canada and USA as their market is most over saturated and as a result they routinely agree to less.
it would depend on your arrangement, some I’ve seen have definitely been more romantic than a SP situation, like overnight at a hotel and order room service. Smash several times but there’s a lot more connection than an sp and only 200-300 for the night
Love to hear this! Absolutely the charm wit respect trifecta goes a long way.
And 400 is a magical SB number
It sounds like you've found a good balance between genuine connection and keeping things lighthearted. And you're right personality and the vibe you bring to the date definitely play a huge role in attraction, no matter the age. I think a lot of people appreciate that genuine interest over just focusing on status symbols. Do you find that treating it like a straightforward date changes the dynamic in a positive way?
Yes. One in particular and it taught me to be a lot more careful and use a text app. At least when first messaging. That also shows the advantage of using a SP so you can pretty much avoid what could become a horrible situation.
Mine was threatening to expose me to my family and there really wouldn’t be anything I could do about it. And I never even met the girl in real life. When it was happening I was thinking “oh well I deserve it” - but no one deserves to be threatened.
I think it does because just grabbing a bite or a drink to make sure you’re both normal people (in my case discreetly) can be a great ice breaker. Then get to know each other and discuss where to go from there. Some can’t hold a conversation, some end up being in the same industry so we have lots in common, some there are sparks flying (which is always a bit weird because they could be my daughter), some are attractive but really young and the age gap and their lack of experience in the world isn’t a match at all.
One was an 11/10 that turned out to be crazy as a bag of hammers. Like God talks to her crazy. Another turned out to have a recurring substance issue (coke). She was awesome in the sack and was the one I took to a swing club. But I stopped seeing her because lets face it, she was paying for the coke somehow and she liked to rawdog.
Another liked BDSM a little too much for my tastes but that was purely YMMV.
I consistently expose myself. Fortunately I have no SO and no professional career or employer that I have to be concerned about.
It sounds like the casual approach helps keep things natural and lets genuine connections come through. I can see how meeting people with a shared background or interests would make things more engaging. The age gap dynamic must be interesting too probably adds another layer when you’re connecting on some levels but not on others. Have you found any common traits that make for the best connections, regardless of age?
I've found looking for someone who matches your vibe and shared interests works best. There are some girls on the sites who I like physically, but I can tell by their profile (or their decision to not even
bother filling out a profile) that we aren't going to be a match. You can usually sus this out within a few exchanges on the site.
Obviously, everyone is looking for something different. For me, if the girl responds with a positive attitude, questions for me, and at least reasonable punctuation and grammar that is a huge green flag.
