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djb1991

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I find with sugar that I usually only see once and have quite a bit of texting that leads up to the first encounter to get to know one another.

The process, although it takes time, is quite addictive. I met a 19 year old about a month ago who works as a server. Super hot, about 5'1". Absolutely amazing DFK in the back of my car and she was so fucking horny it wasn't funny.... she climbed on top, my pants and underwear were down, I'm being smothered with full teen lips and tongue, she moved her panties to one side and started rubbing her soaking wet P over my C and had this cute high pitched little moan/squeak.
It was just like when we were all horny teens back in the day. And then she said "I want you to put it in me".... seriously it was as exciting as being 19 yourself again I was absolutely in awe she was so into it.

That's why it's hard to not keep seeing some of them I guess.
im just curious, would you be paying more for sugar , also spending more time with them than the sp to get the "sex" experience?
 

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shack

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💯 agree. If you are good looking, a nice and fun person, in great shape with a six pack still and are good with giving 500 each time you meet, you can pretty much smash any girl for 2-3 hours as a SB. Tons and tons of hot young girls that would be willing to do that. But they have to be attracted to you as well.
I'm old, short, pot belly and never pay over $400. I've got 2 on the go right now. 19 and 20. One stays overnight, the other 7-8 hours during the day.

Charm, wit, respect. There's more than one way to skin a cat and still spend less.
 

Leimonis

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I'm old, short, pot belly and never pay over $400. I've got 2 on the go right now. 19 and 20. One stays overnight, the other 7-8 hours during the day.

Charm, wit, respect. There's more than one way to skin a cat and still spend less.
But if I recall correctly you’ve also have been doing black girls. They often complain on Reddit that they are at a disadvantage across Canada and USA as their market is most over saturated and as a result they routinely agree to less.
 

FunInToronto2023

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im just curious, would you be paying more for sugar , also spending more time with them than the sp to get the "sex" experience?
it would depend on your arrangement, some I’ve seen have definitely been more romantic than a SP situation, like overnight at a hotel and order room service. Smash several times but there’s a lot more connection than an sp and only 200-300 for the night
 

FunInToronto2023

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I'm old, short, pot belly and never pay over $400. I've got 2 on the go right now. 19 and 20. One stays overnight, the other 7-8 hours during the day.

Charm, wit, respect. There's more than one way to skin a cat and still spend less.
Love to hear this! Absolutely the charm wit respect trifecta goes a long way.

And 400 is a magical SB number
 

shack

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But if I recall correctly you’ve also have been doing black girls. They often complain on Reddit that they are at a disadvantage across Canada and USA as their market is most over saturated and as a result they routinely agree to less.
Not sure I understand your point.
 

waxtrax

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You guys know if there are any free video calling feature on these text app? Obviously I don't want to use my main number thru my regular apps. I'm using Textnow but they removed that feature now.
 

FunInToronto2023

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You guys know if there are any free video calling feature on these text app? Obviously I don't want to use my main number thru my regular apps. I'm using Textnow but they removed that feature now.
I don’t think so at least not that I’ve used nor seen.
 

Oliverleo

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I’m not really sure, I definitely look young for my age and most importantly treat the girls like it’s a pretty straightforward date. I’m sure there are some 30-40 girls that would be fine with dating a guy in his 60s and likely a grey hair factor where most girls in the 19-28 don’t want a guy with lots of grey I’m guessing. And more than age if you have a six pack, great smile and are genuinely nice (not reliant on your high end vehicle status haha) that’s likely the biggest thing
It sounds like you've found a good balance between genuine connection and keeping things lighthearted. And you're right personality and the vibe you bring to the date definitely play a huge role in attraction, no matter the age. I think a lot of people appreciate that genuine interest over just focusing on status symbols. Do you find that treating it like a straightforward date changes the dynamic in a positive way?
 

dchoye

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For those who has ongoing SB. Any mental issues in the SB you encountered that made you stop seeing her despite the good sex ? Can PM me if can not give specific details here
 

FunInToronto2023

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For those who has ongoing SB. Any mental issues in the SB you encountered that made you stop seeing her despite the good sex ? Can PM me if can not give specific details here
Yes. One in particular and it taught me to be a lot more careful and use a text app. At least when first messaging. That also shows the advantage of using a SP so you can pretty much avoid what could become a horrible situation.

Mine was threatening to expose me to my family and there really wouldn’t be anything I could do about it. And I never even met the girl in real life. When it was happening I was thinking “oh well I deserve it” - but no one deserves to be threatened.
 

FunInToronto2023

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It sounds like you've found a good balance between genuine connection and keeping things lighthearted. And you're right personality and the vibe you bring to the date definitely play a huge role in attraction, no matter the age. I think a lot of people appreciate that genuine interest over just focusing on status symbols. Do you find that treating it like a straightforward date changes the dynamic in a positive way?
I think it does because just grabbing a bite or a drink to make sure you’re both normal people (in my case discreetly) can be a great ice breaker. Then get to know each other and discuss where to go from there. Some can’t hold a conversation, some end up being in the same industry so we have lots in common, some there are sparks flying (which is always a bit weird because they could be my daughter), some are attractive but really young and the age gap and their lack of experience in the world isn’t a match at all.
 
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Liam011

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For those who has ongoing SB. Any mental issues in the SB you encountered that made you stop seeing her despite the good sex ? Can PM me if can not give specific details here
One was an 11/10 that turned out to be crazy as a bag of hammers. Like God talks to her crazy. Another turned out to have a recurring substance issue (coke). She was awesome in the sack and was the one I took to a swing club. But I stopped seeing her because lets face it, she was paying for the coke somehow and she liked to rawdog.
Another liked BDSM a little too much for my tastes but that was purely YMMV.
 
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shack

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Yes. One in particular and it taught me to be a lot more careful and use a text app. At least when first messaging. That also shows the advantage of using a SP so you can pretty much avoid what could become a horrible situation.

Mine was threatening to expose me to my family and there really wouldn’t be anything I could do about it. And I never even met the girl in real life. When it was happening I was thinking “oh well I deserve it” - but no one deserves to be threatened.
I consistently expose myself. Fortunately I have no SO and no professional career or employer that I have to be concerned about.
 

Oliverleo

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I think it does because just grabbing a bite or a drink to make sure you’re both normal people (in my case discreetly) can be a great ice breaker. Then get to know each other and discuss where to go from there. Some can’t hold a conversation, some end up being in the same industry so we have lots in common, some there are sparks flying (which is always a bit weird because they could be my daughter), some are attractive but really young and the age gap and their lack of experience in the world isn’t a match at all.
It sounds like the casual approach helps keep things natural and lets genuine connections come through. I can see how meeting people with a shared background or interests would make things more engaging. The age gap dynamic must be interesting too probably adds another layer when you’re connecting on some levels but not on others. Have you found any common traits that make for the best connections, regardless of age?
 

Hipjdog

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It sounds like the casual approach helps keep things natural and lets genuine connections come through. I can see how meeting people with a shared background or interests would make things more engaging. The age gap dynamic must be interesting too probably adds another layer when you’re connecting on some levels but not on others. Have you found any common traits that make for the best connections, regardless of age?
I've found looking for someone who matches your vibe and shared interests works best. There are some girls on the sites who I like physically, but I can tell by their profile (or their decision to not even
bother filling out a profile) that we aren't going to be a match. You can usually sus this out within a few exchanges on the site.

Obviously, everyone is looking for something different. For me, if the girl responds with a positive attitude, questions for me, and at least reasonable punctuation and grammar that is a huge green flag.
 
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