Sugar Dating Experience

[Sugarsweet905]

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[pusher69]

1. I have no idea what this SB is worth to me until I met her

2. this puts the SD in a vulnerable position since for all he knows ALL that that "SB" does is collecting money and free food. Maybe she does 20 meets a months at $200 a pop and she nets a healthy $4,000 tax free and a smaller grocery bill which is more than an average person makes working 8 hrs a day AND she gets to tell herself that she is not a whore or whatever.
Or she is a toe dipper, or whatever the fuck.

3. It presumes that my time is worth less than her time, which is incorrect and insulting.

4. It presumes that I benefit from a convo with a chick who I don't get to fuck because she is young or whatever, so it should not be free for me. In fact I would rather not meet a woman who I don't get to fuck because it's an obvious waste of time.

This is exactly why you and the SB must set out rules of engagement prior to meeting in person to set expectations and boundaries.
Your shouldn't be paying your SB on the initial meetup unless the expectation has been set and both parties are in agreement of any monetary arrangement.

Your time is worth more than the SB's since you are the one that is going to be out of pocket... insulting is you not understanding how negotiations work and imply that said person has insulted you.. its a general statement.

#4. Welcome to civilian life... once you are able to navigate between the two, you will rely less on SB/SP world. Problem is most men I see in the real world are either too scared to approach a women or don't know how.

 

[Leimonis]

Your time is worth more than the SB's since you are the one that is going to be out of pocket... insulting is you not understanding how negotiations work and imply that said person has insulted you..

my time is worth more because I make more per hour or annually than she does, not because "I would be out of pocket".

Next time you are looking for a job ask the interviewer to pay you for your time. See how that will go.
Or if you are hiring, pay them for coming to an interview. Best of luck with that

 

[pusher69]

my time is worth more because I make more per hour or annually than she does, not because "I would be out of pocket".

Next time you are looking for a job ask the interviewer to pay you for your time. See how that will go.
Or if you are hiring, pay them for coming to an interview. Best of luck with that

Go back and read.. then re-read what I wrote.

 

[Leimonis]

Go back and read.. then re-read what I wrote.

Lol see you just provoked me to tell you to go fuck and re-fuck yourself

 

[IMBob]

Just got a message . I posted on a SB profile review thread that I favourited her on SA .... guess that isn't allowed .... smh .... Not a great loss.

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[IMBob]

One month membership ended on Seeking . I've been getting pop ups for 15 - 33% off to renew. Last month , I used code from https://dealspotr.com/promo-codes/seeking.com/66540039 for 20% off

 

[Traineeslavemark]

One month membership ended on Seeking . I've been getting pop ups for 15 - 33% off to renew. I used code from https://dealspotr.com/promo-codes/seeking.com/66540039 for 20% off

I invested in the 3 month price, although paid by prepaid card so only paid the first month. It won’t be able to renew.
having some luck, but the range of expectations is crazy. From 300ppm to a whopping 1000ppm or $5000 monthly allowance.

 

[Terminator2000]

so, if you stop paying her. what happens?

 

[IMBob]

I invested in the 3 month price, although paid by prepaid card so only paid the first month. It won’t be able to renew.
having some luck, but the range of expectations is crazy. From 300ppm to a whopping 1000ppm or $5000 monthly allowance.

Yes , I've notice a big increase in ask compensation Too , since pre CoVid or even a year ago . Lots more flaking, ghosting and deleting profile after lengthy messaging ( 30 messages - I thought we had a connection .... )

 

[oral.com]

Yes , I've notice a big increase in ask compensation Too , since pre CoVid or even a year ago . Lots more flaking, ghosting and deleting profile after lengthy messaging ( 30 messages - I thought we had a connection .... )

You are not unique, it’s crazy.

I dated a girl for a few months where we would set up a date and confirm the day before only to have her ghost me the same day.
A week later I would get a text with an apology plus flimsy excuse. We would book again and things would go great.

This would happen every other date, ghost followed by apology. It was too much and and I had to block her.

 

[pusher69]

Lol see you just provoked me to tell you to go fuck and re-fuck yourself

Its more like.. READ before you JUMP to a conclusion.

Let me re-iterate since you obviously have some reading issues.
I said " Your time is worth more than the SB's since you are the one that is going to be out of pocket"

 

[implied69]

I have good luck with sugar dating I guess. I started in that world about 5-6 years ago. I usually see girls that are in their early 20's and are university/college students. The arrangements I have had worked out fantastic. From my experience I find that that sb's (the ones who are actually legit) are way hotter then your average sp. I do agree that it is more legwork when your starting out with sugar dating compared to just seeing an sp but once you know what to look out for and weed out the scammers it's actually not that bad. Its not surprsing that many 20 year old girls are looking for a sugar daddy.

I would say it's a lot of work

 

[brian4hartley]

Yeah it’s a lot of work the first few weeks. In my 3rd week now, have a few dates lines up… have had a few flakes too. It’s not like I was stood up… they just didn’t confirm a few hours before, so I didn’t go out.

Having a good profile, well written makes a big difference too, I’m finding.

Almost every girl that’s reached out to me first, turned out to cancel at the last minute or was a scammer. And the ones I’ve reached out to, that reply, seem to be real.

And then there’s those girls that just invite you over to their place from the get go. They’re not SPs, I know because the BBBJ is terrible. But can still be fun.

 

[Traineeslavemark]

Yeah it’s a lot of work the first few weeks. In my 3rd week now, have a few dates lines up… have had a few flakes too. It’s not like I was stood up… they just didn’t confirm a few hours before, so I didn’t go out.

Having a good profile, well written makes a big difference too, I’m finding.

Almost every girl that’s reached out to me first, turned out to cancel at the last minute or was a scammer. And the ones I’ve reached out to, that reply, seem to be real.

And then there’s those girls that just invite you over to their place from the get go. They’re not SPs, I know because the BBBJ is terrible. But can still be fun.

And what ppm are you paying?

 

[brian4hartley]

I've only done one, and it was 500. 2-3 hours. I have another one tomorrow for 300. No idea what to expect.

 

[Bobbblitz004]

I've only done one, and it was 500. 2-3 hours. I have another one tomorrow for 300. No idea what to expect.

What platform you using?

 

[brian4hartley]

Seeking! It’s good for Toronto. You just have to put up a good profile.

 

[brian4hartley]

So I did my first M&G. After 4 other girls cancelled or didn’t confirm… the girl I met looked good, honest face. No purple hair….

Only the girl I was expecting to meet was her 19-20 year old version. The one that showed up was a solid 50lb heavier.

 

[oral.com]

So I did my first M&G. After 4 other girls cancelled or didn’t confirm… the girl I met looked good, honest face. No purple hair….

Only the girl I was expecting to meet was her 19-20 year old version. The one that showed up was a solid 50lb heavier.

Oooooh catfish, I hate when that happens