I like being fisted, and I don't mind a client doing it to me as long as there's lots of lube, and he doesn't wiggle his fingers in there. I find that annoying.IndianDude said:
The Ask-A-Hooker Thread
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Bwahahahaha. The wiggling fingers are up there with the dog-licking-tongue action that some guys consider kissing on the 'annoying' list.Twinklegirl said:
Some of the girls in the business should also take note of this.genintoronto said:
Well, that plus the "I'm going to try and choke you out with my tongue down your throat" kissing style and the "stroke the cock like a twist off cap" technique or the "trying to peel a carrot" toothy BJ style.
Sorry, I just refuse to post in the other "Ask-a-" threads. Carry on...
1. Has your experience in the sex trade given you a greater degree of confidence when dealing with people in the real world or is there no corelation ?
2. Have your sexual preferences in your private life changed as a result of experiences with clients ?
3. Were you surprised to find out you could have fun fucking guys over two to three times your age ?
2. Have your sexual preferences in your private life changed as a result of experiences with clients ?
3. Were you surprised to find out you could have fun fucking guys over two to three times your age ?
chest: either hairy or smooth.. shaved is awful. It's like having a 5'oclock shadow rasping against your whole body.oral.com said:
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ABSOFUCKINGLUTELYGotGusto said:
The carreer I'm working toward also has those perks of flexible schedule, being my own boss to a large extent, and relatively good pay. And while it does have some downsides, it doesn't come with some of the very high risks associated with this industry, so it's a good trade off.
Also, escorting is only a side job for me. I'm also in school, and working another 'regular' job, where I do have to deal with somewhat more rigid schedule and all the other constraints of the 'real' world.
That being said, I think I would have a hard time going back to a 'regular' student job where I'm paid at most $10/hour to perform mundane tasks under the supervision of an idiot.
I think I already had a healthy dose of confidence in myself before getting in the biz, but I also think that working as an escort has definitely given a boost to my sex-appeal and body self-image.
To a certain extent, yes.
Fucking guys much older than me, no, not surprised. Fucking guys I'm not particularly attracted to and still have fun, yes. Actually, more relieved than surprised. While I knew that I could do this job without feeling guilty or 'dirty' about it, I was a little bit worry when I started about fucking strangers that I would not be attracted to. So I was somewhat relieved when I realized that I was able to find something attractive enough in most people to get naked with them and fuck their brains out and have fun doing it.
It depends on the vibe that the client gives me.Prim0 said:
Typically, after greeting him and dealing with the business transaction, I would offer him a shower. The client would come out of the shower to find me waiting for him on the bed in some sexy lingerie. At this point, I just pay attention to his reaction, body language, attitude, etc. If he gives me the vibe that he wants to get it on, that's where I go. If he seems nervous and to need some warming up, I'd start with some chatting and flirting to put him at ease. I usually initiate the first 'touch' early on to give him the OK to touch me or kiss me whenever he's ready.
I don't really have a preference for first meeting. I like the dirtyness of the afternoon half hour quicky when we just get right in on the action with not much chatting, and I also like the more relaxed encounter where we chat a little bit first mixed with some light pedding slowly leading to some more dirty action.
If you go back, my original question was would you gals like the industry to be legalized and regulated and in turn taxed like any other. I am fully well aware that girls don't and won't pay their fare share of taxes.JohnFK said:
Ms Moon responded that as a self employed individual, the CCRA does not care if what she does is legal or not, they want their tax money.
My position is that girls should give the middle finger and claim only modest taxes to not get audited or other trouble with the tax man. They still have to buy cars and houses don't they?
Asking me about my taxes and asking me my thoughts on whether this should be a regulated industry are very different.pokerdude said:
I am always amazed at how many guys ask on the board what I make, what I pay in taxes, etc. If the ladies were to ask you to please post you're place of work (you know where I work), your annual income, and you're taxes most people would laugh at the idea. This is not a public corporation where I need to report my salary, nor do I think it's a wise decision for the ladies to do so. To open your books to your clients, coworkers and competition in an unregulated industry could cause numerous issues both personal and professional. Everyone and their cousin would have an opinion on the ladies business model and structure, clients would attempt to negotiate different rates based on the current profit model and competitors (and coworkers alike) would also align their business plan accordingly. With no regulation it would be easy to take advantage of a situation and if the lady in question reported that she was making $XXX annual, claimed only 35% of it and mentioned that she was doing 60% business at her incall then she's now given out enough information to be shut down on for various reasons.
If you were asking if I believe in government regulation of the industry the answer is a flat out no. As much as it is a business it's not simply a matter of selling intellectual property and as such I have serious reservations about what regulations would be in place in order to control the industry. How does one ensure that sex workers have the right to refuse service, when does it become an accepted transaction and what constitutes an agreement, what expectation of privacy would a client have if he is engaging in verbal or written contract with a provider? There are many issues that could and would arise once you started to regulate the sex industry, essentially what we are doing in our bedrooms.
Legalization is different and I believe that sex workers should be able to work without fear of prosecution but I do not believe in regulation of the industry.
My position on this is the same as that of most sex workers organized advocacy groups: decriminalize, don't legalize.pokerdude said:
Legalization would typically involve making sex work a 'special' and separated category of work, with special regulations and legislation applied to sex work. In addition to increasing the amount of goverment intervention (more goverment in our bedrooms is contrary to what most people involved in this industry want), it also typically has the implication of creating division among sex workers and driving many sex workers even further into the dark corners.
Decriminalization would involve repealing any legislation/regulation which, in intend or practice, place sex work and sex workers outside of the scope of the law, and which create the conditions of vulnerability that makes abuse of sex workers possible. This approach also suggests that the specific needs of sex workers (for instance, in terms of protection and working conditions) can be addressed under already existent frameworks of human right and labour laws. In other words, rather than creating a special and separated category for sex work/ers, this approach suggests using the existing human rights and labour standards and frameworks, and adapting them where needed to the realities and specific needs of sex workers, as it is done for any other form of work.
Under those conditions, yes, sex workers, income would be taxable, and I would be more than happy to pay my fair share of taxes in exchange for the same kind of protection and recognition of my work under the law.
For a more elaborated discussion on the redefinition of prostitution as work and the decriminalization/legalization/abolition debate, here's an interesting and well-written piece to start with: Redifining Prostitution as Sex Work on the International Agenda.
Pokerdude - SPOC has a lot of information about the decriminalization vs. legalization efforts specific to Canada, if you've never seen the site perhaps taking a look at it might also be a benefit.
http://www.spoc.ca/
http://www.spoc.ca/
Literally and figuratively, did you just call yourself a 'tight ass' Gen? (okay maybe just literally...and there's nothing wrong with that)genintoronto said:
Sorry, away a bit but couldn't let that one pass....guess I couldn't just turn the other cheek.
A question (unrelated and sorry if already asked, I skipped a couple pages)...........
Do terb members identify themselves as such? If yes what percentage of your clients have done so. (I'll go first...I do not) Does it make a difference if you know it is someone from terb? (not in services, just in your comfort level)
