I know I can stop taking a women seriously when she starts talking about "real men" and uses shaming tactics
The sexodus: Men giving up on women and checking out
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I'm 31, tall and in reasonable shape, have a degree, 6 figure job, house paid off, new truck paid off, and $100,000 in my account, and I get turned down by single moms with no job on Pof. I am exhausted by our culture that is anti-male, and reading every day about how women have it so hard, and "rape culture" and "men's attitudes to women" are a such a serious epidemic. I am also sick of being shamed or emasculated for pointing any of this out. Our society says "slut shaming" is wrong, and we have global protests on their behalf. Otoh, if men are unhappy about pretty much anything we are told we are the problem and then shamed/emasculated.
More and more men are sparring the innocent as you call them. Also, you can't tell anything about me from the way I describe myself. I just stated facts. However you picture me behind this keyboard is a projection of your prejudices and assumptions.
Also, kindly tell those 30plus women to stop hitting on me. It is creepy and gross and I want to be a gentleman and spare them from my presence.
Relax sigmund freud. My "masculinity" is the last thing on my mind. I choose 20 year olds over 30 year olds for the same reason I prefer fresh meat over expired meat at the grocery store.
Not only that but as women age, their eggs age as well. The chances of birth defects from 30+ women skyrocket.
https://secure.cihi.ca/free_products/AIB_InDueTime_WhyMaternalAgeMatters_E.pdf
Also, overweight women are more likely to have birth defects and miscarriages. Men are biologically programed to mate with young attractive and slim women. No amount of shaming is going to change our biology. Any rational man would choose a younger wife if he is serious about the health of his children.
I call this the "POF overload effect".I think the number of guys on there to women are 10 to 1.I think many of the female profiles are fake to lure the guys in.I know some of the guys on there can be quite aggressive and i can get some of the ladies not wanting that, but the number of females on there who give this long list of things they must have while all they bring to the table is another man's child,a body that is not even close a 6 on the attractiveness scale, attitude,most of the time no formal education,No employment,no assets, etc etc is astounding.
Only in that niche bubble would this exist.From a sociologically point of view it's fascinating.The guys i get........most use anonyimity to ask questions they'd never ask to a womans face, that's predictable.The female expectations VS physical reality is astounding and worthy of a study
I never had a problem meeting women on POF. The only thing I didn't like about POF was all the messages I got from women who looked like Honey Boo's mom.
I think people's view of reality is skewed enough that real life imitates the POF phenomena. Most even somewhat attractive women are snatched up, and with the way our society operates (people glued to their gadgets with headphones on, long working hours and commutes, decline in civil society, fear mongering about men as rapists and women as perpetual victims of men), most people don't just meet by the guy walking up to the girl on the street and smiling and saying "hello
". Combine all that with feminism, punitive divorce laws, and pervasive misandry, and yes lots of guys are opting out of trying anymore in traditional relationships. I would like to be in a relationship again, but considering I'd probably get divorced anyways maybe it's a blessing.Honestly, I couldn't follow what you wrote in your post.
Regardless, I stand by what I said. The opinion of he prof. doesn't change anything. If she suggested something she isn't making a policy statement - it is her opinion.
There is no dispute that a double standard exists in many things for both genders. However my point was that there has been and still is a standard that doesn't favour the genders equally.
In this day and age, if it's his mere *sexuality* they're questioning, I'd suggest your relatives are part of the problem; y'know, ignorant homophobic jerks.
OTOH if they suspect that at his age and single, he's a creepy sex predator, regardless of orientation: that might be a more legitimate key to the universal 2014-style issue here. (Regardless of whether he actually *is* or not.)
I was going to use apple juice, but changed it at the last second to meat because I didn't know if apple juice expired...
So, Marla, what makes a man a real man? I'm curious to know if I made the cut.
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I'm 43, 5'7", Asian, in great shape for my age, have a master's degree, 6 figure job, small mortgage on my house, car paid off and $275,000 in my retirement account. I got turned down by a hairdresser who a coworker tried to set me up with because she said "She's not into Asian guys". She told my coworker to say she had a boyfriend.
Well. At least you can use your money to bang girls way hotter. The bright side is that men want sex primarily, and sex has been bought from the beginning of time. What women want can't be bought. They can't buy a very attractive mans life long commitment. A lot of men are looking for mothers in women they date. This is very wrong. Your mother, who cooked for you and took care of you loved you because you were her flesh. Not because of your charm, height, income. Women are not your mother's and their love is Dependant on those things. Thats why guys like Kim dot com, who lost his Money is getting divorced. This is why monogony needed a social system and religion to be in place. Without those things monogamy starts to turn into partner hopping. So either way as long as men get sex we are mostly happy. Men tend not to use terms like " meaning less sex". Married men's sex lives start to dwindle because the woman cuts it off. Not the man.
Listen - you guys....I used to ask myself what's wrong with me because I make 6 figures, good looking (once long ago lol) and most importantly, a good person. However, I realized that Toronto women are looking for Dr Brad Pitt. Even if they have a shit job, a high school education and nothing else - they figure they are deserving of THE BEST. Good luck to them. I figure this sense of delusional entitlement will someday somehow come to an end.
Till then we carry on with what we have to do - our careers and be good people. What we can't control, we can't control. Don't fret about it.
