The sexodus: Men giving up on women and checking out

Titalian

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It means you passed the screens, good looking. Check. Hair.check. talks good, makes me laugh, my friends like him, flirtatious, good with social cues to take the hint wether my place or yours. And to get a 2nd date meant you were a stud in bed.

North american women to my knowledge are the least of gold diggers compared to many other countries.
The fact that most of us are around middle class means that if you're doing decent, e.g. own place, car .
And if you can just be a cool charming guy, fun to be around, legs spread.

Caveat : nothing against dudes who like girls overseas more, im just a bit annoyed when some of these guys, who actually would infact like a North American girl, but are unable to find success or are just being used for money, blame it on the girls being bitchy, unattractive or whatnot.

Pretty much, dont bash on North American women. I love em.

End rant.
Not sure about this, but this sounds like it was written by North American Woman !! JMTs
 

Scarey

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Let's face it a few things have changed over the past few years.

1) People's view on religion has changed over the years, more people are becoming either atheist, agnostic and/or spiritual, but spirituality is the bigger one of the three. Tthe "traditional" belief in marriage has weakened in a lot of people's own eyes, except of course for the crazy extremists who kill their families and themselves if things go awry.

2) The internet. The ease of meeting people, takes seconds and that's it, done. Meeting and talking to people face to face on the street, in a store, work, wherever isn't as prevalent. ie - dating sites/apps and forums.

3) The internet (again). The influence of media through the internet, videos, etc, people have some become so insanely materialistic, self-absorbed (selfies, who has more friends, people looking for adulation, etc).

Society as a whole has changed immensely and I don't think it's going to get any better either.
TheSe are my opinions, they're not right or wrong, but I think I'm kinda/sorta right to a degree. lol
I was having a discussion with my daughter and son about this just the other day.If I had framed pictures of myself all over my house I'd be pegged as a borderline Narcissistic Personality Disorder .If had pics of myself in my wallet i'd be pegged as a borderline Narcissistic Personality Disorder .If I sent all my friends framed pics of myself even one day of the year for Christmas I'd be pegged a Narcissistic Personality Disorder .If I plaster my facebook,twitter, etc etc with pics of myself I'm.........social media savvy.This is how we lie to ourselves now folks.
 

canadian scoundrel

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The article does make some valid points, but I am finding it is just another reaction to the pendulum swinging to the centre of equality and towards women in general. It was to be expected though. Equality didn't really come into the minds of society and daily life until the 1920's but wasn't excepted until say the 1960's with real action taking place in the 1990's. Now if you look at present day we are seeing the extreme rearing its head as a counter point to the long standing MALE RULES of yesteryear. Hopefully within the next 25 to 50 years we will see the silent majority wake the fuck up and find a solution where true equality shows up and becomes the law.
 

TESLAMotors

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I was having a discussion with my daughter and son about this just the other day.If I had framed pictures of myself all over my house I'd be pegged as a borderline Narcissistic Personality Disorder .If had pics of myself in my wallet i'd be pegged as a borderline Narcissistic Personality Disorder .If I sent all my friends framed pics of myself even one day of the year for Christmas I'd be pegged a Narcissistic Personality Disorder .If I plaster my facebook,twitter, etc etc with pics of myself I'm.........social media savvy.This is how we lie to ourselves now folks.
THAT is a great analogy to to today and I will use it again if discussion comes up about something like this and it's true, you and I and most level headed people know it.


Again, people are so into themselves that just shy of looking into themselves physically, they look down into their phones and tablets, to see "who text me, who bought what and can I have better?", who liked my picture, who commented on my picture".
I'm HUGE on body language and the body language alone today says a lot, it says, "I'm less aware of my surrounding and don't care, but I'm more aware of who likes a selfie I took with an overpriced bottle of vodka to show I have some kind of status in life".

You example is excellent.
 

thirdcup

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Let's face it a few things have changed over the past few years.

1) People's view on religion has changed over the years, more people are becoming either atheist, agnostic and/or spiritual, but spirituality is the bigger one of the three. Tthe "traditional" belief in marriage has weakened in a lot of people's own eyes, except of course for the crazy extremists who kill their families and themselves if things go awry.

2) The internet. The ease of meeting people, takes seconds and that's it, done. Meeting and talking to people face to face on the street, in a store, work, wherever isn't as prevalent. ie - dating sites/apps and forums.

3) The internet (again). The influence of media through the internet, videos, etc, people have some become so insanely materialistic, self-absorbed (selfies, who has more friends, people looking for adulation, etc).

Society as a whole has changed immensely and I don't think it's going to get any better either.
TheSe are my opinions, they're not right or wrong, but I think I'm kinda/sorta right to a degree. lol
THAT is a great analogy to to today and I will use it again if discussion comes up about something like this and it's true, you and I and most level headed people know it.


Again, people are so into themselves that just shy of looking into themselves physically, they look down into their phones and tablets, to see "who text me, who bought what and can I have better?", who liked my picture, who commented on my picture".
I'm HUGE on body language and the body language alone today says a lot, it says, "I'm less aware of my surrounding and don't care, but I'm more aware of who likes a selfie I took with an overpriced bottle of vodka to show I have some kind of status in life".

You example is excellent.
This ain't news. Christopher Lasch saw this decades ago when he wrote 'The Culture of Narcissism' in 1979. Since the world has gone digital, the whole thing has gone into overdrive.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Christopher_Lasch
 

bkspoiler11

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You know what. You know you use the comment real man as some sort of shame tactic. Sorry that doesn't work anymore. Every guy on this forum site is a man. It's not something you can take away. You wonder why guys like me rather not be involved seriously with women. You just said an example right there. You open your mouth and say something like that and you become unattractive real fast.
 

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I was having a discussion with my daughter and son about this just the other day.If I had framed pictures of myself all over my house I'd be pegged as a borderline Narcissistic Personality Disorder .If had pics of myself in my wallet i'd be pegged as a borderline Narcissistic Personality Disorder .If I sent all my friends framed pics of myself even one day of the year for Christmas I'd be pegged a Narcissistic Personality Disorder .If I plaster my facebook,twitter, etc etc with pics of myself I'm.........social media savvy.This is how we lie to ourselves now folks.

 

Barca

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A good friend of mine specializes in couples counseling. She has told me that there was been a real trend to girls in their 20's bringing their long time boyfriends who won't marry.

When she talks to the guys alone it is usually, "I'll lose the house, the kids, the dog, our friends, get the legal bills and live on a lot less for a long time". You'd be surprise how many bring up " I watched my mother emasculate my father after the divorce" and they want no part of that going forward.

Now that women leave marriages almost as easily as men have I simply think the deal no longer works for men.
I certainly don't feel like marriage worked in my best interest and am not particularly enthusiastic about my young son ever needing to get married ever. While the article quoted comes across very whiney, some of the points do hit home. Something I hope my son doesn't learn the hard way.
 

gibsomstreet

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I'm one of the young men who checked out of society that this article is talking about.

I'm 25 years old and make good money. I don't have a girlfriend and bang escorts about once a week. When I'm about 35 and have a bunch of money saved up I plan to get a 20 year old bride from latin america or asia to start a family with. Or alternatively, i'll just move to thailand and bang ladyboys for the rest of my life if I don't feel like having a family lol.

In either case, under no circumstance will I ever marry a western women, or even date any woman over the age of 30. There are many reasons for this, most of which are talked about in this article. It matters not if our feelings are justified, but fact is they are there and there are many young men who think this way.
Actually, given how you describe yourself, I'd suggest that when it comes to western women and 30plussers, you're sparing the innocent. And I'd hope the same for any prospective 20 year old brides, who, along with any family the two of you start, would serve as little other than shallow emblems of masculinity.

IOW stick with banging escorts once a week.
 

canada-man

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Sounds like an insecure , immature man who allowed himself to be hurt by a women he once cared about , it happens to us all at one point or another get over it and move on don't harbor resentment . Grow up , take your balls back and be a real man dude ! Bbd
men who are are single are also shamed. i was asked repeatidly if i had a girlfriend when i was single
 
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