Thoughts on Kissing

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It wouldn't be erotic for me without some form of kissing.
Doesn't have to be dfk, or even lfk.
But it needs to be some form of kissing... lips touching.
 
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Peter485

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I have been in this hobby for 20 + years , and for the longest I can remember if girl does not kiss , that would be a -1 for me, as I felt kissing makes it feel more real, passionate and makes me more excited.

Fast forward to about 2 years ago until last week, every other SP with DFK I cough a cold, sore throats Strep throats covid multiple times,
knowing with my type of work that Sp was the only contact.

Sitting in bed suffering from high fevers tonsils the size of footballs unable to eat or drink, missed work etc.

got me rethinking the whole kissing thing, I mean it makes sense a girl is kissing 2, 3 5 + guys a day and we are all passing it around sharing one mouth.

Kissing used to be a deal breaker for me but now , I would say I would skip the kissing part completely if not the whole hobby.

Pretty simple: You got 20 years older. No shade, we're all getting older. You're immune system just can't handle it anymore. I bet 20 years ago you also didn't have to get up in the middle of the night to pee. So things change, this is one of them for you.
 

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Pretty simple: You got 20 years older. No shade, we're all getting older. You're immune system just can't handle it anymore. I bet 20 years ago you also didn't have to get up in the middle of the night to pee. So things change, this is one of them for you.
I’m almost 50 and my immune system has no issues with anything involved with kissing. This is a broad statement that is just bullshit but the getting up to pee is accurate but that usually happens in your 50s and not related to your immune system
 

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I have been in this hobby for 20 + years , and for the longest I can remember if girl does not kiss , that would be a -1 for me, as I felt kissing makes it feel more real, passionate and makes me more excited.

Fast forward to about 2 years ago until last week, every other SP with DFK I cough a cold, sore throats Strep throats covid multiple times,
knowing with my type of work that Sp was the only contact.

Sitting in bed suffering from high fevers tonsils the size of footballs unable to eat or drink, missed work etc.

got me rethinking the whole kissing thing, I mean it makes sense a girl is kissing 2, 3 5 + guys a day and we are all passing it around sharing one mouth.

Kissing used to be a deal breaker for me but now , I would say I would skip the kissing part completely if not the whole hobby.
I would look into making test for your immune system seems to be your biggest problem. Not gonna call bullshit on your story...but yes, actually I call bullshit on your story. Sounds like an hypocondriaque overthinker journal with a sprinkle of whoreophobia.

Don't kiss if you don't want to, but making up stories is weird.
 
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I’m almost 50 and my immune system has no issues with anything involved with kissing. This is a broad statement that is just bullshit but the getting up to pee is accurate but that usually happens in your 50s and not related to your immune system
It wasn't an attack, just a statement of a basic medical fact. Yes, your immune system is far less strong at 49-ish then it was when you started hobbying at 29-ish. My point was just that the girls' mouth bacteria has probably changed far less over the past 20 years that your body has. Again, no shade. I'd kill to have my 29-ish body again.
 

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Interesting! It's never once occurred to me that I might be kissing my gentleman’s wife, GF or the last SW he saw when he kisses me. Nor do I think about that when I press lips with another SW. It makes for some hilarious spin-offs though, like if you shake hands with another guy, do you have his dick on your hand now? Imagine at a conference, that’s 15 dicks easy.

In all seriousness, if you’re preoccupied with thoughts of cooties, seeing a sex worker is not the best choice for you. Maybe pick someone who isn’t sexually active so you can know you’re the only one.

As for real germs, Listerine is a libertine’s best friend. 😉
 

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Kissing is important to me, really helps get the mojo going unless they are a smoker.
Funny you say that I knew an sp that told me when kissing started to first be a thing her and a bunch of other ladies would run and have a cig before an appointment hoping that would deter having to kiss. It must be pretty awful having some guy you dont desire and are no way attracted to want to kiss and expect to shove his tongue down your throat. She said sucking dick was 1000 times easier than kissing. I couldn’t do it.
 
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Funny you say that I knew an sp that told me when kissing started to first be a thing her and a bunch of other ladies would run and have a cig before an appointment hoping that would deter having to kiss. It must be pretty awful having some guy you dont desire and are no way attracted to want to kiss and expect to shove his tongue down your throat. She said sucking dick was 1000 times easier than kissing. I couldn’t do it.
You seems to have a lot of convos with sw that you report here and yet it never give the girls you talk about any sort of good lightening. Like you are a friend but you will gossip everything we tell you. If someone trust you enough to confide this kind of details to you, it's weird to just go on and tell like you do. Not the first post I read from you where you do that. Just an observation.

It's giving I am close but I judge you.
 

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Kissing is an absolute must for me. It the sp is not kissing me the way I like to be kissed it's a bad session for me. Even if she is a really good fuck or gives an awesome bj it doesn't matter if she is not willing to make out with me. Obviously there are risks with kissing because your likely to exchange saliva and I have gotten sick many times after making out with an sp but to me it's all worth it. The day i dont want to make out with a beautiful sp anymore is the day i will retire from this hobby.
 

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You seems to have a lot of convos with sw that you report here and yet it never give the girls you talk about any sort of good lightening. Like you are a friend but you will gossip everything we tell you. If someone trust you enough to confide this kind of details to you, it's weird to just go on and tell like you do. Not the first post I read from you where you do that. Just an observation.

It's giving I am close but I judge you.
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Funny you say that I knew an sp that told me when kissing started to first be a thing her and a bunch of other ladies would run and have a cig before an appointment hoping that would deter having to kiss. It must be pretty awful having some guy you dont desire and are no way attracted to want to kiss and expect to shove his tongue down your throat. She said sucking dick was 1000 times easier than kissing. I couldn’t do it.
I think you’ve made some good comments on the boards but I agree with @Josephine here. I’m pretty sure sex workers don’t tell you their secrets just so you can spill the tea on TERB.

I understand you’re only sharing a personal anecdote but on its own it does put sex workers in a negative light when many do like kissing and don’t try to hustle clients with these tactics.

We’re just trying to clear the air and balance things out from a provider’s angle so you guys don’t get the wrong impression. 😘
 

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Interesting! It's never once occurred to me that I might be kissing my gentleman’s wife, GF or the last SW he saw when he kisses me. Nor do I think about that when I press lips with another SW. It makes for some hilarious spin-offs though, like if you shake hands with another guy, do you have his dick on your hand now? Imagine at a conference, that’s 15 dicks easy.

In all seriousness, if you’re preoccupied with thoughts of cooties, seeing a sex worker is not the best choice for you. Maybe pick someone who isn’t sexually active so you can know you’re the only one.

As for real germs, Listerine is a libertine’s best friend. 😉
In a single post, I find myself becoming infatuated with a goddess I’ve never seen. Besos para ti, mi amor.
 

Peter485

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Interesting! It's never once occurred to me that I might be kissing my gentleman’s wife, GF or the last SW he saw when he kisses me. Nor do I think about that when I press lips with another SW. It makes for some hilarious spin-offs though, like if you shake hands with another guy, do you have his dick on your hand now? Imagine at a conference, that’s 15 dicks easy.

In all seriousness, if you’re preoccupied with thoughts of cooties, seeing a sex worker is not the best choice for you. Maybe pick someone who isn’t sexually active so you can know you’re the only one.

As for real germs, Listerine is a libertine’s best friend. 😉
There is an elementary school near my place and I sometimes hear the kids playing during recess. Apparently all the rage on the playground these days is that there are now some very effective, and extremely affordable cootie shots that one can obtain. Apparently it involves two circles and one to two dots, but I'm a little vague on the exact details.
 
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