Thoughts on Kissing

surfer83

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I have been in this hobby for 20 + years , and for the longest I can remember if girl does not kiss , that would be a -1 for me, as I felt kissing makes it feel more real, passionate and makes me more excited.

Fast forward to about 2 years ago until last week, every other SP with DFK I cough a cold, sore throats Strep throats covid multiple times,
knowing with my type of work that Sp was the only contact.

Sitting in bed suffering from high fevers tonsils the size of footballs unable to eat or drink, missed work etc.

got me rethinking the whole kissing thing, I mean it makes sense a girl is kissing 2, 3 5 + guys a day and we are all passing it around sharing one mouth.

Kissing used to be a deal breaker for me but now , I would say I would skip the kissing part completely if not the whole hobby.
 

the general

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Where did I say romance? I am saying sex is nothing without kissing.
I agree, but seems many guys are interested in just having their dicks sucked and sticking it in. Which if that is what works, great, but yes, much prefer a little more passion than that, and kissing definitely reves the engine.
 
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Daddy2021

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Where did I say romance? I am saying sex is nothing without kissing.
Kissing used to be off the table with sps as it’s what was mainly reserved for intimacy and romantic feelings. The fact hobbyists today feel it needs to be part of the play for pay standard is odd to an old fart like me I guess. Wild impersonal romps was the name of the game. We saved the kissing for our personal romantic relationships.
 

ShenaniganD

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Kissing used to be off the table with sps as it’s what was mainly reserved for intimacy and romantic feelings. The fact hobbyists today feel it needs to be part of the play for pay standard is odd to an old fart like me I guess. Wild impersonal romps was the name of the game. We saved the kissing for our personal romantic relationships.
At least that’s what Pretty Woman wanted us to believe 🤣
 

TigerFlex5

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Kissing is a must. When I don't, I feel something is missing.

But I don't go see trash ass girls that I wouldn’t kiss, at first place.
 
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Beldivok

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My answer to this is pretty simple. It’s not the cliché “I pay them to go away,” and I don’t pay them just for sex — not entirely. What I value is the illusion, the companionship, really.

Sex for free exists. Relationships exist.

What I’m paying for is a woman’s time. Part of that time includes her hygiene, which to me is more important than just physical appearance, though it’s often overlooked.

I try to maintain good hygiene myself — proper dental care, mouthwash, and so on — and in my relationships with the girls I see regularly, I make a point of communicating how important that is to me. That said, most of the time, they pick up on it pretty quickly.
With that added emphasis I’ve never had an issue, yet…. (Knock on wood)
 
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dubose

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I also used to seek out dfk, daty, and dato, but now I skip all of them. It's just not worth the health risk. I don't think I can ever quit bbbj's though; in that case I probably would need to quit hobbying altogether.
 
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