To cheat or not to cheat?

richaceg

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Just being in this dilemma makes me think you are really into this girl but the COUGAR deserves her man-milk. Just make sure you cover your tracks pretty well and in worst case scenario you got caught. Just tell your lady love that you have thought a lot about the situation and almost drove you to insanity (it should make her feel better) and in the end, the draw of cougar pussy is just too strong for your fragile 'little man'.
 

golfguy21

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All I can say is KARMA lol
I was in the same boat at one time and I did Fuck the cougar but what sucked was that she would call me when the GF was around , what happens if you run into her in public its a risk. If you plan on banging the cougar on a ongoing basis then do it for the sex, but if you think your going to be serious with the GF then don't do it , it costed me mine still feel like shit at times because she was a great GF but damn what we do to get to bang another hole lol
 

blackrock13

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your posting this question on a escort review board.. a escort review board.. where the majority of (not all) men have seen other women besides thier SO.. so you know what you want to do and you know the advice you want to hear .. so go ahead and do what you want to do..
and make sure to review afterwards :p
After the last few posts I just had to repost this comment from LR. The forum is far from a source of a balanced view. You're going to get very biased opinions., unless all you're really looking for is support for what you want to do anyway, but you trying to make it sound like you are in a quandary. My SO has a few cougars friends in her circle and every single one of them look at their boys as the snack of the day, nothing more. If that's what you expect, go for it, but you've got someone you seem crazy about with the 'possibility' of some kind of a future. Cougars come and go and there are a number of clubs where you can have your pick. Go have your bender, but the hangover might bite.
 

james t kirk

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Okay I may be in the minority here, but I have never pooned or otherwise "cheated" on a girl while I've been with her (never been in a relationship longer than 1 year, and have always gotten out when the urge to bang other girls was strong enough).

I am probably with the best woman I have ever been with right now, and although it's only been a couple months, it's pretty serious already. The only caveat is that we jumped into bed very quickly which I usually think is an early sign that the relationship is going to fizzle.

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In the things that I am looking for in a long term partner, she is probably a 9/10 in almost all categories except looks. She is very highly educated, earns her own money, intelligent, and accepts me for me. She is good looking and loves sex, but she doesn't get me going the way the tarts I see on the street or some of the SPs I have seen do. I would probably rate her a 7/10 in the looks department.

Am I crazy? What should I do?
Swingers Club.

You can have your cake and eat it too. You just need to ask her if she'd consider it.

Problem solved.
 

james t kirk

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All I can say is KARMA lol
I was in the same boat at one time and I did Fuck the cougar but what sucked was that she would call me when the GF was around , what happens if you run into her in public its a risk. If you plan on banging the cougar on a ongoing basis then do it for the sex, but if you think your going to be serious with the GF then don't do it , it costed me mine still feel like shit at times because she was a great GF but damn what we do to get to bang another hole lol
Hobby Phone.
 

richaceg

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prepare to give her free pass if she's cool with it...
 

69Shooter

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Ok, what is it your trying to say? Who says that?
I guess it's on the same line as Bill Clinton saying "if it's only oral then it ain't immoral!"

However, as the OP stated that he wants to "fuck" the cougar I think that both comments miss the boat.
 

richaceg

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just fuck the cougar and take if from there...
 

blackrock13

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just fuck the cougar and take if from there...
Unfortunately I sense a similarity here with Hyperdog and his adventure with a fellow worker; too much thinking and then nothing. I still wonder about the lesbian confession The OP will probably do the deed, then feel bad about it and then confess his mistake to the GF; lose/lose.
 

Ladyraven

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he just wants to be told to fuck the cougar .. thats why he asked that question on this board.. go to any other board and he would get flamed out .. poor bastard.. go fuck the cougar.. if you think you can live guilt free.. you know you want to..
 

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It's not that I've never cheated, but I haven't cheated recently. Then again I also haven't dated monogamously (gone steady, whatever) recently. I've always been of the opinion that if you're dumb enough to enter into a monogamous relationship, you should make a good faith effort to be monogamous, in so far as both parties are making good faith efforts at sexual fulfilment (and there is no renegotiation). But that's just me, and as an adult I have stuck to that. :) Feel free to tap the cougar on the down low if that's you.
 

andreandi

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If you agreed on a monogamously relationship, then have a talk with her and break up and see the other woman. If you want to remain with this girl, be a good boy and your reward will be greater than some cougar. On this forum most of the members will sya go for it. Like someone else said, go else where and get flamed. I do believe if you agreed to be in a monogamous relationship, then you need to be a man not a pussy.
 

johnnyjohn17

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I cant remember where this quote comes from but here it is..

"If your not cheating, then your cheating yourself"
 
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