Why do we do it?

[misterme]

I mean, why do we see escorts, or masseuses? I ask because I constantly question why I go. Many times when I'm with the girl I begin to question why I'm there. I enjoy it, but I always have this niggling doubt in the back of my mind, that I'm not supposed to be there.

Any thoughts?

 

[ig-88]

dating sucks

 

[Rono]

Sounds like you feel a little guilty or something. You should get over that.

 

[yahoo40]

just think that prostitution is the oldest profession on earth and visiting prostitutes is not something new in the mankind history.

Man have always been visiting pros for various reasons and will always be visiting them . You are just following their footsteps . Be happy and enjoy while you can have erection . lol

you should be appreciating the nature and its beauty when visiting the pros instead of worrying

btw top reason for visiting them is unhappy marital life imho

 

[freestuff]

I mean, why do we see escorts, or masseuses? I ask because I constantly question why I go. Many times when I'm with the girl I begin to question why I'm there. I enjoy it, but I always have this niggling doubt in the back of my mind, that I'm not supposed to be there.

Any thoughts?

Maybe you feel guilty about cheating on your SO?

 

[misterme]

Maybe you feel guilty about cheating on your SO?

But I don't have an SO on whom to cheat.

 

[yahoo40]

But I don't have an SO on whom to cheat.

which means you are missing an SO

 

[HOF]

What does niggling mean?

I go b/c I have commitment issues! At least that's what my shrink says. Screw her too!

 

[genintoronto]

Guilt is over-rated. Leave it at home and enjoy.

 

[Blue-Spheroid]

If you feel guilty and uncomfortable it's probably a personal issue you need to work out and not something a board of strangers can guess at for you.

I enjoy the hobby and i don't feel like I'm doing anything I shouldn't. Any time I get that kind of feeling about a situation, I don't follow through with it (and that's not just hobby-related)...there are enough good ones (encounters) that I don't feel obliged to pursue the awkward ones.

 

[farang]

It is an addiction pure and simple.

 

[poker]

I mean, why do we see escorts, or masseuses? I ask because I constantly question why I go. Many times when I'm with the girl I begin to question why I'm there. I enjoy it, but I always have this niggling doubt in the back of my mind, that I'm not supposed to be there.

Any thoughts?

Its called sex addiction. You get the same chemical release in the brain the gambling addicts get when they play. Many of the addicts don't even really enjoy the actual act, or its almost surreal to them. A lot do tend to feel guilty about it.

Cheers!

 

[blank_dave]

Guilt is over-rated. Leave it at home and enjoy.

Sometime I wonder if I shouldn't have been raised Catholic for the amount of guilt I feel/carry around about anything, everything and a lot of stuff I have no control over...

And I do feel some guilt over hobbying too. For doing that act? Nope. For paying for it? Probably the only way I will get it, so nope. For cheating on my SO? Like someone would want to be my SO, nope. Because I'm asking these charming, attractive, sweet young things to spend their precious time with the wreckage that is Blank Dave? We have a winner!!

And why do I do it? I'll let you guess from the above paragraph...

 

[zigzaw joker]

I always feel guilty after a session with an SP,.. but strangely not after getting a few dances or a slippery romp with an MPA

-ZZ

 

[HG Hunter]

I think all the news lately about Tiger Woods and his "transgressions" has had many of us rethinking our involvement in this hobby.
Probably thoughts we already had, but were supressing. Much easier to think about these things when we see them in the paper every day.
I know it has me reflecting on my actions and questioning if or how frequently I will continue to hobby.

 

[farang]

I hope that happens to me (losing interest by 50). I lost my virginity in a *****house at the age of 14 and have never stopped.
Come to think of it since a wee young lad I was always trying to get the neighborhood girls to play doctor, you know show me yours and I'll show you mine.
Going to an MP or SP and seeing them naked gives me the same thrill as then, but now I have to pay for it!
I don't feel guilty, just stupid at times for blowing so much money.

 

[CRP]

Sex is a basic human need. You shouldn't feel any more guilty about paying for it than you do about paying for food or bottled water. Then there's the economic argument: Feel good that you are providing someone local with a high-paying job.

 

[freestuff]

Sometime I wonder if I shouldn't have been raised Catholic for the amount of guilt I feel/carry around about anything, everything and a lot of stuff I have no control over...

And I do feel some guilt over hobbying too. For doing that act? Nope. For paying for it? Probably the only way I will get it, so nope. For cheating on my SO? Like someone would want to be my SO, nope. Because I'm asking these charming, attractive, sweet young things to spend their precious time with the wreckage that is Blank Dave? We have a winner!!

And why do I do it? I'll let you guess from the above paragraph...

Yeah, but their precious time is converted into spendable dollars so don't feel too bad about that.

I feel bad about it because I have to hide it from my family and friends. This tells me that's this is a bad thing (at least on a moral level). So that's why I feel bad about hobbying. But I can't stop. So that's why I feel doubly-bad about it. I know it's bad but I can't stop.

 

[Mr. Lucky]

Just look at Rono's sig

 

[shifty01]

We all do it for diff reasons....but fuck leave the guilt at ho
e like Gen says, I'm in my early 40s, I work out 3/4 times a week-when the SO only likes to go one round and my testosterone is still surging, gotta feed the craving.
I've been through chasing all the 20 something playing hard to get etc so who needs the headache when there's absolutely gorgeous women to spend quality time with at a price -beats having to many and being hungover the next morning with a headache to match and the old 'what did I do last night coz I don't remeber' lol.

Cheers and a happy new year to all!