I would suppose the number one reason a gal becomes an SP is for the money.If the money was as good in another proffession suitable,i dont think anyone would be an SP.what are your thaughts? Thanks,Rich.
Why do you think women become S.P'S
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Anybody that says.........i became an sp because i love sex so much is full of shit. Its the money.
Honestly, I'd be an SP if I qualified ... I'd love to be sexually abused by women ... LOL 
Really ...
I mean, if I have this kind of mentality, I am sure some ladies would feel the same. But of course, they might not enjoy the abuse part ... but I can see some SPs really enjoying the sex ...
Really ...
I mean, if I have this kind of mentality, I am sure some ladies would feel the same. But of course, they might not enjoy the abuse part ... but I can see some SPs really enjoying the sex ...
Supply and Demand...money...certainly not all SP's hate what they do - and some certainly may enjoy the sex to a degree...but if it paid 6.75 an hour no one would do it...except maybe the nymphos, but there are very few of those.
Dave, women and men are very different. While women want sex just as much as men, they don't seem to want to pay for it. Part of the reason I'm sure is that it is much easier for a girl to get laid than a guy - there is rarely a shortage of willing and able men who will fuck just about anything.
DW
Dave, women and men are very different. While women want sex just as much as men, they don't seem to want to pay for it. Part of the reason I'm sure is that it is much easier for a girl to get laid than a guy - there is rarely a shortage of willing and able men who will fuck just about anything.
DW
<The better question would be why do we become hobbiest.>
Someone on here said it earlier.
"Why buy when you can lease for half the price."
Cheers,
-djk
Someone on here said it earlier.
"Why buy when you can lease for half the price."
Cheers,
-djk
Number of factors may be contributory to becoming a SP:
1. Money:
(single mom's trying to provide for their family after boyfriends running from responsibilities/husband abuse etc.)
2. Control & Power:
(most SP's control the situation at hand and exercise power over men in terms of sexual contol)
3. No Choice:
(ask some Russian and/or Oriental SP's, they are promised a Career in fashion/modeling when in Country of origin, by Recruiters, only to be finesed into SP Service when arrive in Canada and have their passports pulled out...believe it or not this really happens)
4. I would speculate Loneliness:
(In some ways having a temporary love/sexual relationship is a substitute for none at all)
5. Providing Pleasure:
(reverse from above....ask why women become nurses not-withstanding life threatening situations (ie SARS)...why because of perhaps a deep rooted understanding that some men require female companionship if not available by other means and need to help in provision of a comforting women)
1. Money:
(single mom's trying to provide for their family after boyfriends running from responsibilities/husband abuse etc.)
2. Control & Power:
(most SP's control the situation at hand and exercise power over men in terms of sexual contol)
3. No Choice:
(ask some Russian and/or Oriental SP's, they are promised a Career in fashion/modeling when in Country of origin, by Recruiters, only to be finesed into SP Service when arrive in Canada and have their passports pulled out...believe it or not this really happens)
4. I would speculate Loneliness:
(In some ways having a temporary love/sexual relationship is a substitute for none at all)
5. Providing Pleasure:
(reverse from above....ask why women become nurses not-withstanding life threatening situations (ie SARS)...why because of perhaps a deep rooted understanding that some men require female companionship if not available by other means and need to help in provision of a comforting women)
Quality time & $
There are a lot of SPs that enjoy the total freedom to pick and choose whom they wish to be with. They can go on a date and be treated like a Queen and when a lady feels like that the world is a beautiful place. But when the date is done they can go home and not have to put up with some of the BS that goes on in most relationships, IMOA. And even better they are paid to have a wonderful time and can spend it as they see fit.
There are a lot of SPs that enjoy the total freedom to pick and choose whom they wish to be with. They can go on a date and be treated like a Queen and when a lady feels like that the world is a beautiful place. But when the date is done they can go home and not have to put up with some of the BS that goes on in most relationships, IMOA. And even better they are paid to have a wonderful time and can spend it as they see fit.
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quote:But when the date is done they can go home and not have to put up with some of the BS that goes on in most relationships
I don't think it's accurate to suggest that escorting is a substitute for having normal relationships. Most SP's I know can have both of these things coexist in harmony. The relationships (and I have been in a few) tend to be better because an escort and a guy who would date an escort tend to both be more open and less worried about the bullshit (i.e. jealousy, trust, sexuality).
DW
I don't think it's accurate to suggest that escorting is a substitute for having normal relationships. Most SP's I know can have both of these things coexist in harmony. The relationships (and I have been in a few) tend to be better because an escort and a guy who would date an escort tend to both be more open and less worried about the bullshit (i.e. jealousy, trust, sexuality).
DW
SPs can give all kinds of reasons about why they became a SP. The only thing you have to go on is actions. At $150.00+ an hour you can feel free to speculate about all the other GREAT reasons you got into this business. $150 for an hour of "work" is very good indeed. You can set your own hours. You can see as many as clients as you want during the week. You're your own boss.
As to Anya's psychological reason (rationalization?). I think it's clear: fear of emotional intimacy. I'm sure this also includes many Hobbyists as well. This is a between relationships activity for me. It's conjecture, but, I think Anya gives good service for the hour.
As to Anya's psychological reason (rationalization?). I think it's clear: fear of emotional intimacy. I'm sure this also includes many Hobbyists as well. This is a between relationships activity for me. It's conjecture, but, I think Anya gives good service for the hour.
And Denwa forgot the other "bullshit" like Love. How does one differentiate between fucking and making love when the act itself is the same? As for trust, it's drained of it's meaning when you know she's fucking other guys -- the concept applied in this context logically means not doing that.DenWa said:
Denwa lacks his usual intelligence. I hope it passes.
WFS - you surely must have misunderstood my statement. I was responding to the lame assertion that escorting is a superior alternative to the "bullshit" of a real relationship. I think that's ridiculous and sad if that's the case. As to my other statement, I was simply claiming that many escorts are able to both work as an escort and maintain a relationship. No, this isn't the ideal relationship for most, but it can be achieved. And as for trust - trust and fidelity are two separate things. If both people are aware of what the other is doing then there is no break of trust. Again, when I've encountered these relationships, it's not usually a matter of the girl having outside sex because of her job, but usually it's an open relationship to begin with - where both parties enjoy the company of others. Now, you can judge the merits and morality of such a situation as you see fit, but when you're in your early twenties marriage and monogamy isn't necessarily forefront on your mind. I'm a little unsure as to your sentence regarding love, as I wasn't aware I discounted it or even mentioned it. Again, I was merely stating that many escorts have relationships outside of work, and if it works it works.
If a person can't handle the idea of another guy's dick in their girlfriend's mouth, then they certainly should never date an escort. If you're aware of what she does, and you continue to be in the relationship, then you cannot cry foul and claim a break in trust, because you know full well what's going on and chose to remain. Now, if you find out that you're girl is escorting behind your back, well, that's another story. Trust is broken when honesty fails.
And as for my usual level of intelligence, well...what can I say? I think you misunderstood what I was saying - but I am a little surprised at the remark you made considering I have always respected your opinions, even when you and Submissive Dave spiral downward into your pseudo-philosophical rantings.
DW
If a person can't handle the idea of another guy's dick in their girlfriend's mouth, then they certainly should never date an escort. If you're aware of what she does, and you continue to be in the relationship, then you cannot cry foul and claim a break in trust, because you know full well what's going on and chose to remain. Now, if you find out that you're girl is escorting behind your back, well, that's another story. Trust is broken when honesty fails.
And as for my usual level of intelligence, well...what can I say? I think you misunderstood what I was saying - but I am a little surprised at the remark you made considering I have always respected your opinions, even when you and Submissive Dave spiral downward into your pseudo-philosophical rantings.
DW
It has nothing to do with any relationships with men,it is either money,lack of job skills,maybe also have to have to be a little loose morality wise.Also many escorts have had problems at some point in childhood.Just an observation.I guess a good SP will create an illusion for the man she is with.Maybe also have to have an illusion of what is going on.Just some things i have heard and read.Most men are hobbyists for pure sexual pleasure.
What's the difference?
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And Denwa forgot the other "bullshit" like Love. How does one differentiate between fucking and making love when the act itself is the same?
Reminds me of a joke I once heard.
Q: "What is the definition of making love?"
A: "What women do while men are fucking them."
Da Fitz (67)
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And Denwa forgot the other "bullshit" like Love. How does one differentiate between fucking and making love when the act itself is the same?
Reminds me of a joke I once heard.
Q: "What is the definition of making love?"
A: "What women do while men are fucking them."
Da Fitz (67)
