If you were married, do you think your wife would be ok if you told her about your hobby? What would happen to your marriage if you told her?
would you tell your wife about your hobby?
- Thread starter piratepete
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Hobby? No honey, my hobby is collecting coins
Phone? Sweetie, that's my other work phone
Darling, I was trying to go to the Toronto Real Estate Board site.
Backpage - just trying to see if I can sell the old laptop
Busted, no but I have very close a couple of times
Phone? Sweetie, that's my other work phone
Darling, I was trying to go to the Toronto Real Estate Board site.
Backpage - just trying to see if I can sell the old laptop
Busted, no but I have very close a couple of times
Yes and I'd help her fasten the wire noose around my balls. No 1 for the dumbest question of the year. If I did tell her I'd be first on the Darwin Award list.
I'm not married. And I don't plan on being married and hobbying at the same time. But you should rephrase this question "Would you stab yourself in the nuts while simulateneously jumping off a building and still survive?"
Lets correct this.... Its should be "If you are married, do you think your wife would be okay if you told her about your hobby? What would happen to your marriage if you told her?"
IF were... who gives a crap as its over.
IF are... do you value your treasure box? that will be the first place a good swift knee or kick is going to meet and greet with your 3 buddies down there... and next is your wallet (divorce)
I'm not married, but even I don't tell close friends about my hobby.
Yeah, I gotta agree with everyone else. I don't think my wife would be terribly supportive of my hobby. I don't think I'll tell her.
Some outcomes are not as stated above... 
You really have to know the person to be able to pull it off. That being said, one more oops in the browser history and it is me nuts on a platter.:ballchain:
You really have to know the person to be able to pull it off. That being said, one more oops in the browser history and it is me nuts on a platter.:ballchain:
I saw a customer once who had a fiancé that was totally turned on by it. I didn't meet her - went to see him for an hour appt. and then he said she would come in after I left and they would have sex while he told her all the juicy details.
Oh man, no! But I'm sure others are in the same situation where there's no sex or interest in sex at home, but if she were to find out about me having sex with anyone else I'd be sleeping on the streets (or with the fishes)...
Bartender ... I'll have a shot of whatever he's drinking !
So .. in your dating scenario .. is it the first or second date when you tell her 'Listen ..you look great now but I just want your agreement that I can pay for better sexual pleasure when you are too busy doing my laundry to give me what I want.' ??
Samples of the downside of the heroic full disclosure approach:
I have seen a number of married couples and get requests from the wife herself once in a while. It's fun!
Unless she wanted to participate, which by all means.
That said, I have been to swingers clubs with my SO and I have fucked other women and she has fucked other men and I LOVED IT. I mean, I FUCKING LOVED IT. In a typical night at a swinger's club, I would have intercourse with her, then another woman, then another woman after that. Likewise, she would have sex with at least as many men. I've seen other guy's cocks glide into her pussy with her feet in the air and it turned me on for months. Unfortunately, she seems to have gone cold on it and it has deeply hurt me sexually. (Some fucked up sense of puritan guilt about what a relationship should be about.) Up until then, I thought I had the perfect sex life. PERFECT. I had found nirvana. There as no need to hobby as we cheated on each other together and it was incredibly erotic. (She has no idea how disappointed I am.) She completely let me down and (ironically) she has driven me back into the hobby. Before, while swinging, I had completely given up the hobby. There was no need.
But as far as hobbying solo goes, why the fuck would I do that?
No good will come of it.
That said, I have been to swingers clubs with my SO and I have fucked other women and she has fucked other men and I LOVED IT. I mean, I FUCKING LOVED IT. In a typical night at a swinger's club, I would have intercourse with her, then another woman, then another woman after that. Likewise, she would have sex with at least as many men. I've seen other guy's cocks glide into her pussy with her feet in the air and it turned me on for months. Unfortunately, she seems to have gone cold on it and it has deeply hurt me sexually. (Some fucked up sense of puritan guilt about what a relationship should be about.) Up until then, I thought I had the perfect sex life. PERFECT. I had found nirvana. There as no need to hobby as we cheated on each other together and it was incredibly erotic. (She has no idea how disappointed I am.) She completely let me down and (ironically) she has driven me back into the hobby. Before, while swinging, I had completely given up the hobby. There was no need.
But as far as hobbying solo goes, why the fuck would I do that?
No good will come of it.
My wife knows I see MP's from time to time, and she's cool with it. It started because I told her about a female co-worker who let her guy go once a month, and I thought that was a very cool attitude (and also piqued my interest in MP's) when i told her about it she agreed! I tell her once in a while when I go, othertimes not - probably one out of every 5 times or so. Whenever I tell her about it she likes to say "yup, I'm the best wife ever" now, to work on the SP thing.....haha
now, to work on the SP thing.....haha
If you were married, would you be ok with your wife fucking other men on the side? What would happen to your marriage if she told you she was doing it?
