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Why do Canadian women dress so poorly?

Plan B

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This has nothing to do with expensive labels...a women can look great wearing stuff she purchased from an outlet store on Orfus Road. It rather has to do with the attitude of women where they have to be "comfortable" I posed the "Can you dress up a bit" question to a woman I dated one time, and she stated that "I have to be comfortable in what I'm wearing". WTF?! Perhaps I should be wearing my New Balance running shoes to a date as well.

Sorry ladies...wearing denim jeans is not dressing up. Wearing a hoodie with a baseball cap and your hair in a ponytail makes you look like a teenage boy instead of a women. The situation does get better in Quebec, but not by a large degree.

Its just one more reason to look outside of Canada when you want a women with some style to get laid with.
 

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As Genevieve, likely knows, I don't think this statement applies well to Montreal.

Further, as a general statement, yes women from Eastern Europe, tend to be snappier dressers than most women from North America.
 

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Pretty well downtown business area beats suburbia and afterhours. My SO dresses well still, above average and still looks great, but is of European decent which may explain it. She really does not do casual, especially outside the house.
 

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People keep going on about brand names and trends, but to me, that is not the issue. Simply put, the majority of Canadian and North American men and women dress (in my opinion) overly casually, bordering on sloppy on a day-to-day basis. There is no sense of style and little in the way of taking pride in one's appearance.

For example, even when men here wear suits, they are often cheap, off-the-rack and untailored. Or ill-fitting baggy jeans for "casual" days. And yes, often following trends that have become long obselete. (Think: "Affliction"-style t-shirts.)

It would be a nice turn if more people in Toronto, Canada and North America just put a little effort into what they wear. It doesn't cost a lot of money, and it goes a long way - in every way.

And yes, I am a little superficial. ;)

/rant
The captain is correct. In Ontario, we (men and women) dress very casually, to the point of borderline sloppiness. In Quebec they dress 'nicer'. Look at business casual in Toronto. It has gotten to the point that anything goes. I guess I am showing my age. Also, look at any suburban mall around here, and the number of baggy sweatpants, crocs (I hate those things), etc.
 

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Its just one more reason to look outside of Canada when you want a women with some style to get laid with.
I was chatting with an SP a few days ago about what kind of women I like and she all of a sudden asked me: Do you need to stay in Toronto because of your job? She brought it up, I never said anything about Toronto or Canada or geography at all.

Toronto seems to be one of the most fucked up cities on the face of this planet for a womaniser. A guy I know just moved to Miami and now dating a 25yo (he is 40 but in good shape) who has a decent job and a house. In Toronto he was not able to get a fucking date since he left his wife a few years ago.
 

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I was chatting with an SP a few days ago about what kind of women I like and she all of a sudden asked me: Do you need to stay in Toronto because of your job? She brought it up, I never said anything about Toronto or Canada or geography at all.

Toronto seems to be one of the most fucked up cities on the face of this planet for a womaniser. A guy I know just moved to Miami and now dating a 25yo (he is 40 but in good shape) who has a decent job and a house. In Toronto he was not able to get a fucking date since he left his wife a few years ago.
American women are easier (for lack of a better word) than Canadian ones.
 

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We should never have given them the right to vote. Now they think they have another purpose in life then being eye-candy and fuck-dolls.

and don't forget the collar and leash.........................lol

on second thoughts i suspect some on here would enjoy that!!!!!
 

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We should never have given them the right to vote. Now they think they have another purpose in life then being eye-candy and fuck-dolls.

and don't forget the collar and leash.........................lol
This was very witty and funny and all, but I asked a few SPs recently would they rather be born a man or a woman. All of them picked "woman" without any hesitation. And I reckon that the reason for that is quite simple: man not only has no vagina to sell, but also need to buy one (or more).
If you think men and women are equal, try selling your wrinkled dick on the market.
 

Jennifer_

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We should never have given them the right to vote. Now they think they have another purpose in life then being eye-candy and fuck-dolls.

:sarcasm:
hehe - nice

Honestly yes - of the Eastern European and especially Persian women that I know - they do tend to feel less comfortable going comfortable with their clothing. Yes - it may well have something to do with gender equality. I much-prefer to have the option to dress how I like - thank-you very much.

I prefer to dress comfy most of the time because most of the time - I really can't stand guys making unwelcome comments or leering.... It's an ego-booster when a girl is 15 and looking for validation that she's hawt... but it grows old pretty-quick.

When I'm dressing comfy though - I'm not dressing sloppy.... I wear yoga pants and runners most days - I like my clothes to be form-fitting and flattering but seeing as I'm usually travelling the city via transit or foot - I'm not willing to dress in a way that limits my comfort.
This was very witty and funny and all, but I asked a few SPs recently would they rather be born a man or a woman. All of them picked "woman" without any hesitation. And I reckon that the reason for that is quite simple: man not only has no vagina to sell, but also need to buy one (or more).
If you think men and women are equal, try selling your wrinkled dick on the market.

Noppers... if you were to ask me if I prefer to be a girl or a boy - girl all da way baby... it has nutt'n to do with sell'n my pussy though... I like to have the option to wear pretty clothes and dress ultra sexy if I want and when I want =)
 

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hehe - nice
... if you were to ask me if I prefer to be a girl or a boy - girl all da way baby... it has nutt'n to do with sell'n my pussy though... I like to have the option to wear pretty clothes and dress ultra sexy if I want and when I want =)
um sorry it does not convince me sister...boys can wear pretty clothes and dress sexy for much longer than girls (think Michael Douglas in Wall Street 2 - girl of that age cannot dress sexy by definition because no one would want to have sex with her no matter how she dresses)

try coming up with an explanation that does not have anything to do with pussy power; until then I will assume that your preference to be a woman has everything to do with selling your pussy; by selling I of course mean not only for cash but also in exchange for taxable benefits
 

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um sorry it does not convince me sister...boys can wear pretty clothes and dress sexy for much longer than girls (think Michael Douglas in Wall Street 2 - girl of that age cannot dress sexy by definition because no one would want to have sex with her no matter how she dresses)

try coming up with an explanation that does not have anything to do with pussy power; until then I will assume that your preference to be a woman has everything to do with selling your pussy; by selling I of course mean not only for cash but also in exchange for taxable benefits
lol - you assume wrong sir

I like being a girl for a lot of reasons that are totally off-topic for this thread. No one who knows me would peg me as someone who uses her femininity to her advantage - I don't, (call me a hypocrite if need-be based on my profession - i liked being a girl long-before I sold my pussy lol).... I simply love being a girl.
 

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A person who cares to put time and effort into their appearance shows that they are confident. Many people "hide" behind an ugly outfit or haircut so they go unnoticed and can just mill in with the rest of society. Personally I prefer to surround myself with people who realize they deserve to look good, to feel good and that they can and do look good. That doesn't mean following all the latest trends or never wearing yoga pants and flat shoes, it means dressing appropriately for ones body type, taking care of your skin and hair, and basics like that. I know I feel a little more pep in my step when I've spent some time on myself and am feeling that I'm looking good.

I cannot say I never wear track pants or yoga pants, geez right now nothing but a robe, but I like myself, I like the way I look and when I go out I want people to see that. I don't need them to approve of me or my outfit but I want them to know I approve of myself. A person can look fantastic in yoga pants or a comfy outfit as long as they do it right and remember that there is a time and a place for wearing anything.

I think people, North American or not often opt for track clothing, clothing that fits poorly or an overall dumpy look because they've gotten to the point of not caring and not wanting to take a few minutes out of their schedules to spend on themselves. They shrug off the importance of appearance because they don't want to invest the time in themselves and often feel they aren't worth investing in. Saying I don't have time, I don't want people looking at me are excuses.

Well a lesson I learned... If I don't love myself and show that I do, why the hell will anyone else even want to bother to get to know me.
 

Plan B

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When I'm dressing comfy though - I'm not dressing sloppy.... I wear yoga pants and runners most days -
Yoga pants and runners are not exactly classy. These should be worn when going to the gym, not for a stroll. You've got a tremendous body..what an absolute waste.

Not to single Jennifer out here, but the mindset of the typical Canadian/Ontarian/Torontonian woman is "I'll wear whatever is comfortable, and I don't give a damn what men think"

We approach women, pay pretty much everything for women, and give them so much of our time and energy, that the least they could do is dress in a feminine way for us. I guess we are asking for too much. Its amazing how selfish these slobs(women) have become, after all we do for them.
 

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Yoga pants and runners are not exactly classy. These should be worn when going to the gym, not for a stroll. You've got a tremendous body..what an absolute waste.

Not to single Jennifer out here, but the mindset of the typical Canadian/Ontarian/Torontonian woman is "I'll wear whatever is comfortable, and I don't give a damn what men think"

We approach women, pay pretty much everything for women, and give them so much of our time and energy, that the least they could do is dress in a feminine way for us. I guess we are asking for too much. Its amazing how selfish these slobs(women) have become, after all we do for them.
argh lol

I'm not looking for a man to do anything for me! (and I'm not an ultra feminist type - trust me).

I'm sorry... but we don't owe the male gender eye candy. I don't owe the guys hanging out on Yonge St. and checking all the ladies out as we walk by eye candy. We can choose to (and if I'm in a situation where dressing to impress is required or in a situation where I want to dress up - I do), but sorry boys - if we choose to be happy and confident and comfortable ... that is our choice.

I live in an area of the city that has a lot of European men who hang out on the patios and check out the ladies who pass by. If I'm not with a male friend - I get inundated with "compliments"... so a couple of weeks ago - a group of older men made a comment and I just kept on walking. Sorry - me no likey the gang-oggelling stuff.... So guess what one of them shouted out as I passed-by? "Bitch!!" lol - seriously? I don't want to put up with that bs on a day-to-day basis.
 

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Toronto seems to be one of the most fucked up cities on the face of this planet for a womaniser. A guy I know just moved to Miami and now dating a 25yo (he is 40 but in good shape) who has a decent job and a house. In Toronto he was not able to get a fucking date since he left his wife a few years ago.[/QUOTE]

Agreed! It sucks to be single in T.O. Just smiling at someone in the elevator or saying hi, gets you a suspicious look. This should be its own thread.

With regards to fashion, I've traveled a bit and can honestly say that I think North Americans in general (with pockets of places that aren't) have some bad fashion. That goes for men and women. I think North Americans just don't spend the time to research into fashion and take the time in the morning. We work way more hours a week than other Western countries, we have less time off and vacation time than anyone else. Thereby, less time to put into fashion. Toronto in particular is worst compared to MOntreal and Vancouver IMHO, but it is no coincidence that a recent study came out saying we had the longest commuting times of any major North AMerican city. When you're time is spent commuting or putting in insane hours, fashion is the farthest thing from your mind. It's too bad. To change this would require a complete change in how our society operates in Toronto, Canada and North America.
 

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um sorry it does not convince me sister...boys can wear pretty clothes and dress sexy for much longer than girls (think Michael Douglas in Wall Street 2 - girl of that age cannot dress sexy by definition because no one would want to have sex with her no matter how she dresses)

try coming up with an explanation that does not have anything to do with pussy power; until then I will assume that your preference to be a woman has everything to do with selling your pussy; by selling I of course mean not only for cash but also in exchange for taxable benefits
Have you ever thought that maybe they like being girls because it's what feels natural/right to them. I like being a man, because I like having a dick and fucking women. I'm sure they have similar reasons.
 

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We approach women, pay pretty much everything for women, and give them so much of our time and energy, that the least they could do is dress in a feminine way for us. I guess we are asking for too much. Its amazing how selfish these slobs(women) have become, after all we do for them.
What are you talking about?

I don't think OP wants women to dress more fashionably but to dress more slutty so OP can leer at them.
 

Viggo Rasmussen

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argh lol

I'm not looking for a man to do anything for me! (and I'm not an ultra feminist type - trust me).

I'm sorry... but we don't owe the male gender eye candy. I don't owe the guys hanging out on Yonge St. and checking all the ladies out as we walk by eye candy. We can choose to (and if I'm in a situation where dressing to impress is required or in a situation where I want to dress up - I do), but sorry boys - if we choose to be happy and confident and comfortable ... that is our choice.

I live in an area of the city that has a lot of European men who hang out on the patios and check out the ladies who pass by. If I'm not with a male friend - I get inundated with "compliments"... so a couple of weeks ago - a group of older men made a comment and I just kept on walking. Sorry - me no likey the gang-oggelling stuff.... So guess what one of them shouted out as I passed-by? "Bitch!!" lol - seriously? I don't want to put up with that bs on a day-to-day basis.
That's what I like, a woman comfortable being herself and dressing for herself.

It's odd to hear some guys describe themselves as "womanisers", that's a negative label. They think women are there to be ogled, leered at and commented upon in public as if it was part of being a man. They actually think it's complimentary to them.
 
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