I like outcalls if I'm on the road, and I have some confidence an escort can be moderately discreet because I tend to stay in the same places. My issue with outcalls in Toronto (my home) is that: 1) My budget would have a hard time with the overhead if I was renting spaces, and 2) I've been in the same building, with the same neighbours, for a long time. They're good neighbors, and I'm friendly with most of my floor (if not actual friends). They'd notice stange women coming and going. (I have long random conversations with my landlord for Christ's sake.) While seeing escorts has been great, I don't want to be 'hooker guy'.