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Craziest Thing That's Happened to YOU on the TTC?

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Rockslinger said:
Slapping and yelling at a minor is child abuse and is a legally obligated reportable incident.

get real. you have never had kids is that right?
 

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Rockslinger said:
Please bear in mind that we are speaking of a 12 year old kid. Got to use words that a 12 year old understands. This whole "sexual abuse and/or harassment" issue is totally out of control. I use to work for a company that had a "no hugging" policy even between consenting adult huggers.
What is out of control actually is the sexual harassment, not the policies to try to stop it.

And I don't think that respecting other people's bodies and boundaries is such a difficult concept for a 12 years old kid to understand.
 
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genintoronto said:
What is out of control actually is the sexual harassment, not the policies to try to stop it.

And I don't think that respecting other people's bodies and boundaries is such a difficult concept for a 12 years old kid to understand.
not at 12- you are absolutely right.
 

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genintoronto said:
And I don't think that respecting other people's bodies and boundaries is such a difficult concept for a 12 years old kid to understand.
Hey Gen, you felt violated and I sympathize with you. Just bear in mind that a 12 year old is NOT LEGALLY responsible for his action. If you touched him, that would be assault and/or child abuse. In fact, if you touched an adult that would also be assault.
 

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Rockslinger said:
So sad. One of my friends had a summer job with the TTC for a couple of years. He was on the clean up crew. He said that there are many suicides that go unreported. In fact, when the subway is held up (ill passenger"), more times than not it is because of a suicide.
I remember listening to Mojo Radio, a few years back, and one of the callers was a TTC worker. He said that during the Christmas holidays there is generally one suicide a week.

He went on to to talk about the effect that it has on the drivers, and clean up crew. Really sad...
 

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Rockslinger said:
Please have a read of Section 72 of the Child and Family Services Act.
so the answer is you have no kids?
 
Young_City said:
I remember listening to Mojo Radio, a few years back, and one of the callers was a TTC worker. He said that during the Christmas holidays there is generally one suicide a week.

He went on to to talk about the effect that it has on the drivers, and clean up crew. Really sad...
I heard that the reason we don't "hear" about all these suicides is because the newspaper companies want to sell their product (Globe, Star, Sun, NP etc.) on TTC property and if they report the suicides, the TTC considers it bad publicity so... they elect not to report them in most cases... but what do I know...:eek:
 

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Rockslinger said:
Hey Gen, you felt violated and I sympathize with you. Just bear in mind that a 12 year old is NOT LEGALLY responsible for his action. If you touched him, that would be assault and/or child abuse. In fact, if you touched an adult that would also be assault.
I did not *feel* violated. I *was* violated.

And because a 12 year old cannot be held responsible legally does not mean he can't understand.

That being said, I did not slap him like I would have done if he was an adult exactly because I realized he was a kid and didn't feel OK slapping a kid.

But slapping a grown-up man after he groped me would not be assault - that's legitimate defense. The assault is the groping.
 
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Rockslinger said:
He should have held the child by the hand and in a firm stern voice say: "It is not polite to touch the nice lady's bum. Now apologize to the nice lady." Would it work? Don't know what works with kids anymore.
Yeah hold a 12year-old by the hand. :rolleyes:
 

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a few things come to mind... some funny and some not...
I remember a guy reading a hustler on the subway and some teenage girls get on and see what he was reading and started calling him every name under the sun.I thought he deserved it, just for being so stupid as to not try to be even a little bit discrete. But a couple of months ago I saw a guy reading a penthouse on the back of a St Clair bus going west and nobody, male or female, said anything but the people beside him did have that pained "I have to endure this idiot for X more stops" look on thier face.
Back in '89 I remember there was a TTC work to rule going on and bus were few and CROWDED. It was the 89 Weston going south. Bus stops and before I can get on, customer is calling driver names so they both get off bus. They fight and driver kicks the guys ass in no time. Guy gets up as driver is going back to bus and tries to hit him with his metal lunch pail. Driver decides it's time for round two and delivers another knockdown. This time guy doesn't say anything until driver is back on bus. And I get on thinking "this place is like the Wild West" but also mentally noting, not a good idea to lip this driver ever,LOL. At Dundas West I saw this big ape (who I still see occasionally on TTC berating this young East Indian at the McDonalds about how he should go back to where he came from, etc. This big guy is about 6'7" so he figures he can run his mouth with impunity but.... he failed to notice this black security guard see his racist tirade. The security guard was as tall but WAY bigger and more muscular. And he was pissed. Security guard get in racists face then nails him with a right hand that KO's him in one punch. Guys falls on his back and SMASHES the back of his head on the concrete. I think that he might be dead or severely injured but black guy is in such a rage that he doesn't even notice. He stands over the guy and is is screaming at the guy saying, "Say that to me fucker, say that to me" unaware that his oppenent is out cold. Anyway, I still see that big guy and he is still quite obnoxious... but after that security guard beat him up, I have never seen him say anything racist again. And as was mentioned before, I saw a guy huffing glue on the subway and he was so out of it he did not care where he was at all
 
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Rockslinger said:
Hey Gen, you felt violated and I sympathize with you. Just bear in mind that a 12 year old is NOT LEGALLY responsible for his action. If you touched him, that would be assault and/or child abuse. In fact, if you touched an adult that would also be assault.
Your series of posts in this thread are a perfect example of why society is so fucked up in regards to kids. And why kids are so out of control. The truest statement you've made was "Don't know what works with kids anymore." I'm not so sure you ever knew much of anything about them after reading your posts.

And seeing how you sidestepped the question about having kids it's quite apparent why you did.
 

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slurp said:
Your series of posts in this thread are a perfect example of why society is so fucked up in regards to kids.
Just trying to point out what are the LEGAL ramifications of hitting and/or yelling at a minor. Don't like the law, go complain to QUEEN'S PARK and the HOUSE OF COMMONS.
 

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Rockslinger said:
Just trying to point out what are the LEGAL ramifications of hitting and/or yelling at a minor. Don't like the law, go complain to QUEEN'S PARK and the HOUSE OF COMMONS.
Why don't you give them your kids to raise then? :rolleyes: See how messed up they'll be.

Some laws are too lax, and some go too far!

Parents bear a child, and choose how to raise them, not be told by the government!
 

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Rockslinger said:
Just trying to point out what are the LEGAL ramifications of hitting and/or yelling at a minor. Don't like the law, go complain to QUEEN'S PARK and the HOUSE OF COMMONS.
I think that is a valid point, just because a kid deserves a beating, does not mean you should always give him one - while people are watching. If I had been the Dad, I would have restrained my son, and apologized to the victim, and left the train at the next stop. Then I would make him regret his action. 12 years old is plenty old enough to understand that groping someone without their consent is wrong.
 

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C Dick said:
I think that is a valid point, just because a kid deserves a beating, does not mean you should always give him one - while people are watching. If I had been the Dad, I would have restrained my son, and apologized to the victim, and left the train at the next stop. Then I would make him regret his action. 12 years old is plenty old enough to understand that groping someone without their consent is wrong.
I agree with you there.

If it was my kid, that's probably how I would have dealt with it as well. I don't think that humiliating the kid in public -- whether is actions were wrong or not -- is necessary.

But he would certainly have been grounded for a while.
 

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This one time I was riding the TTC at midnight. I had been out at the bars and decided to head home early since I was feeling unusually tired. There was only one other passenger - an attactive female. I struck up a conversation with her and before I knew it she was groping and fondling my cock. She had unzipped my pants and was literally jacking me off (I always go commando, so no boxers/underwear to get in the way). She told me she'd seen me many times before and always dreamed of an opportunity to get me off. Wanting to possess the moment in all its glory, I gave way and splooged all over her pretty hands. She proceeded to lick her hands clean while telling me it tasted like candy.

Then I woke up.
 
Shaunhorny said:
This one time I was riding the TTC at midnight. I had been out at the bars and decided to head home early since I was feeling unusually tired. There was only one other passenger - an attactive female. I struck up a conversation with her and before I knew it she was groping and fondling my cock. She had unzipped my pants and was literally jacking me off (I always go commando, so no boxers/underwear to get in the way). She told me she'd seen me many times before and always dreamed of an opportunity to get me off. Wanting to possess the moment in all its glory, I gave way and splooged all over her pretty hands. She proceeded to lick her hands clean while telling me it tasted like candy.

Then I woke up.
LMAO... The whole time I'm reading this... I'm thinking ya right shaun in your farkin dreams... then... I got to your last last line!
 

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when i was 15, three black guys was trying to rob me of my pager and wallet in the back of the bus...i was fortunate some guy sitting a few seats in front of me was a off duty cop.
 
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Here's a laost and found story.

A guy I work with dropped his Ipod just as he was entering the subway car - went straight down through the gap - he was so pissed at himself when he got to the office!

Next day he comes in happy as a clam - the next day when he went to the same spot he looked down and there was his Ipod - he couldn't believe it was taken by the maintenance crew - he ran up to the ticket booth just to report it so when it was picked up he could claim it. The tcket collector asked him where it was and then told him to go back down and wait.

Five minutes later an inspector shows up - waits for the next train to leave and the shuts the power down and goes and retreives the Ipod - comesback and turns the power back on! And this was in rush hour!
 
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