Rockslinger said:Slapping and yelling at a minor is child abuse and is a legally obligated reportable incident.
get real. you have never had kids is that right?
Rockslinger said:Slapping and yelling at a minor is child abuse and is a legally obligated reportable incident.
What is out of control actually is the sexual harassment, not the policies to try to stop it.Rockslinger said:Please bear in mind that we are speaking of a 12 year old kid. Got to use words that a 12 year old understands. This whole "sexual abuse and/or harassment" issue is totally out of control. I use to work for a company that had a "no hugging" policy even between consenting adult huggers.
not at 12- you are absolutely right.genintoronto said:What is out of control actually is the sexual harassment, not the policies to try to stop it.
And I don't think that respecting other people's bodies and boundaries is such a difficult concept for a 12 years old kid to understand.
Please have a read of Section 72 of the Child and Family Services Act.red said:get real. you have never had kids is that right?
Hey Gen, you felt violated and I sympathize with you. Just bear in mind that a 12 year old is NOT LEGALLY responsible for his action. If you touched him, that would be assault and/or child abuse. In fact, if you touched an adult that would also be assault.genintoronto said:And I don't think that respecting other people's bodies and boundaries is such a difficult concept for a 12 years old kid to understand.
I remember listening to Mojo Radio, a few years back, and one of the callers was a TTC worker. He said that during the Christmas holidays there is generally one suicide a week.Rockslinger said:So sad. One of my friends had a summer job with the TTC for a couple of years. He was on the clean up crew. He said that there are many suicides that go unreported. In fact, when the subway is held up (ill passenger"), more times than not it is because of a suicide.
so the answer is you have no kids?Rockslinger said:Please have a read of Section 72 of the Child and Family Services Act.
I heard that the reason we don't "hear" about all these suicides is because the newspaper companies want to sell their product (Globe, Star, Sun, NP etc.) on TTC property and if they report the suicides, the TTC considers it bad publicity so... they elect not to report them in most cases... but what do I know...Young_City said:I remember listening to Mojo Radio, a few years back, and one of the callers was a TTC worker. He said that during the Christmas holidays there is generally one suicide a week.
He went on to to talk about the effect that it has on the drivers, and clean up crew. Really sad...
I did not *feel* violated. I *was* violated.Rockslinger said:Hey Gen, you felt violated and I sympathize with you. Just bear in mind that a 12 year old is NOT LEGALLY responsible for his action. If you touched him, that would be assault and/or child abuse. In fact, if you touched an adult that would also be assault.
Yeah hold a 12year-old by the hand.Rockslinger said:He should have held the child by the hand and in a firm stern voice say: "It is not polite to touch the nice lady's bum. Now apologize to the nice lady." Would it work? Don't know what works with kids anymore.
Your series of posts in this thread are a perfect example of why society is so fucked up in regards to kids. And why kids are so out of control. The truest statement you've made was "Don't know what works with kids anymore." I'm not so sure you ever knew much of anything about them after reading your posts.Rockslinger said:Hey Gen, you felt violated and I sympathize with you. Just bear in mind that a 12 year old is NOT LEGALLY responsible for his action. If you touched him, that would be assault and/or child abuse. In fact, if you touched an adult that would also be assault.
Just trying to point out what are the LEGAL ramifications of hitting and/or yelling at a minor. Don't like the law, go complain to QUEEN'S PARK and the HOUSE OF COMMONS.slurp said:Your series of posts in this thread are a perfect example of why society is so fucked up in regards to kids.
Why don't you give them your kids to raise then?Rockslinger said:Just trying to point out what are the LEGAL ramifications of hitting and/or yelling at a minor. Don't like the law, go complain to QUEEN'S PARK and the HOUSE OF COMMONS.
I think that is a valid point, just because a kid deserves a beating, does not mean you should always give him one - while people are watching. If I had been the Dad, I would have restrained my son, and apologized to the victim, and left the train at the next stop. Then I would make him regret his action. 12 years old is plenty old enough to understand that groping someone without their consent is wrong.Rockslinger said:Just trying to point out what are the LEGAL ramifications of hitting and/or yelling at a minor. Don't like the law, go complain to QUEEN'S PARK and the HOUSE OF COMMONS.
I agree with you there.C Dick said:I think that is a valid point, just because a kid deserves a beating, does not mean you should always give him one - while people are watching. If I had been the Dad, I would have restrained my son, and apologized to the victim, and left the train at the next stop. Then I would make him regret his action. 12 years old is plenty old enough to understand that groping someone without their consent is wrong.
LMAO... The whole time I'm reading this... I'm thinking ya right shaun in your farkin dreams... then... I got to your last last line!Shaunhorny said:This one time I was riding the TTC at midnight. I had been out at the bars and decided to head home early since I was feeling unusually tired. There was only one other passenger - an attactive female. I struck up a conversation with her and before I knew it she was groping and fondling my cock. She had unzipped my pants and was literally jacking me off (I always go commando, so no boxers/underwear to get in the way). She told me she'd seen me many times before and always dreamed of an opportunity to get me off. Wanting to possess the moment in all its glory, I gave way and splooged all over her pretty hands. She proceeded to lick her hands clean while telling me it tasted like candy.
Then I woke up.