If we can’t at least agree on how men and women see sex, then we likely won’t agree on anything.The sex worker that takes your observation to heart and decides to give up her current life for motherhood should read and listen to some of these comments to have additional perspective. Although many are already mothers, often escorting to pay their expensive costs, a great number of them will have happy child-free lives. Perhaps you have encountered relatively more “traditional” women in your life.
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And for what it is worth, I think mistakes sex workers are from backgrounds where a huge support system doesn’t exist. They have to take care of themselves and they do so entrepreneurially, and often do it well. But one practical issue with childrearing in today’s world is that a huge family support network is often needed to raise kids. That is why so many parents are burned out and stressed out to the max. Not sure getting married (to a make) and having some kids to raise is really a great answer for a large percentage of them, or that it would make them happier. Just my opinion.
You think the OP is naive for asking his question. Yet you imply that it’s the instability in the lives of women that pushes them to becoming SWs.
Traditional women or not, the underlying nature cannot be ignored. Our choices determine our outcome. If you choose marriage and children, it has its pros and cons. No marriage or children? That has consequences too.
The city life avails us the opportunity to live as we please because you get less judgment which is a good thing. But that has consequences too such as low birth rate, unhappy marriages which may cause mentally challenged adults that had to live through the trauma, and end up themselves, making just as bad or worse decisions.
Notice how I’ve not shamed women in any way and you still feel the need to defend them for some reason.